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January 26th, 2018 at 2:02:48 PM permalink
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Personally, I have no significant issues with the overall enforcement of the rules here, other than it often leads to the loss of posters who had a history of posting valuable, interesting things.

People will always gripe and disagree about rules and their enforcement: it's like you're the parents and we're the children continuously testing the boundaries.


Are you saying Nathan had a history of posting valuable and interesting things? Please, go on. The suspense is killing me.
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January 26th, 2018 at 4:59:45 PM permalink
Quote: RS

Are you saying Nathan had a history of posting valuable and interesting things? Please, go on. The suspense is killing me.

I think he is talking about guys like LarryS.
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January 26th, 2018 at 6:00:17 PM permalink
I had Mickey Crimm in mind when I made that point.
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January 26th, 2018 at 6:19:37 PM permalink
Ah, the guy with the star-spangled wallet and belt.
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January 26th, 2018 at 6:24:37 PM permalink
That's one thing I don't really like either. I mean, if Mark Twain were alive there's a fair chance he would already be banned forever.

Hey, he gambled, rather badly I hear, but he might be on here regaling us with gambling stories, until his urge to deliver profanity would get him ousted.

There's some people with good content who couldn't abide the rules and it's unfortunate they get kicked out.
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January 26th, 2018 at 6:53:45 PM permalink
Quote: MrV

I had Mickey Crimm in mind when I made that point.


Touché. The talk about Nathan threw me off.

Quote: AxelWolf

I think he is talking about guys like LarryS.


Larry who? Oh is he the troll that didn't know who Mayweather is but he thought he was good at sports betting or something? Lol.
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January 26th, 2018 at 7:55:45 PM permalink
Quote: MrV

I had Mickey Crimm in mind when I made that point.


I feel like the people on the banlist who were valuable posters all self destructed in one way or another.

Mickey Crimm obviously had issues with alcohol .... but I think death threats are about the most egregious violation on a forum, regardless of anyone’s sobriety.

Monet had said many times that he thought he had an unhealthy addiction to the forum. He choose to ban himself, then went on to prove that he probably had an unhealthy addiction to the forum.

What do you suggest is done in these types of situations?
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January 26th, 2018 at 8:06:03 PM permalink
Quote: gamerfreak

What do you suggest is done in these types of situations?



Your question, while seemingly rhetorical, deserves an answer.

A new section could be added to the board.

Allow those previously banned to post there, and there only, subject to current forum rules.

No comment allowed on any other threads by them.

If they err again, bounce 'em.

Those who learned their lesson and follow the rules can thus contribute.

Thanks for asking.
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January 26th, 2018 at 8:34:36 PM permalink
Quote: MrV

Your question, while seemingly rhetorical, deserves an answer.

A new section could be added to the board.

Allow those previously banned to post there, and there only, subject to current forum rules.

No comment allowed on any other threads by them.

If they err again, bounce 'em.

Those who learned their lesson and follow the rules can thus contribute.

Thanks for asking.


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January 26th, 2018 at 10:37:17 PM permalink
Ah, the box.

To make it boxier, if possible disallow non-registered lurkers the ability to view their posts; fix it so only registered members can read what they say and also post there.

That way if they go bonkers and piss all over the walls only registered members will get wet, and they know enough to wear a raincoat before entering.
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January 27th, 2018 at 1:12:46 AM permalink
Quote: MrV

I had Mickey Crimm in mind when I made that point.

Since you mentioned MC's name. I thought you might have been talking about him as well, I even started typing his name along with Larry's, but I quickly hit backspace.
I just didn't want to mention his name only to have a debate about the racist comments, stuff said on other forums and the mods having to delete posts for him.

If it were my forum I would probably make exceptions and he would be one, but that's just me.

There is one thing I know for sure If you want to stick around. Don't mess with the administration, especially not the guy running things.
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January 27th, 2018 at 7:51:01 AM permalink
Quote: AxelWolf

There is one thing I know for sure If you want to stick around. Don't mess with the administration, especially not the guy running things.



Indeed.

It's a modern day variation of that old saw from back in the day about not arguing withe the owner of a newspaper, which went something like: "Don't fight a battle of words with a guy who buys ink by the barrel."
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January 27th, 2018 at 9:35:44 AM permalink
Quote: gamerfreak

I feel like the people on the banlist who were valuable posters all self destructed in one way or another.

