Quote: Dieter[If a tree violated the forum rules regarding multiple accounts, I'm unaware of it.
Oh, I think you don't grasp the subtlety of the dawg's "legal argument."
I believe he is arguing as follows: As the courts will allow attorneys to advocate for "rights" on behalf of inanimate objects, for example, trees, so surely justice warrants mercy and the unqualified right to argue on behalf of those in a higher class, i.e. animate beings.
But him equating someone who is presumably animate with a tree...that's really going out on a limb. *cough cough*
I think the better position is "There are consequences to what we say and do."
Quote: MrVQuote: Dieter[If a tree violated the forum rules regarding multiple accounts, I'm unaware of it.
Oh, I think you don't grasp the subtlety of the dawg's "legal argument."
I believe he is arguing as follows: As the courts will allow attorneys to advocate for "rights" on behalf of inanimate objects, for example, trees, so surely justice warrants mercy and the unqualified right to argue on behalf of those in a higher class, i.e. animate beings.
But him equating someone who is presumably animate with a tree...that's really going out on a limb. *cough cough*
I think the better position is "There are consequences to what we say and do."
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I'm already recognizing a difference between being disenfranchised and not being enfranchised. The withdrawal of privilege is key, and has implication.
Quote: gordonm888I've been away for a few days and have returned to see that many ignored my request to refrain from discussing Nathan and autism.
Regarding MDawg's statement that he is Nathan's representative:
MDawg:
1. Please make your statements and requests/ pleas to Wizard by PM. Wizard is gone for approximately one week; but simply "file your brief" with him on the Personal Message system.
2. If you continue to make public statements representing Nathan on this forum I will immediately suspend you for violation of Rule #16. Statements that represent Nathan should be made privately to Wizard, not publicly on this forum.
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1) Yes.
2) Wait a minute - All I have said is that I represent her and she would like to be heard. I haven't carried a single word from her to this forum otherwise so I "resemble" 🤣 your remark implying that I have been posting "the words of Nathan" on this forum (you used the word "continue"). I haven't even stated what her position is.
For example, every now and then people start posting about how so and so who was nuked should be reinstated (or not reinstated), is that against the rules? Come on.
What does "make public statements representing Nathan" even mean anyway? EDYSI.
I will PM the Wizard, will not post about this further until I hear back, and ask that you do not accuse me of something I have not done.
I just know you are not supposed to relay messages from banned members. That's what you have done.Quote: MDawgHow about actually reading all of what's written and not just a few words.
You (and a few others) said things of Tasha/Nathan here including things that had to do with her actions after leaving this forum.
She asked me to represent her in this matter, and to that end I responded to Gordo's musings here.Quote: gordonm888If someone on this forum posts (publicly) that a banned member, such as Nathan, has autism then it might be argued that this forum has some kind of obligation to allow her to return briefly for the purpose of defending herself.
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Wizard is gone for a short while, I don't know if in his absence his mods have the authority to rule on this sort of thing. Obviously if it is allowed, it has to be allowed with forum admin consent.
We certainly have precedent where it has been allowed. There was a nuked member from whom Wizard relayed a post in the past.
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Quote: AxelWolfI just know you are not supposed to relay messages from banned members. That's what you have done.
Cloaked in the robes of "Tasha's representative" or even "her attorney," does the dawg get immunity from rule 16?
"If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
FWIW, and perhaps in his defense, his actions in advocating on her behalf seem very much out of character.
There are rules against importing drama from other forums. i'm pretty much sure that would cover televising a trial over there.Quote: ChumpChangeI'm sure I wouldn't want to hear from any of you in the other forum you hang out at because it is so viciously dog eat dog with no moderation over there. Maybe you could set up a thread over there to describe the problem MDawg is describing lately and link to it here when it's set.
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Tasha has no standing here.
We should not discuss her mental health as a courtesy and moderators should enforce that. But that should be all the acknowledgement her existence gets here.
MDawg voicing her opinion as her representative would be a proxy for her speaking here. Forbidden. Not a hard concept.
If MDawg chooses to stick up for her as an advocate, that's different.
