So if she's 20 pounds under the target weight on that
day, thats fine, right? You can't mean she has to
weigh exactly the target weight on Oct 17th, thats
She has to be 160.8 or less on any time on October 17, witnessed by either the Wiz or myself.
Number 1, this is a public board and HB created a way to keep herself in the spotlight for 8 months ... by making it public, by having this thread, she gets all that comes with it ... her blog is hers to do with as she pleases, but this thread is not her little hobbit house.Quote: EuropeanHottie
NUMBER 1- This blog was dedicated to HB weight loss.. LOL in case u missed out on that part.
You come here to defend your friend ... I suppose it must have really stung her to send you in as her surrogate ... your friend has a clear psychological disorder that she fits like a glove. Whatever is driving that disorder, whether it's a self-esteem issue, or childhood sexual assault, or a fractured family life, or drugs and alcohol, or sexual identity issues, or whatever, that is what's driving the issues behind her weight problems ... to think that she can not get called on it is naive.Quote:
NUMBER 2- Why are you sitting on here and reaserching[sic] your own problems and issues and trying to put them on HB ?
What I know about H.B. is that one symptom is her weight, one symptom is her narcissism, one symptom is her victimization by someone she doesn't know who could be anybody, who happens to say a few casual observations on a public thread, one symptom is having enabling codependent friends like you. What the underlying cause is, that's what she needs to treat ... that's her problem.
Yes, I can see you really have your gloves on ... you really want a fight ... well, let me tell you this, your fight is going to be with yourself, because this is the only response you will get from me on this matter.Quote:
Are you seriously OK? How much time does a female that claims has a life and is not narcissistic have to spend trying to insult someone you never even met! You need to revaluate [sic] your own problems and back off! And I will be at the weigh in to support my friend and on mine and her behalf you are NOT invited until u change up that fake and perky attitude of yours..
Step 1 in a 12 step program is admitting you have a problem. Ms. H.B. hasn't even done that step yet -- without uncovering the real problem, how can she ever hope to keep off the weight she loses?
Step 1 in a 12 step program is admitting you have a problem. Ms. H.B. hasn't even done that step yet -- without uncovering the real problem, how can she ever hope to keep off the weight she loses? .
Gee whiz, the personal attacks are really uncalled for.
Just ignore it, HB. You're doing great and you feel good,
thats all that matters. I've dropped 60 or 70 pounds
several times in my life and you're past the hard part.
The first 6 weeks are the toughest and you're way beyond
Get a fucking life.
Thank you for caring enough to share that with me.Quote: HotBlonde
There, now I've made MY mental assessment of you.
You're welcome. Any time.Quote: DorothyGale
Thank you for caring enough to share that with me.
I always considered SOOPOO the referee on the details of the challenge. If forced, I interpreted the bet to mean that HB had to weigh whatever the target was on Oct 17. It is fine to meet the goal early, but I assumed she would have to maintain that weight until 10/17.
I'm in full agreement with this although you could add "...had to weigh, or be below, whatever..."