Mickey Crimm obviously had issues with alcohol .... but I think death threats are about the most egregious violation on a forum, regardless of anyone’s sobriety.

Monet had said many times that he thought he had an unhealthy addiction to the forum. He choose to ban himself, then went on to prove that he probably had an unhealthy addiction to the forum.

What do you suggest is done in these types of situations?



In the case of Mickey, hook a breathalyzer to his computer/phone? Lol. When he was sober, he posted great contributions.
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January 27th, 2018 at 9:59:57 AM permalink
Quote: tringlomane

In the case of Mickey, hook a breathalyzer to his computer/phone? Lol. When he was sober, he posted great contributions.


Last I read, on Mr 18 yo's in a row board, he said he was alcohol free for months(?)
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January 29th, 2018 at 9:21:05 AM permalink
A suspension for this post seems a little extreme IMO.

At least so far that's it's not something that hasn't been said to ZK before, or any other person/systems players that insists on something ridiculous.
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January 30th, 2018 at 1:57:17 AM permalink
Quote: gamerfreak

A suspension for this post seems a little extreme IMO.

At least so far that's it's not something that hasn't been said to ZK before, or any other person/systems players that insists on something ridiculous.



+1

Not sure how Rigadough could've said that anymore gingerly.
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January 30th, 2018 at 6:37:53 AM permalink
Quote: Mooseton

Quote: gamerfreak

A suspension for this post seems a little extreme IMO.

At least so far that's it's not something that hasn't been said to ZK before, or any other person/systems players that insists on something ridiculous.



+1

Not sure how Rigadough could've said that anymore gingerly.



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Ex 1. "Michelle Obama is a man"

Reply "you have major psychological issues

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Ex 2. "All casinos rig their roulette wheels with magnets

Reply "you have major psychological issues

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January 30th, 2018 at 6:48:20 AM permalink
Quote: darkoz

Ex 1. "Michelle Obama is a man"

Reply "you have major psychological issues

Admin: quiet



Give me a link and I'll probably issue a ban there too.
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January 30th, 2018 at 7:12:26 AM permalink
Rig was rude in the post and insulting, I agree. Can't agree with political bias. Don't see the point even getting into politics discussions either, it's all parrot soldier talk anyways.
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January 30th, 2018 at 7:56:59 AM permalink
Quote: Wizard

Give me a link and I'll probably issue a ban there too.


what if he said I think you have major psychological issues?

an opinion instead of statement with the added 'I think'
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January 30th, 2018 at 8:08:37 AM permalink
This issue, suspending for questioning the soundness of someone's mental health, is a bit of a tar baby.

Why would a statement of opinion of another's physical health, e.g. "I think your leg might be broken" be OK, but questioning one's mind "I think you have major psychological issues" be unacceptable?

Both question health; why the onus as to mental health?
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January 30th, 2018 at 8:23:35 AM permalink
A broken leg is obvious to anyone with eyes. But not a particular psychological affliction. Ironically, by considering the latter a matter of insult, we insult the psychologically ill in general.
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January 30th, 2018 at 4:06:58 PM permalink
Gambling possibly creates moods people wouldn't have otherwise have, could mimic mental illness. If someone loses a lot of money or wins a lot recently, they're going to be thinking and acting differently. Especially if they become broke and depressed, they might spend more time here, because they can't gamble, so you'll think something is wrong. Had things been good, they might not even be around, too busy, and you wouldn't know how they're acting to see their other side.
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February 1st, 2018 at 11:13:59 PM permalink
It looks like business is good for this thread so far this year.

Heres to all the guys who will and have recently returned.






A special shout out to Rigondeaux.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 11:36:49 AM permalink
Quote: darkoz

America is just too large and diverse to assume everything is the same or understood everywhere. I personally never heard that term and saw it as an insult until explained later. However if someone is familiar with that term they may not recognize it as an insult. The poster had a chance to explain it but didnt


Actually, he did explain it. Re-read the thread, if that helps.

Yesterday:
1:09pm
Quote: AZDuffman

Have you stopped beating your wife?




2:59pm
Quote: tringlomane

Excuse me?!?!? Who the HELL are you confusing me with!?!?!



