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February 26th, 2014 at 8:44:46 AM permalink
That's for the entire turnpike. AADRs comprise of an intersection to intersection basis. According to a 2006 paper, the busiest section of the Turnpike is the section between 13 and 13A (Staten Island - Newark Airport) at about 250,000.
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February 27th, 2014 at 9:09:11 PM permalink
Farmers’ Almanac more accurate than government climate scientists

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March 2nd, 2014 at 6:48:14 AM permalink
Definitely not a gripe here, but I had to do a double take when I came across this photo of Christie Brinkley. I'm sure she's had a lot of work done and uses the best makeup artists, but even so, does this look like a 60-year-old woman to you?!?!?

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March 2nd, 2014 at 7:14:17 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Definitely not a gripe here, but I had to do a double take when I came across this photo of Christie Brinkley. I'm sure she's had a lot of work done and uses the best makeup artists, but even so, does this look like a 60-year-old woman to you?!?!?

She's always been a honey, and, yes, she does indeed "wear her age very well".
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March 2nd, 2014 at 7:23:37 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Definitely not a gripe here, but I had to do a double take when I came across this photo of Christie Brinkley. I'm sure she's had a lot of work done and uses the best makeup artists, but even so, does this look like a 60-year-old woman to you?!?!?



She doesn't look 60 but she does look 50. Look at her right hand.

Christie still looks good because she let herself age gracefully. Some women do this and besides Christie I would say Julia Roberts and Sandra Bullock are the same way. They did not try to look 28 forever. OTOH Jennifer Aniston is beginning to look a little silly because she is 45 and trying pretend she is just 20/25 (pronounced "twenty-twenty-five."

The "classic" models on TPiR looked very good into their 50s. It was camera angles and make-up to be sure. Word was Mrs. Howell had it in her contract how they would shoot her as she did not want to look her real age. HDTV is making this harder to do.
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March 2nd, 2014 at 4:37:05 PM permalink
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I was in a casino last week and presented a ticket for $104.75 along with five quarters to receive a total of $106. The cashier informs me that she is not supposed to take more change than is required to get to the next bill and directed me to the coin counter with a 10% fee.



Read about short change artists. These guys can be really good and no doubt the rule is designed to protect minimum wage cage cashiers.

Here's a good example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WeLl4ZQjocA
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March 2nd, 2014 at 6:23:40 PM permalink
Quote: tongni

Read about short change artists. These guys can be really good and no doubt the rule is designed to protect minimum wage cage cashiers.

Here's a good example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WeLl4ZQjocA



I always bring coins and loose dollars on ticket amounts such as $98.97 or $15.74 because I hate carrying coins nowadays and I prefer $100s if possible. Cashiers sometimes get flustered and say let me pay you the ticket amount first. You have to think of it as every other money situation, nobody cares more about your money then yourself. You might think it's a simple transaction but the cashier really couldn't care less how much you are cashing in unless it is above the threshold for the casino. They would rather you give them a ticket or chip without adding anything extra.
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March 3rd, 2014 at 4:29:49 PM permalink
You gotta love the liberal hypocrites who opposed the Arizona law that protected religious people, especially after they applauded this type of discrimination 2 years ago:

Gay hair stylist drops New Mexico governor as client because she opposes same-sex marriage
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March 5th, 2014 at 12:53:48 PM permalink
3rd-Graders Caught Smoking Pot In Sonora School Bathroom

According to liberal logic, this is no big deal since marijuana is pretty much like health food.
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March 5th, 2014 at 1:04:36 PM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

You gotta love the liberal hypocrites who opposed the Arizona law that protected religious people, especially after they applauded this type of discrimination 2 years ago:

Gay hair stylist drops New Mexico governor as client because she opposes same-sex marriage



Please provide evidence of a liberal who opposed the Arizona law and also "applauded" this.
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March 5th, 2014 at 1:40:42 PM permalink
Quote: ams288

Please provide evidence of a liberal who..."applauded" this.

