BenJammin
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November 21st, 2010 at 2:53:15 AM permalink
My main gripe is people that have nothing better to do than to complain.

If you haven't got anything positive to offer, then please, go away.

My father said,"Never complain unless you offer a solution to the problem"

;)
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Martin
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November 21st, 2010 at 3:04:37 AM permalink
Oh - Kay And (wait for it) What's the solution?
JerryLogan
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November 21st, 2010 at 3:15:52 AM permalink
Since when was life all hearts & flowers? In my business and even at home, many improvements are made based on some of the complaints that I hear.

I think Ben's complaining. Solution? Leave.
FatGeezus
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November 21st, 2010 at 9:27:40 AM permalink
It's the "squeaky" wheel that gets oiled.
EvenBob
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November 21st, 2010 at 3:53:52 PM permalink
Quote: BenJammin

My main gripe is people that have nothing better to do than to complain.


;)



Complaining about complainers. One mans complaint is another mans brainstorm. The best inventions are born from others complaints.
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mkl654321
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November 21st, 2010 at 4:00:13 PM permalink
Quote: BenJammin

My main gripe is people that have nothing better to do than to complain.

If you haven't got anything positive to offer, then please, go away.

My father said,"Never complain unless you offer a solution to the problem"

;)



if you hear complaints, that doesn't mean that "people have nothing better to do than complain". I just made myself a BLT sandwich. Does that mean I have nothing better to do than make myself a sandwich? No. But I can't spend EVERY waking moment of every day saving humanity.

Your father was wrong, by the way. A complainant can call attention to a problem, and thus provide a valuable service, without necessarily offering a solution. Like the whistle-blower at Enron, or the Watergate security guard.
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mrjjj
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December 16th, 2010 at 5:01:13 PM permalink
Quote: BenJammin

My main gripe is people that have nothing better to do than to complain.

If you haven't got anything positive to offer, then please, go away.

My father said,"Never complain unless you offer a solution to the problem"

;)



"If you haven't got anything positive to offer, then please, go away" >>> I agree 100%.

Ken
dm
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December 17th, 2010 at 11:08:59 AM permalink
You have proven to have nothing positive to offer, so P,GA!
mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 10:04:26 AM permalink
Quote: dm

You have proven to have nothing positive to offer, so P,GA!




Said the guy with zero threads started. ROFL

Ken
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December 18th, 2010 at 11:05:35 AM permalink
Quote: mrjjj

Said the guy with zero threads started. ROFL

Ken



Saying "lol" or "rofl" after every sentence doesn't make what is said in such sentences any less untrue or invalid.
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thecesspit
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December 18th, 2010 at 11:55:15 AM permalink
Quote: mkl654321

Saying "lol" or "rofl" after every sentence doesn't make what is said in such sentences any less untrue or invalid.


You didn't (cough) first.
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December 18th, 2010 at 1:33:32 PM permalink
Quote: thecesspit

You didn't (cough) first.


The (cough) only comes after AP.

He's got 3 favourites: The (cough) the "lol" and "you can't have it both ways". He asks silly questions and then when someone doesn't answer his silly questions he comes back with a comment about how he asked an easy question and because you didn't answer it you're hiding and can't take the heat... and then he asks more silly questions.
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mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 1:40:17 PM permalink
Quote: mkl654321

Saying "lol" or "rofl" after every sentence doesn't make what is said in such sentences any less untrue or invalid.




Ok thats cool. What about this? >> Said the guy with zero threads started.

Ken (lol)
mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 1:46:23 PM permalink
Quote: TheNightfly

The (cough) only comes after AP.

He's got 3 favourites: The (cough) the "lol" and "you can't have it both ways". He asks silly questions and then when someone doesn't answer his silly questions he comes back with a comment about how he asked an easy question and because you didn't answer it you're hiding and can't take the heat... and then he asks more silly questions.




Wrong answer coolbreeze. If I had to pick a favorite, it would be...."you can't have it both ways".

If the questions are 'silly', dont participate, dont respond. I follow that rule just fine. Lets pick this apart. Why would someone RESPOND to a thread/post that has a QUESTION and then NOT respond to the question? It makes little sense. Usually (not always) when a person REFUSES to answer something, its not because he just doesn't feel like it, there is an AGENDA for not answering.

"and can't take the heat" >>> Very correct!

Ken
thecesspit
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December 18th, 2010 at 4:45:39 PM permalink
<delete>

People can respond in a variety of ways, for a variety of reasons, on a topic that they may want to contribute to the original post or something later on. And it may be to point out the question is indeed a silly one. This does not mean there is a secret agenda. It means they think the question is a silly one, and feel like saying so, rather than not answer.
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mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 5:04:49 PM permalink
Quote: thecesspit

<delete>

People can respond in a variety of ways, for a variety of reasons, on a topic that they may want to contribute to the original post or something later on. And it may be to point out the question is indeed a silly one. This does not mean there is a secret agenda. It means they think the question is a silly one, and feel like saying so, rather than not answer.



So if I ask if you like apples.....its ok to NOT answer the QUESTION but you tell me the history of the great state of Washington? (Washington apples) To you, that makes perfect sense?

Ken
thecesspit
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December 18th, 2010 at 5:19:45 PM permalink
In an online forum where the topic may meander around, and people pick up different things, sure. No-one has to answer your question in the terms you've laid out.

People may want to stay on the point, but as long as it's generally about Apples, it's okay. Or if the topic went to apples, then where they are grown, and the merits of growing in Washington over Oregon, then a discussion about state-wide apple laws, and how they came into being in Washington due to the history of the state... sure, why ever not.

The OP may have wanted a discussion about liking apples... he got something pertaining to apples instead.

I wanted a night out with Sherilyn Fenn when I was younger, and I didn't get that either.
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mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 5:25:57 PM permalink
I dont want to talk about apples for 6 days but......Sure, if OTHER info is *INCLUDED* with yes/no, do you like apples? I have no issue with that. My 'gripe' is when someone lays out 26 sentences and not ONE item of answering the ORIGINAL question. I find that odd but hey, thats just me I guess.

Ken
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December 18th, 2010 at 11:17:35 PM permalink
We are really wanting to know how you can post so many posts considering you have a restaurant you need to be running. You know the one you bought with your roulette winnings(cough). Here it is , Saturday night, where are you? At the restaurant??? Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Behind a computer arguing(cough) with the rest of us! I mean the least you could do is be at a casino spinning roulette gold! (cough)
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mrjjj
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December 18th, 2010 at 11:36:46 PM permalink
Nope, 1:35am. Just got home from the restaurant. Jealous? You should be. ROFL

Ken
mrjjj
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December 19th, 2010 at 9:11:27 AM permalink
Quote: DeMango

We are really wanting to know how you can post so many posts considering you have a restaurant you need to be running. You know the one you bought with your roulette winnings(cough). Here it is , Saturday night, where are you? At the restaurant??? Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Behind a computer arguing(cough) with the rest of us! I mean the least you could do is be at a casino spinning roulette gold! (cough)




Please quote correctly, thank you. It was around 80% of winnings (est.) Arguing? I love this definition. If I RESPOND to a post slamming me, I'm 'arguing'. lol

Ken
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