3:18pm
Quote: AZDuffman

Confusing you with nobody, why?



3:49pm
Quote: terapined

WTF is this insult about?
Stick to the subject and stop insulting
geez



3:56pm
Quote: AZDuffman

It is not an insult. It is a reply to a loaded question with a loaded question.



4:09pm
Quote: tringlomane

Wtf??????? Do the mods agree with you???? I sure as hell do NOT!!!


Actually, both mods do agree with AZD, lol.


4:16pm
Quote: AZDuffman

If I insult you, you will know it.

Re-read your statement.

See how it is a loaded statement.

Then google "have you stopped beating your wife."



4:19pm
Quote: tringlomane

I don't give a crap about "loaded statements". You stated something insulting directly at me and now you're trying to backpedal!



4:30pm
Quote: terapined

His questions were political. That's the subject here. Don't like the question regarding politics, don't answer
but to come back with a vile personal insult regarding his personal life is disgusting



4:31pm
Quote: AZDuffman

Like I said, learn what is meant by the statement. A direct reply to your loaded statement. A way of saying "I ain't playing your little games."

You sound like the guy who was upset that someone called a city department a "Black Hole" and thought it was a racist statement. He said "Call it a 'white hole'." He did not know what the term meant and them looked foolish for complaining.

So, unless you beat your wife, there is no insult. Just a clever retort.



5:10pm, BBB understands it's not an insult, but it's an example of a loaded statement/question, but she notes it was received as an insult. In Alan Mendelson's case, the exact opposite happened -- instead of people getting suspended because he felt like he was insulted, he was basically told it doesn't matter if he feels like he was insulted, tough luck.
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I got the reference.

The other classic one was (to a child), "How did you feel when you found your daddy hanging in the closet, dear?"

However, it was received as a genuine insult, and not just by the person you addressed. The three pages since then you've had several opportunities to apologize. Instead, you've been condescending and rude in further replies about it.

WhIle RS tried to fix it for you, there has to have been derisive intent for you to write what you did AND defend it as you have. So, an insult by definition. 3 days.



5:13pm, Mission agrees with BBB that it's not an insult
Quote: Mission146

I don’t think it was meant as an insult. He’s suggesting you backed him into a rhetorical corner with a loaded question and he’s doing the same.

If you answer no, it insinuates that you once did the thing in question. If you say yes, it says you did and still do. The only way to escape it is to say, “I never did.”

EDIT: I guess Babs and I were typing at the same time. I support her decision insofar as you clearly took it as an insult and there was ample opportunity to apologize in the hopes of maintaining a civil discussion.




Yet, we can see AZD explained the situation within 1 hour of being questioned about it, not that he should have had to.




So, if I feel insulted, that is enough for someone else to be suspended, as long as I whine about it and that person doesn't apologize to me (not that anyone should have to apologize for a non-insult)? Even if that person says he wasn't trying to be insulting and explains what the comment actually means?

Jeez, and isn't this supposed to be the lesser-moderated threads on the forum?


PS: Tringlomane and terapined were both trolling to get AZD suspended. I'll post proof later (when/if I have time), but that's going to take quite a bit since the proof is pretty old.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 11:58:53 AM permalink
Quote: RS


PS: Tringlomane and terapined were both trolling to get AZD suspended. I'll post proof later (when/if I have time), but that's going to take quite a bit since the proof is pretty old.


I wasn't trolling
Even though I got suspended for calling 2 feathers a troll
I don't take your post as insulting me
I honestly thought AZ's remark was insulting and still think so
I don't think your remark is insulting even though I got suspended for making the same remark
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February 2nd, 2018 at 12:37:39 PM permalink
Quote: terapined

I wasn't trolling
Even though I got suspended for calling 2 feathers a troll
I don't take your post as insulting me
I honestly thought AZ's remark was insulting and still think so
I don't think your remark is insulting even though I got suspended for making the same remark



Calling someone a troll and saying someone is trolling is not the same remark. Come on, we've been over this.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 1:27:25 PM permalink
Did tringlomane ever answer AZD's question? (-;

Oh NVM, I see that he did.

It seems reasonable to me tringlomane hadn't really heard that joke before.

Most of us have.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 1:34:41 PM permalink
Quote: AxelWolf


It seems reasonable to me tringlomane hadn't really heard that joke before.