I had another tab open from weeks ago and got to the thread OK. Mr. V has nothing but harsh words to say, but I don't know law either, lol.
Hours later, I can't access the website. I get a message that says the website is not secure, just one level below dangerous. So my antivirus is keeping me off now, which is a new development.
Quote: MrVQuote: AxelWolfI just know you are not supposed to relay messages from banned members. That's what you have done.
Cloaked in the robes of "Tasha's representative" or even "her attorney," does the dawg get immunity from rule 16?
"If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
FWIW, and perhaps in his defense, his actions in advocating on her behalf seem very much out of character.
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To the best of my knowledge, such an exemption has not yet been granted.
Did I miss where a message was relayed?
(I am considering (paraphrase) "Karen-Nathan has something to say, if allowed" as a non-infraction.)
It went from us discussing a former member and speculating to us now hearing from that member as we now know her wishes.Quote: Dieter
Did I miss where a message was relayed?
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For him to be her advocate.
We shouldn't know this, it's a message relayed and we have now heard from that former member.
Quote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
Quote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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Were I in the position to officiate that point, I would not consider that as posting or relaying information on this forum from a banned member.
ZCore13
Quote: Zcore13Were I in the position to officiate that point, I would not consider that as posting or relaying information on this forum from a banned member.
BUT (and it's a big but) him saying she told him to tell the mods / us that she wants to be able to post here, for WHATEVER reason, is quite literally a prima facie violation of the rule.
Yes, he clothed the request in legalese but her request WAS communicated by him.
Anyway, the issue is clear, let's see what the Wiz has to say when he returns as to whether there are exceptions to rule 16.
Have you looked at all the evidence?Quote: Zcore13Quote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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Were I in the position to officiate that point, I would not consider that as posting or relaying information on this forum from a banned member.
ZCore13
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What if that banned member posted a message on another forum what their message basically was and what they wanted us to know? That message was relayed to us.
You don't The Mods can make decisions without his consent?Quote: MrV
Anyway, the issue is clear, let's see what the Wiz has to say when he returns as to whether there are exceptions to rule 16.
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What would happen if Axelwolf appeared and said Mickey Crimm had appointed him his personal representative?
How about if I announced I was kewljays personal rep and wished to communicate his POV?
Quote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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There's a lot to unpack there, but I'm going to focus on "Do not quote." I do not think there was a quote.
The WoV Forum would need to have normalized relations with Karen-Nathan to recognize any nominated plenipotentiary representative as such.
Forwarded posts are almost certain to be interpreted as some form of sockpuppetry.
Can mundane mods make decisions in Wizard's absence? Sure.
Are we likely to get scolded if we unilaterally reverse longstanding policy and leave an incoherent mess to sort out next week? Sure.
Do I want to wait? Seems prudent.
In the interim, I seem to recall a longstanding practice which gets paraphrased variously as "don't kick someone when they're down" or "don't antagonize someone who isn't here to defend themselves". (These are under the broader guideline of "try not to be a jerk".)
So... lay off.
So long as I'm not quoting previously banned members I can give the Forum messages from them? Let me guess we're going to have a wait-and-see and then make a new specific rule.Quote: DieterQuote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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There's a lot to unpack there, but I'm going to focus on "Do not quote." I do not think there was a quote.
The WoV Forum would need to have normalized relations with Karen-Nathan to recognize any nominated plenipotentiary representative as such.
Forwarded posts are almost certain to be interpreted as some form of sockpuppetry.
Can mundane mods make decisions in Wizard's absence? Sure.
Are we likely to get scolded if we unilaterally reverse longstanding policy and leave an incoherent mess to sort out next week? Sure.
Do I want to wait? Seems prudent.
In the interim, I seem to recall a longstanding practice which gets paraphrased variously as "don't kick someone when they're down" or "don't antagonize someone who isn't here to defend themselves". (These are under the broader guideline of "try not to be a jerk".)
So... lay off.
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And for the record, I think Mike's last decision regarding Mdawg and DarkOz was completely wrong if you consider fairness.
