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June 9th, 2018 at 7:39:50 PM permalink
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No worries. I imagine I probably sound identically ignorant in any weight loss thread. It's hard to get it unless you got it, ya know?

I know that it ain't over until it's over. On the "uphill" isn't over, or necessarily nearly over. It's truly over when you realize that that was just another part of it, another plateau, or level of mentally adapting. A defense mechanism. When we live with shockingly draining stuff for months, we absolutely forget how we felt before. You will know that you are recovered only when you are recovered, when your head is functioning normally, again.
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June 11th, 2018 at 10:02:01 AM permalink
Has this ever happened to you? I tapped a woman on her upper arm with my finger and she acted like I groped her. She shook, gave me a dirty look and was rude. It's not like I had any interest in this woman, I'd say she was universally unattractive. She was young(21-24), God only knows what the snowflake had been brainwashed to believe about such things. I was offended she was offended.
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June 11th, 2018 at 10:49:28 AM permalink
Quote: onenickelmiracle

Has this ever happened to you? I tapped a woman on her upper arm with my finger and she acted like I groped her. She shook, gave me a dirty look and was rude. It's not like I had any interest in this woman, I'd say she was universally unattractive. She was young(21-24), God only knows what the snowflake had been brainwashed to believe about such things. I was offended she was offended.


These days, just looking at a female that is walking on the opposite side of the street could be construed as sexual harassment.
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June 11th, 2018 at 12:47:33 PM permalink
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Has this ever happened to you? I tapped a woman on her upper arm with my finger and she acted like I groped her. She shook, gave me a dirty look and was rude. It's not like I had any interest in this woman, I'd say she was universally unattractive. She was young(21-24), God only knows what the snowflake had been brainwashed to believe about such things. I was offended she was offended.



Or she has been brutally raped before. You just never know ones situation.
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onenickelmiracle
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June 11th, 2018 at 12:56:50 PM permalink
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Or she has been brutally raped before. You just never know ones situation.

It's theoretically possible, but still not the proper reaction to an innocent person and innocent gestures.
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June 11th, 2018 at 1:16:10 PM permalink
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Has this ever happened to you? I tapped a woman on her upper arm with my finger and she acted like I groped her. She shook, gave me a dirty look and was rude. It's not like I had any interest in this woman, I'd say she was universally unattractive. She was young(21-24), God only knows what the snowflake had been brainwashed to believe about such things. I was offended she was offended.



That's the reaction of someone who has been beaten or assaulted. Rather than defaulting to "snowflake" looking to take umbrage, I would suggest you not tap on people (strangers) to get their attention. "Excuse me" when they're not looking, or going around to where you make eye contact, then speaking to them, would both work better than poking them.

Sorry, but these days, you're probably the rude one, though I don't recall it ever being polite to touch someone who's not looking at you. (Deliberately, that is - accidental contact should generate a "sorry" or "excuse me", too, but is more easily forgiven.)

It's an aggressive move that breaks into people's personal space. Little kids are forgiven it, but by grade school, it's not done.
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June 11th, 2018 at 2:52:40 PM permalink
Why would you tap a stranger on her arm?
onenickelmiracle
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June 11th, 2018 at 2:58:02 PM permalink
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That's the reaction of someone who has been beaten or assaulted. Rather than defaulting to "snowflake" looking to take umbrage, I would suggest you not tap on people (strangers) to get their attention. "Excuse me" when they're not looking, or going around to where you make eye contact, then speaking to them, would both work better than poking them.

Sorry, but these days, you're probably the rude one, though I don't recall it ever being polite to touch someone who's not looking at you. (Deliberately, that is - accidental contact should generate a "sorry" or "excuse me", too, but is more easily forgiven.)

It's an aggressive move that breaks into people's personal space. Little kids are forgiven it, but by grade school, it's not done.

What would be the frequency be of a negative reaction from someone you have already recently interacted with? I'd guess about 1/500, not a number I would consider high enough to reach the level of rudeness. I don't exactly remember, but I may have tried speaking with this woman to get her attention before I tapped her with my finger on the arm. It was after all, just a finger, not a penis. Aggressive my @$$, that's total bs. Warning given to you for putting the B in BBB and comparing me to a child.
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June 11th, 2018 at 3:14:05 PM permalink
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What would be the frequency be of a negative reaction from someone you have already recently interacted with? I'd guess about 1/500, not a number I would consider high enough to reach the level of rudeness. I don't exactly remember, but I may have tried speaking with this woman to get her attention before I tapped her with my finger on the arm. It was after all, just a finger, not a penis. Aggressive my @$$, that's total bs. Warning given to you for putting the B in BBB and comparing me to a child.


I can't get out of my head the image of you tapping a strange woman on the shoulder with your penis, and then her freaking out! ( I know... you said arm, but I visualised )

Seriously, were you behind her, or facing her? That might go someway to explaining. Anyone tapping you on your arm from behind might reasonably make you jump out of your skin or freak out if it came was unannounced. If you were facing her, I suppose you tried to get her attention verbally first?

Some ladies carry their bags on their arms and even if she wasn't, she may have been instinctively defensive.
I'd expect a slap if I did what I think you did, especially with a stranger of the opposite sex.
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June 11th, 2018 at 3:24:35 PM permalink
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I can't get out of my head the image of you tapping a strange woman on the shoulder with your penis, and then her freaking out! ( I know... you said arm, but I visualised )

Seriously, were you behind her, or facing her? That might go someway to explaining. Anyone tapping you on your arm from behind might reasonably make you jump out of your skin or freak out if it came was unannounced. If you were facing her, I suppose you tried to get her attention verbally first?

Some ladies carry their bags on their arms and even if she wasn't, she may have been instinctively defensive.
I'd expect a slap if I did what I think you did, especially with a stranger of the opposite sex.



just curious, when you visualized this said penis, was this a porn star penis or a don't take your shorts off in gym class penis?
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