Most of us have.


I never heard it
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February 2nd, 2018 at 2:06:31 PM permalink
I have also never heard it before.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 2:36:37 PM permalink
You guys have to get better friends.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 3:06:34 PM permalink
Quote: AxelWolf

Did tringlomane ever answer AZD's question? (-;

Oh NVM, I see that he did.

It seems reasonable to me tringlomane hadn't really heard that joke before.

Most of us have.

I've read it no less than a bunch of times here at WOV.

So apparently nothing here goes to intent? Two mods said they didn't think it was an insult, and a member gets suspended.

AZ said, If "he was going to insult, than the other would know it." Which I believe. The mods as much are calling him a liar. Tween the 4 of them, well over 20 thousand posts, and this guy gets spanked, for a term I have read here plenty of times. No doubt, there is an ulterior motive.

I can imagine a lurker reading this and what they are thinking about, whether or not to get involved in the board? The old rules were more fun.

The only possible conclusion I can come up with, [because no one wants Tring insulted] is, its a conspiracy to get Az. away from the board when the "memo" was released.

If only Mickey hadn't threatened the Wiz.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 3:52:40 PM permalink
Quote: petroglyph

I've read it no less than a bunch of times here at WOV.

So apparently nothing here goes to intent? Two mods said they didn't think it was an insult, and a member gets suspended.

AZ said, If "he was going to insult, than the other would know it." Which I believe. The mods as much are calling him a liar. Tween the 4 of them, well over 20 thousand posts, and this guy gets spanked, for a term I have read here plenty of times. No doubt, there is an ulterior motive.

I can imagine a lurker reading this and what they are thinking about, whether or not to get involved in the board? The old rules were more fun.

The only possible conclusion I can come up with, [because no one wants Tring insulted] is, its a conspiracy to get Az. away from the board when the "memo" was released.

If only Mickey hadn't threatened the Wiz.

Let's just say the Mods were not put in a good situation. from BBB's and Mission's response it doesn't seem that this had anything to do with them being biased, it looks like they wanted to let it slide. It seems like they had a choice, give someone a 3-day suspension for something that may have been borderline, or risk losing a long time member who is usually respectful.

IIRC we lost AOS(one of my favourite posters of all time) because the mods didn't do enough to defend him. That was a big loss to this forum. Attracting new members is great, but let us not lose old ones for something like this, especially when a simple suspension will work. I'm sure AZ can handle it either way.

People might want to be careful. At some point, Mike might say he's had enough and just close down all the political threads. I think they keep them as a courtesy to us. I don't think they help this site gain online casino customers, and I don't think there are many long-time posters here that are hitting up online casino bonuses.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 4:10:24 PM permalink
Quote: AxelWolf

IIRC we lost AOS(one of my favourite posters of all time)



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February 2nd, 2018 at 4:51:28 PM permalink
Quote: RS


Jeez, and isn't this supposed to be the lesser-moderated threads on the forum?



The "Jeez" implies jest, but I feel a bit forced to respond...

I did go over this, and I'll say again - I, Face, with no input or permission requested, unilaterally stated a relaxed state of correction in the political discussion thread. Look for it, it's in there somewhere. I did it out of a genuine desire to allow discussion of what I thought was a very important topic. However, at this point in time, as I stated, I feel that the thread has devolved into a bit of a sniping pit, with little intelligent discussion and a fair amount of jab throwing. In other words, I feel it's a net negative, boymimbo's impressive posts notwithstanding. As I feel there is little fruitful discussion, so do I feel there is no longer a need to lax the rules in an effort to affect revelation. In other words, the thread is no longer different than any other, and is subject to the same level and type of moderation.

The rest of your post is well done, and if there is error, it escapes me. In fact, you can add me as #3, as I've also heard the expression and knew its intent the moment I saw it. In fact-fact, had I not been exposed to tring's conduct and candor for years, I might have been looking to suspend HIM as a trouble maker and pot stirrer, as his reaction struck me as so foreign so as to be fake. But in the end, I think Babs can finish this better than I ever could...

Quote: beachbumbabs


However, it was received as a genuine insult, and not just by the person you addressed. The three pages since then you've had several opportunities to apologize. Instead, you've been condescending and rude in further replies about it.