DarkOz never said who he was talking about. He basically got punished for being clever as they were focused on him finding a post from MDawg. It was obvious that DarkOz knew MDawg never said that in the first place, but he knew someone else had.
Dieter and I are in complete agreement about waiting for Wizard's return and about not wanting any public posts from anybody that report on conversations with Nathan in the interim. We also appreciate our retired moderators, OnceDear and Mission, for chiming in with supportive statements.
Dieter and I are in complete agreement about waiting for Wizard's return and about not wanting any public posts from anybody that report on conversations with Nathan in the interim. We also appreciate our retired moderators, OnceDear and Mission, for chiming in with supportive statements.
Nope.Quote: gordonm888The resolution of this incident may conceivably include modifying the wording of some rules, which is something that only the Wizard can do.
Dieter and I are in complete agreement about waiting for Wizard's return and about not wanting any public posts from anybody that report on conversations with Nathan in the interim. We also appreciate our retired moderators, OnceDear and Mission, for chiming in with supportive statements.
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For the longest time, it's not been allowed to relay messages from banned members here. You guys are trying to use some kind of technicality about an exact quoting of what someone said?
It's like we're dealing with unregulated online casinos here, use the technicalities when it suits you either way.
Quote: DieterQuote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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There's a lot to unpack there, but I'm going to focus on "Do not quote." I do not think there was a quote.
The WoV Forum would need to have normalized relations with Karen-Nathan to recognize any nominated plenipotentiary representative as such.
Forwarded posts are almost certain to be interpreted as some form of sockpuppetry.
Can mundane mods make decisions in Wizard's absence? Sure.
Are we likely to get scolded if we unilaterally reverse longstanding policy and leave an incoherent mess to sort out next week? Sure.
Do I want to wait? Seems prudent.
In the interim, I seem to recall a longstanding practice which gets paraphrased variously as "don't kick someone when they're down" or "don't antagonize someone who isn't here to defend themselves". (These are under the broader guideline of "try not to be a jerk".)
So... lay off.
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I can already tell you what Mike's going to say, it's going to be no. I had a conversation with him a few years ago about this, about posting something from somebody who is nuked and he said absolutely not. In fact it's a good way to get yourself nuked. The whole point of it is that person has no way to input anything into this forum and letting somebody speak for them would be circumventing that. Like you said they would be that person's sock puppet.
Quote: EvenBobQuote: DieterQuote: MrVQuote: DieterDid I miss where a message was relayed?
I don't know, did you?
Sure looks like it.
"Tasha/Nathan has appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary."
His reference to Tasha having "appointed me as her representative and requests the opportunity to defend or at least present herself at WOV, either directly or through a plenipotentiary" is quite clearly a violation of rule 16:
"Messages from banned members: Do not quote anything, neither public nor private, a banned member has said. If we ban somebody it means we don't want to hear from them any longer."
He says she told him whe wants to post here to defend / present herself, and he in turn violated the rule by telling us what she said.
His attempts to insulate himself from liability by donning the robes of her attorney or representative seem naught but a cheap trick.
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There's a lot to unpack there, but I'm going to focus on "Do not quote." I do not think there was a quote.
The WoV Forum would need to have normalized relations with Karen-Nathan to recognize any nominated plenipotentiary representative as such.
Forwarded posts are almost certain to be interpreted as some form of sockpuppetry.
Can mundane mods make decisions in Wizard's absence? Sure.
Are we likely to get scolded if we unilaterally reverse longstanding policy and leave an incoherent mess to sort out next week? Sure.
Do I want to wait? Seems prudent.
In the interim, I seem to recall a longstanding practice which gets paraphrased variously as "don't kick someone when they're down" or "don't antagonize someone who isn't here to defend themselves". (These are under the broader guideline of "try not to be a jerk".)
So... lay off.
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I can already tell you what Mike's going to say, it's going to be no. I had a conversation with him a few years ago about this, about posting something from somebody who is nuked and he said absolutely not. In fact it's a good way to get yourself nuked. The whole point of it is that person has no way to input anything into this forum and letting somebody speak for them would be circumventing that. Like you said they would be that person's sock puppet.
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In general, I agree.