WhIle RS tried to fix it for you, there has to have been derisive intent for you to write what you did AND defend it as you have. So, an insult by definition. 3 days.



Here Babs nails dead balls on the issue. Someone was offended and the opportunity to allay that offense was kicked in the gutter. That's not what we want. I know there's a sect in here that hates PC; I include myself in that group. But this site does aim to be just that. It aims to be welcoming.

Remember when I wished death upon Jeff Bezos and a member "took offense"? I was incredulous over that; "my world" involves wishing death and threatening pain on people a majority of the day. If someone in my RL took offense, I'd likely laugh dead in their face and invite them to f#$% off back to the 'burbs. But this isn't my real life. This is WoV, where there are rules and a code of conduct. To be honest, "my wants" never even entered my mind. When someone showed what appeared to be real offense, I couldn't fix it fast enough. All we're asking is some effort to do the same. And the following is a great reason why...

Quote: AxelWolf


IIRC we lost AOS(one of my favourite posters of all time) because the mods didn't do enough to defend him. That was a big loss to this forum. Attracting new members is great, but let us not lose old ones for something like this, especially when a simple suspension will work. I'm sure AZ can handle it either way.



I thank you on behalf of my cohorts for your entire post. Support like this is appreciated, and I think you've got our intentions pretty well stated.

But I just have to say, and it is no way meant to be offensive to you, but... I killed myself for AoS. I cannot remember the amount of PM's just he and I had, but I can and will tell you I spent an easy 6 of his last months working on his issue every day, not only pulling in some of our more computer savvy WoV members, but using personal friends and even the IT dept of where I was employed in an attempt to assuage his fears and find some way to protect him. I not only exhausted every single avenue I could think of, but I continued working on this at least 8 months after he left, trying everything I could to do right by him even when it looked the game was already over.

I broke my ass for AoS. I was simply too ignorant in tech to make up for with effort, and I failed.
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February 2nd, 2018 at 4:54:28 PM permalink
I am so glad to be back! :) The sad thing is, I had a bad feeling about posting the thread that got me suspended for a week even before I posted it. Whatever logical brain I had BEGGED me not to post it saying,"There is already a thread mentioning this and you are the OP and it's not even a month old. It's a bad idea to post it! Don't do it!" My stupid self dismissed my bad feeling and posted it anyways and not only did it end up being closed shortly after, it got me suspended. Lesson of the day. Listen to your logical brain ;)
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February 2nd, 2018 at 5:00:53 PM permalink
Welcome back Nathan...;):(:/-=]
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February 2nd, 2018 at 5:07:20 PM permalink
Welcome back Nathan you Ken Try again now:)
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February 2nd, 2018 at 5:40:26 PM permalink
Quote: Face

The "Jeez" implies jest, but I feel a bit forced to respond...

I did go over this, and I'll say again - I, Face, with no input or permission requested, unilaterally stated a relaxed state of correction in the political discussion thread. Look for it, it's in there somewhere. I did it out of a genuine desire to allow discussion of what I thought was a very important topic. However, at this point in time, as I stated, I feel that the thread has devolved into a bit of a sniping pit, with little intelligent discussion and a fair amount of jab throwing. In other words, I feel it's a net negative, boymimbo's impressive posts notwithstanding. As I feel there is little fruitful discussion, so do I feel there is no longer a need to lax the rules in an effort to affect revelation. In other words, the thread is no longer different than any other, and is subject to the same level and type of moderation.

The rest of your post is well done, and if there is error, it escapes me. In fact, you can add me as #3, as I've also heard the expression and knew its intent the moment I saw it. In fact-fact, had I not been exposed to tring's conduct and candor for years, I might have been looking to suspend HIM as a trouble maker and pot stirrer, as his reaction struck me as so foreign so as to be fake. But in the end, I think Babs can finish this better than I ever could...



Here Babs nails dead balls on the issue. Someone was offended and the opportunity to allay that offense was kicked in the gutter. That's not what we want. I know there's a sect in here that hates PC; I include myself in that group. But this site does aim to be just that. It aims to be welcoming.

Remember when I wished death upon Jeff Bezos and a member "took offense"? I was incredulous over that; "my world" involves wishing death and threatening pain on people a majority of the day. If someone in my RL took offense, I'd likely laugh dead in their face and invite them to f#$% off back to the 'burbs. But this isn't my real life. This is WoV, where there are rules and a code of conduct. To be honest, "my wants" never even entered my mind. When someone showed what appeared to be real offense, I couldn't fix it fast enough. All we're asking is some effort to do the same. And the following is a great reason why...



I thank you on behalf of my cohorts for your entire post. Support like this is appreciated, and I think you've got our intentions pretty well stated.

But I just have to say, and it is no way meant to be offensive to you, but... I killed myself for AoS. I cannot remember the amount of PM's just he and I had, but I can and will tell you I spent an easy 6 of his last months working on his issue every day, not only pulling in some of our more computer savvy WoV members, but using personal friends and even the IT dept of where I was employed in an attempt to assuage his fears and find some way to protect him. I not only exhausted every single avenue I could think of, but I continued working on this at least 8 months after he left, trying everything I could to do right by him even when it looked the game was already over.

I broke my ass for AoS. I was simply too ignorant in tech to make up for with effort, and I failed.

Just so you know, I was not pointing any fingers at you or any moderator. TBH I don't even remember how it all went down. I just recall him saying something along the lines of, you guys chose a troll/sockpuppet over me.

If I had to guess, that was not the only reason he left, I think it was a myriad of things(not just stuff on WOV). That may have just been the tipping point for him. I have a feeling, sooner rather than later he would have found his way out. IIRC he had a history of leaving and coming back a few times?
♪♪Now you swear and kick and beg us That you're not a gamblin' man Then you find you're back in Vegas With a handle in your hand♪♪ Your black cards can make you money So you hide them when you're able In the land of casinos and money You must put them on the table♪♪ You go back Jack do it again roulette wheels turinin' 'round and 'round♪♪ You go back Jack do it again♪♪
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February 2nd, 2018 at 11:44:25 PM permalink
Quote: RS



Actually, he did explain it. Re-read the thread, if that helps.

Yesterday:
1:09pm



2:59pm


3:18pm


3:49pm


3:56pm


4:09pm

Actually, both mods do agree with AZD, lol.


4:16pm


4:19pm


4:30pm


4:31pm


5:10pm, BBB understands it's not an insult, but it's an example of a loaded statement/question, but she notes it was received as an insult. In Alan Mendelson's case, the exact opposite happened -- instead of people getting suspended because he felt like he was insulted, he was basically told it doesn't matter if he feels like he was insulted, tough luck.


5:13pm, Mission agrees with BBB that it's not an insult



Yet, we can see AZD explained the situation within 1 hour of being questioned about it, not that he should have had to.




So, if I feel insulted, that is enough for someone else to be suspended, as long as I whine about it and that person doesn't apologize to me (not that anyone should have to apologize for a non-insult)? Even if that person says he wasn't trying to be insulting and explains what the comment actually means?

Jeez, and isn't this supposed to be the lesser-moderated threads on the forum?


PS: Tringlomane and terapined were both trolling to get AZD suspended. I'll post proof later (when/if I have time), but that's going to take quite a bit since the proof is pretty old.



I'm a troll?????? When the hell did I EVER start ANYTHING here???????? If I was like the rest of you bickering back and forth, then I would completely expect AZDuffman's initial response toward me.

I'm sorry I ain't as smart as you Republicans apparently.

But when a comment about "beating your wife" is directed at me, I take that as an accusation, not as example of a "loaded question" or whatever. But thanks to this ever so polite forum, I now know that when I punch my girlfriend in the face that you're NOT accusing me of beating her! Sweet! And could it killed him to actually say, "Sorry if I misled you.", instead of telling me to #=#&!^* Google something? Oh wait, Trump never apologizes for anything either.

Screw it, bring your beloved AZDuffman with the Confederate flag avatar back. Mods, I'll serve the rest of this apparently "unjust" suspension for him, plus add the rest of the month for me. Because this forum is a shell of its former self anyway. Stupid bickering like this is why many, many members that post anything of gambling merit STOPPED posting here. This includes myself to a large extent...and that probably will become MUCH larger.

Maybe I'll find some piece of crap min wage job in the interim since I am one of those uncounted unemployed and can't probably find anything better with a PhD! The Republican way!