That said, these matters are considered on a case by case basis, extenuating circumstances (if any) are considered... and I do think I'll wait and hear it from him.
Quote: AxelWolfNope.Quote: gordonm888The resolution of this incident may conceivably include modifying the wording of some rules, which is something that only the Wizard can do.
Dieter and I are in complete agreement about waiting for Wizard's return and about not wanting any public posts from anybody that report on conversations with Nathan in the interim. We also appreciate our retired moderators, OnceDear and Mission, for chiming in with supportive statements.
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For the longest time, it's not been allowed to relay messages from banned members here. You guys are trying to use some kind of technicality about an exact quoting of what someone said?
It's like we're dealing with unregulated online casinos here, use the technicalities when it suits you either way.
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As we have already stated, we are not yet ruling on this but have stated our expectation that Wizard will address this situation in about a week. You may also wish to examine the statements that you have made about Nathan in the past two days and consider whether the same charges could be leveled at you. And whether you have been using our forum to defame a private person who is unable to defend herself here and of discussing her personal medical history without permission. But we are not yet ruling on those matters either - you will have to wait a week.
Thank you for your patience.
Quote: EvenBobI can already tell you what Mike's going to say, it's going to be no. I had a conversation with him a few years ago about this, about posting something from somebody who is nuked and he said absolutely not.
That sounds about right.
Mike is generally kind towards Karen, but he has determined that she is not a member here. As such she has no rights to put messages here, whether by sock posting or by passing on notes.
Note that Karen has the clearest of backchannels to Mike, including but not limited to full posting rights and PM rights over on DT. If she really wanted to object to anything posted on one of 'Mike's forums' she could go straight to him. That she chooses not to might indicate that she knows she would get a 'no' from him.
Karen has had lots to say about her having been banned from here. When she has done so, she hardly ingratiated herself. Anyone interested in what she has to say, probably knows where to find her.
I DIDN'T RELAY A MESSAGE, I DIDN'T BREAK ANY RULES. I DIDN'T DEFAME HER. I WAS DEFENDING HER RELATED TO ZD's POST (as to why she feels compelled to do certain things.) SHE'S ADMITTED TO WHAT I SAID ABOUT HER. I was probably the first here to note it previously. I believe she wears it as a badge of honor, so don't even start with that BS trying to turn this around on me. And I have something else, but I'll need permission to bring that up. Had I thought she would've been upset with me saying it I probably wouldn't have said it.Quote: gordonm888Quote: AxelWolfNope.Quote: gordonm888The resolution of this incident may conceivably include modifying the wording of some rules, which is something that only the Wizard can do.
Dieter and I are in complete agreement about waiting for Wizard's return and about not wanting any public posts from anybody that report on conversations with Nathan in the interim. We also appreciate our retired moderators, OnceDear and Mission, for chiming in with supportive statements.
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For the longest time, it's not been allowed to relay messages from banned members here. You guys are trying to use some kind of technicality about an exact quoting of what someone said?
It's like we're dealing with unregulated online casinos here, use the technicalities when it suits you either way.
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As we have already stated, we are not yet ruling on this but have stated our expectation that Wizard will address this situation in about a week. You may also wish to examine the statements that you have made about Nathan in the past two days and consider whether the same charges could be leveled at you. And whether you have been using our forum to defame a private person who is unable to defend herself here and of discussing her personal medical history without permission. But we are not yet ruling on those matters either - you will have to wait a week.
Thank you for your patience.
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It just amazes me that some people here can blink funny and get auto-suspended, meanwhile, someone blatantly breaks the rules and you guys have to have a big executive discussion while scrambling around looking for outs not to suspend. Do your job and if Mike says it was wrong then give credit for the suspension.
He knew he wasn't supposed to relay that message, but he wanted us to know that he was gifted with being her liaison.
FYI I am not talking about myself personally, because I believe I have probably had fewer suspensions than I should've had.
Quote: DieterQuote: AxelWolfI don't think what I said was a personal insult, however, I'm willing to accept it is, but I don't think there's such a thing as calling it even on here. I suggest we both get 1 week off.Quote: EvenBobI take that as an insult so we're even.