Thank you for those that defended my side, but I'm obviously pissed all over again. Even more than before. But I'm not a Goddamn troll!!!

Time to get wasted and try to forget about my miserable life.
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February 3rd, 2018 at 3:37:35 AM permalink
I was happy to see you start posting again and I hope you continue to. I definitely miss your trip reports. I guess I could check out the other forum but I am a monogamous type of person and too lazy to read multiple which is why I disappeared frim 2+2.

PS. If you go get drunk drink something good and not those weirdo beers you like ;-)
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February 3rd, 2018 at 4:09:38 AM permalink
Quote: tringlomane

Quote: RS



Actually, he did explain it. Re-read the thread, if that helps.

Yesterday:
1:09pm



2:59pm


3:18pm


3:49pm


3:56pm


4:09pm

Actually, both mods do agree with AZD, lol.


4:16pm


4:19pm


4:30pm


4:31pm


5:10pm, BBB understands it's not an insult, but it's an example of a loaded statement/question, but she notes it was received as an insult. In Alan Mendelson's case, the exact opposite happened -- instead of people getting suspended because he felt like he was insulted, he was basically told it doesn't matter if he feels like he was insulted, tough luck.


5:13pm, Mission agrees with BBB that it's not an insult



Yet, we can see AZD explained the situation within 1 hour of being questioned about it, not that he should have had to.




So, if I feel insulted, that is enough for someone else to be suspended, as long as I whine about it and that person doesn't apologize to me (not that anyone should have to apologize for a non-insult)? Even if that person says he wasn't trying to be insulting and explains what the comment actually means?

Jeez, and isn't this supposed to be the lesser-moderated threads on the forum?


PS: Tringlomane and terapined were both trolling to get AZD suspended. I'll post proof later (when/if I have time), but that's going to take quite a bit since the proof is pretty old.



I'm a troll?????? When the hell did I EVER start ANYTHING here???????? If I was like the rest of you bickering back and forth, then I would completely expect AZDuffman's initial response toward me.

I'm sorry I ain't as smart as you Republicans apparently.

But when a comment about "beating your wife" is directed at me, I take that as an accusation, not as example of a "loaded question" or whatever. But thanks to this ever so polite forum, I now know that when I punch my girlfriend in the face that you're NOT accusing me of beating her! Sweet! And could it killed him to actually say, "Sorry if I misled you.", instead of telling me to #=#&!^* Google something? Oh wait, Trump never apologizes for anything either.

Screw it, bring your beloved AZDuffman with the Confederate flag avatar back. Mods, I'll serve the rest of this apparently "unjust" suspension for him, plus add the rest of the month for me. Because this forum is a shell of its former self anyway. Stupid bickering like this is why many, many members that post anything of gambling merit STOPPED posting here. This includes myself to a large extent...and that probably will become MUCH larger.

Maybe I'll find some piece of crap min wage job in the interim since I am one of those uncounted unemployed and can't probably find anything better with a PhD! The Republican way!

Thank you for those that defended my side, but I'm obviously pissed all over again. Even more than before. But I'm not a Goddamn troll!!!

Time to get wasted and try to forget about my miserable life.



Thanks for providing some incite into your life and why you act like you do. I do hope you find what you seek though many of the minimum wage type jobs you are looking at now pay above that due to a lack of qualified candidates.

Can’t wait for the update on March 1st, assuming this “shell of it’s former self” forum survives without you.
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February 3rd, 2018 at 4:49:24 AM permalink
Quote: Hunterhill

Welcome back Nathan you Ken Try again now:)



Thanks for the welcome but I am not him and I would appreciate if the jokes stopped. :)
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February 3rd, 2018 at 4:50:14 AM permalink
Quote: mcallister3200

Welcome back Nathan...;):(:/-=]



Thanks for the welcome back. :)
In both The Hunger Games and in gambling, may the odds be ever in your favor. :D "Man Babes" #AxelFabulous "Olive oil is processed but it only has one ingredient, olive oil."-Even Bob, March 27/28th. :D The 2 year war is over! Woo-hoo! :D I sometimes speak in metaphors. ;) Remember this. ;) Crack the code. :D 8.9.13.25.14.1.13.5.9.19.14.1.20.8.1.14! :D "For about the 4096th time, let me offer a radical idea to those of you who don't like Nathan -- block her and don't visit Nathan's Corner. What is so complicated about it?" Wizard, August 21st. :D
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February 3rd, 2018 at 6:10:48 AM permalink
Quote: Nathan

Thanks for the welcome but I am not him and I would appreciate if the jokes stopped. :)

But the joke is on us.

p.s. Have you met Robert?
♪♪Now you swear and kick and beg us That you're not a gamblin' man Then you find you're back in Vegas With a handle in your hand♪♪ Your black cards can make you money So you hide them when you're able In the land of casinos and money You must put them on the table♪♪ You go back Jack do it again roulette wheels turinin' 'round and 'round♪♪ You go back Jack do it again♪♪
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February 3rd, 2018 at 6:52:21 AM permalink
Quote: AxelWolf

But the joke is on us.

p.s. Have you met Robert?



Who is Robert? :/
In both The Hunger Games and in gambling, may the odds be ever in your favor. :D "Man Babes" #AxelFabulous "Olive oil is processed but it only has one ingredient, olive oil."-Even Bob, March 27/28th. :D The 2 year war is over! Woo-hoo! :D I sometimes speak in metaphors. ;) Remember this. ;) Crack the code. :D 8.9.13.25.14.1.13.5.9.19.14.1.20.8.1.14! :D "For about the 4096th time, let me offer a radical idea to those of you who don't like Nathan -- block her and don't visit Nathan's Corner. What is so complicated about it?" Wizard, August 21st. :D
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February 3rd, 2018 at 7:51:45 AM permalink
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I'm a troll?????? When the hell did I EVER start ANYTHING here????????

I'm sorry I ain't as smart as you Republicans apparently.

Maybe I'll find some piece of crap min wage job in the interim since I am one of those uncounted unemployed and can't probably find anything better with a PhD! The Republican way!

But I'm not a Goddamn troll!!!



Ok? No one said you were.
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February 3rd, 2018 at 8:28:36 AM permalink
People need to stop listening to THEY and start thinking for themselves. There is no guaranteed roadmap to success. Just because you think your special means absolutely nothing.

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February 3rd, 2018 at 8:32:57 AM permalink
I thought it was a common example of a loaded question.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loaded_question

The Wikipedia article even calls it "the traditional example" as do several other sites which discuss loaded questions and other logical fallacies.
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February 3rd, 2018 at 9:44:23 AM permalink
Let me see if I understand this:

Tringlomane complained about being offended by a post by AZDuffman, to which both Babs and I responded stating that the intent was not to offend.

However, BBB realized that there was clear opportunity for AZD to explain himself and apologize to Tringlomane on the grounds that Tringlomane took offense to his post, but AZD did not take that option. At least, not directly.

My initial post on the matter was just the first two paragraphs of the post that is currently there, explaining why I did not see an insult there. I saw that Babs had fired off a post before me issuing a three-day Suspension to AZD for the causes she stated. While it is pretty clear that I would not have issued a Suspension, I saw here reasoning and agreed with it enough (it's only three days, anyway) not to challenge the Suspension behind the scenes.

Basically, not a Suspension I would have made, but also not one that I, per se, disagreed with. I wasn't really considering how Tringlomane took it, just whether or not I saw an insult there. (I didn't.)

Now, despite the fact that AZD was Suspended, we have Tringlomane flying off the handle and Suspending himself for a month because he was accused of Trolling by RS as well as the fact that several others disagreed with the Suspension over what us Mods already acknowledged wasn't meant as an insult.

So, now Tring has apparently Self-Suspended until March 1st, wonderful. Oh well, his choice.

Unfortunately, I'm going to have to also ask RS to provide whatever prove he has to back up his assertion that Tring/Terapined were Trolling, in his opinion. I don't know that it's an Insult, but making unsubstantiated accusations would definitely qualify as Trolling/Bullying in its own right, so I'm going to give RS 48 hours to post up whatever his, "Proof," is, from the time this post goes up.

I'm not going to require that I actually agree with RS about it, just that there actually be something that could reasonably lead RS to saying that.

As far as the, "Loose," Moderation of that thread, I still recuse myself from Moderating that thread (even though I've been participating lately) unless I see something really blatant.
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