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Before I even saw this "suggestion", my instinct was 7 days a piece. I seem to recall some mutual history of antagonism which merits penalty beyond the barest minimum.
Since I'm supposed to spell it out...
Axelwolf, 7 days, personal insult.
EvenBob, 7 days, personal insult.
There's plenty in the prior dozen posts, hopefully excerpts and permalinks can be foregone.
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A.Wolf has a history of claiming that he "saw this or that suspension coming," and then - after realizing that this is going to be a long or longer one, asking for even more time to make it seem like he's getting a lighter sentence than expected, demanding a martingale or longer sentence for both parties
kami kaze style, etc. etc.
But the bottom line,
Quote: MDawgAxelWolf and his constant suspensions are starting to resemble a Greek tragedy.
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Quote: MDawg
A.Wolf has a history of claiming that he "saw this or that suspension coming," and then - after realizing that this is going to be a long or longer one, asking for even more time to make it seem like he's getting a lighter sentence than expected, demanding a martingale or longer sentence for both parties
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(trimmed)
I had already settled on 7 days a piece about half a dozen posts earlier.
If someone is asking for self-suspension, they usually need to take a 30 day minimum.
Quote: rsactuaryLet's leave it up to BBB to decide if a one time exception should be made. She bore the brunt of her antics and the nukeable offense if I recall correctly.
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Yes, I did bear the brunt. Several very abusive posts, including calling me a c### (and many other things) for the first and only time in my life, and being treated very badly by Gordon and a couple others for enforcing rules I didn't make. That whole interaction was most of the reason I left, along withe caretaking my suffering and dying mom. (I'm guessing maybe Gordon as a newer admin might have a little better appreciation with how hard it is to be fair, kind, and honest...now.)
And now I find nathan has been reinstated. I haven't participated much since returning, but that is the straw that breaks my camel's back. She has no right to return, and there is zero reason to believe she won't just be the same problem she has been, including FIFTY or so socks since her nuking, which has lost us dozens of more deserving members for a single instance. What's the point of having admins or rules if it's not going to be equally run?
Best wishes to the rest of you. Play hard, play smart, and goodbye.
She nailed it: Nathan "has no right to return" under the rules.
And yet...she's back, blessed by the Wiz.
Does not compute.
Quote: MrVA piquant commentary by former moderator BBB.
She nailed it: Nathan "has no right to return" under the rules.
And yet...she's back, blessed by the Wiz.
Does not compute.
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We are just a bunch of malcontents.
Quote: beachbumbabsQuote: rsactuaryLet's leave it up to BBB to decide if a one time exception should be made. She bore the brunt of her antics and the nukeable offense if I recall correctly.
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Yes, I did bear the brunt. Several very abusive posts, including calling me a c### (and many other things) for the first and only time in my life, and being treated very badly by Gordon and a couple others for enforcing rules I didn't make. That whole interaction was most of the reason I left, along withe caretaking my suffering and dying mom. (I'm guessing maybe Gordon as a newer admin might have a little better appreciation with how hard it is to be fair, kind, and honest...now.)
And now I find nathan has been reinstated. I haven't participated much since returning, but that is the straw that breaks my camel's back. She has no right to return, and there is zero reason to believe she won't just be the same problem she has been, including FIFTY or so socks since her nuking, which has lost us dozens of more deserving members for a single instance. What's the point of having admins or rules if it's not going to be equally run?
Best wishes to the rest of you. Play hard, play smart, and goodbye.
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Good summary. I’m sure Nathan will pen a poorly written, intentionally childish, meaningless and insincere apology. Nathan showed exactly who and what she was in her interaction with you back then. Why anyone would think she is an asset to this gambling/math forum is beyond me.
Quote: beachbumbabsQuote: rsactuaryLet's leave it up to BBB to decide if a one time exception should be made. She bore the brunt of her antics and the nukeable offense if I recall correctly.
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Yes, I did bear the brunt. Several very abusive posts, including calling me a c### (and many other things) for the first and only time in my life, and being treated very badly by Gordon and a couple others for enforcing rules I didn't make. That whole interaction was most of the reason I left, along withe caretaking my suffering and dying mom. (I'm guessing maybe Gordon as a newer admin might have a little better appreciation with how hard it is to be fair, kind, and honest...now.)
And now I find nathan has been reinstated. I haven't participated much since returning, but that is the straw that breaks my camel's back. She has no right to return, and there is zero reason to believe she won't just be the same problem she has been, including FIFTY or so socks since her nuking, which has lost us dozens of more deserving members for a single instance. What's the point of having admins or rules if it's not going to be equally run?
Best wishes to the rest of you. Play hard, play smart, and goodbye.
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You are missed. I'm sorry that you were not held in high regard here. Your opinion and your work on the site mattered to me.
post implying that she is leaving now for good because Nathan has returned. She pretty much already left this forum 4 years ago.Quote: beachbumbabsgoodbye.
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As many (including the mods), have said, moderation at WOV is a thankless job, but since January 2021, with the "new, more moderate moderation policies" at WOV, it's probably an easier "job" than it was.
Quote: beachbumbabsQuote: rsactuaryLet's leave it up to BBB to decide if a one time exception should be made. She bore the brunt of her antics and the nukeable offense if I recall correctly.
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Yes, I did bear the brunt. Several very abusive posts, including calling me a c### (and many other things) for the first and only time in my life, and being treated very badly by Gordon and a couple others for enforcing rules I didn't make. That whole interaction was most of the reason I left, along withe caretaking my suffering and dying mom. (I'm guessing maybe Gordon as a newer admin might have a little better appreciation with how hard it is to be fair, kind, and honest...now.)
And now I find nathan has been reinstated. I haven't participated much since returning, but that is the straw that breaks my camel's back. She has no right to return, and there is zero reason to believe she won't just be the same problem she has been, including FIFTY or so socks since her nuking, which has lost us dozens of more deserving members for a single instance. What's the point of having admins or rules if it's not going to be equally run?
Best wishes to the rest of you. Play hard, play smart, and goodbye.
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Ugh this sucks. I guess I had assumed the Wizard had discussed it with you.
Quote: MDawgBeachBumBabs made a dozen posts in 2023, just under a half dozen in 2022, only a couple in 2021 (but posted constantly in 2019 and 2020). Hardly supports a January 2024
post implying that she is leaving now for good because Nathan has returned. She pretty much already left this forum 4 years ago.Quote: beachbumbabsgoodbye.
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Yes, I did bear the brunt. Several very abusive posts, including calling me a c### (and many other things) for the first and only time in my life, and being treated very badly by Gordon and a couple others for enforcing rules I didn't make. That whole interaction was most of the reason I left, along withe caretaking my suffering and dying mom. (I'm guessing maybe Gordon as a newer admin might have a little better appreciation with how hard it is to be fair, kind, and honest...now.)
And now I find nathan has been reinstated. I haven't participated much since returning, but that is the straw that breaks my camel's back.
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MDawg see above. Not sure what point you think you are making but your data just supports what Babs said already.
Nathan was nuked in May 2019.
Next thing you know people were getting suspended right and left by her, including for long periods at a time. So either people were getting worse and worse at violating the rules or she was getting heavier and heavier with her enforcement.
She bailed on the forum right around when Wizard announced the "new more moderate moderation" at WOV, and the martingale went by the wayside, in January 2021, maybe that is just a coincidence.
Quote: MDawgIt's hard to search for and find something on this forum even when you recall what was posted, but a few years ago I ran across the post BBB made when she was made a moderator and the thrust of it was that she intended to moderate / rule with a light hand.
Next thing you know people were getting suspended right and left by her, including for long periods at a time. So either people were getting worse and worse at violating the rules or she was getting heavier and heavier with her enforcement.
She bailed on the forum right around when Wizard announced the "new more moderate moderation" at WOV, and the martingale went by the wayside, in January 2021, maybe that is just a coincidence.
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Any particular reason you are being such a dick?
Quote: MDawgIt's hard to search for and find something on this forum even when you recall what was posted, but a few years ago I ran across the post BBB made when she was made a moderator and the thrust of it was that she intended to moderate / rule with a light hand.
Next thing you know people were getting suspended right and left by her, including for long periods at a time. So either people were getting worse and worse at violating the rules or she was getting heavier and heavier with her enforcement.
She bailed on the forum right around when Wizard announced the "new more moderate moderation" at WOV, and the martingale went by the wayside, in January 2021, maybe that is just a coincidence.
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I got suspended by her a couple times under at most borderline things. On at least one several people said it was not warranted. I cannot remember for sure but that probably happened with other folks as well. She proposed and made a rule that you would be suspended for saying "china virus." Meanwhile she got suspended on the other side more than once, one of them being personally insulting me.
She seemed to like suspending people, at least as far as I saw.
Quote: MDawgIt's hard to search for and find something on this forum even when you recall what was posted...
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An excellent reason not to insist on coaches challenges requiring searching the forum for old posts
Quote: MDawgI did not insist - you did. I gave you the opportunity to withdraw your claim before the challenge was confirmed.
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Now that has to be the biggest lie ever spouted on this forum.
I was quite vocal I didn't want to participate and even gave evidence there wasn't a forum rule to support the challenge only to be told rules were being stretched.
Furthermore when I won that challenge the ruling was then I lost for something not mentioned IN the challenge.
And anyway it's total chutzpah and BS to.file a claim and then say the other person insisted on it.
Quote: darkozQuote: MDawgI did not insist - you did. I gave you the opportunity to withdraw your claim before the challenge was confirmed.
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Now that has to be the biggest lie ever spouted on this forum.
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Right here " I gave you the opportunity to withdraw your claim before the challenge was confirmed."
Quote: MDawgI will accept a retraction of your statements, as untruthful (you made it all up), right now. I don't believe there is any such person anywhere who made such a claim, let alone had such a claim debunked.
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There was a gambler who claimed to beat baccarat every day of every week of every year
Eventually that claim was debunked.
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Or, we may let the Wizard rule on a Coach's Challenge.
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And in the very next post, you "just busted a gut laughing at that."
Then the very next post (the next day), Wizard confirmed the challenge.
How is what I posted a lie? I did give you the opportunity to withdraw your challenge.
And, by declining to withdraw your statement you were insisting on moving forward with the challenge.
You don't seem to be laughing much now, you still can't get over that you lost keep bringing it up.
And you should be suspended for calling me a liar. Not just for calling me a liar, but for inability to get over that you lost and blaming others (me, the Wizard) for your defeat. You keep bringing this up regularly as if it is anyone's fault but your own that you wrote a check you couldn't cover.
Quote: billryanDon't write a check that you can't cover. You said something. It was obvious who you were referring to. Back it up or accept the consequences. I'm not sure why that is difficult.
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Quote: MDawgQuote: darkozQuote: MDawgI did not insist - you did. I gave you the opportunity to withdraw your claim before the challenge was confirmed.
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Now that has to be the biggest lie ever spouted on this forum.
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Right here " I gave you the opportunity to withdraw your claim before the challenge was confirmed."Quote: MDawgI will accept a retraction of your statements, as untruthful (you made it all up), right now. I don't believe there is any such person anywhere who made such a claim, let alone had such a claim debunked.
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There was a gambler who claimed to beat baccarat every day of every week of every year
Eventually that claim was debunked.
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Or, we may let the Wizard rule on a Coach's Challenge.
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And in the very next post, you "just busted a gut laughing at that."
Then the very next post (the next day), Wizard confirmed the challenge.
How is what I posted a lie?
You don't seem to be laughing much now, you still can't over that you lost keep bringing it up.
And you should be suspended for calling me a liar.
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If I get suspended for calling your post that I insisted on the challenge a lie then Wizard can permanently nuke me.
That's my coach challenge to the Wizard.
At this point I will most likely be joining BBB.
The forum rules are unenforceable because they aren't even being followed by the moderaters.
And, by declining to withdraw your statement you were insisting on moving forward with the challenge.
Over all, if you can't get over that you lost an internet challenge and it bothers you that much, then maybe you should move on to different pastures.