Read the "Comments" section at the end of this article:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/29/antonio-darden-susana-martinez-hairdresser-new-mexico_n_1310219.html
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March 5th, 2014 at 3:23:27 PM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Read the "Comments" section at the end of this article:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/29/antonio-darden-susana-martinez-hairdresser-new-mexico_n_1310219.html



Anonymous HuffPo commentators aren't a good example.

By that standard I could say conservatives are horrible hypocritical racists and just point to the comments section of any of a million right wing blogs for my proof.
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March 5th, 2014 at 3:26:57 PM permalink
Quote: ams288

Anonymous HuffPo commentators aren't a good example.

By that standard I could say conservatives are horrible hypocritical racists and just point to the comments section of any of a million right wing blogs for my proof.


You asked for an example of people who applauded that bigoted gay hairdresser. I gave you an example. The truth hurts, doesn't it?
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March 5th, 2014 at 3:31:37 PM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

You asked for an example of people who applauded that bigoted gay hairdresser. I gave you an example. The truth hurts, doesn't it?



I wanted a specific person. As in some liberal we would actually have heard of before. Taking down people who post on comment sections of partisan websites is super low-hanging fruit. But I shouldn't have expected anything more from you. lol
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March 5th, 2014 at 3:33:30 PM permalink
Quote: ams288

I wanted a specific person. As in some liberal we would actually have heard of before. Taking down people who post on comment sections of partisan websites is super low-hanging fruit. But I shouldn't have expected anything more from you. lol


Oh boy, changing the criteria now? Typical lib. You asked for a person, I gave you one. And now you're throwing a tantrum because you don't like the answer. lol
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March 5th, 2014 at 3:41:12 PM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Oh boy, changing the criteria now? Typical lib. You asked for a person, I gave you one. And now you're throwing a tantrum because you don't like the answer. lol



I'm just pointing out that you always post these random articles (this one from like two years ago) and proclaim "typical liberal hypocrisy! How can they do/say/support xxxxxx and then not do/say/support yyyyy?!" When xxxxxx and yyyyy typically have nothing to do with each other. In this case xxxxxx and yyyyy are related, but the only hypocrites you can find are in the HuffPo comments section. Great investigative journalism there.... Not. lol
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March 5th, 2014 at 4:23:03 PM permalink
Quote: ams288

...these random articles (this one from like two years ago).

You must be taking lessons from the shifty one because that was NOT a "random" article. It was posted at YOUR request for proof.


Quote: ams288

In this case xxxxxx and yyyyy are related, but the only hypocrites you can find are in the HuffPo comments section. Great investigative journalism there.... Not. lol

You'd actually have a point.....IF that had anything to do with what I had claimed (which it does NOT). Again, YOU asked for proof of liberals who applauded the bigoted gay hairdresser. I supplied the evidence. Now you throw a tantrum...lol
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March 6th, 2014 at 7:27:48 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

You must be taking lessons from the shifty one because that was NOT a "random" article. It was posted at YOUR request for proof.



Uh no. I was referring to the NY Daily News article from Feb. 22, 2012 that you randomly posted. Nice try though.
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March 6th, 2014 at 7:45:44 AM permalink
Quote: ams288

Uh no. I was referring to the NY Daily News article from Feb. 22, 2012 that you randomly posted. Nice try though.


Uh...now you're just making random complaints. FYI, did you even bother reading the title of this thread? I didn't think so...
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March 6th, 2014 at 8:24:08 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Uh...now you're just making random complaints. FYI, did you even bother reading the title of this thread? I didn't think so...



It just says something about you that you constantly feel the need to drudge up articles (some even being two years old) to attempt to bash liberals as hypocrites. Find a hobby or something.
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March 6th, 2014 at 8:46:47 AM permalink
Bashing liberals as hyporcrites *seems to be* his hobby. (avoiding insult criteria)
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March 6th, 2014 at 8:46:54 AM permalink
Quote: ams288

It just says something about you that you constantly feel the need to drudge up articles (some even being two years old) to attempt to bash liberals as hypocrites.

Guess you still haven't read the title of this thread. (Doesn't surprise me though) *facepalm*

(BTW, that 2-year-old article was brought up to prove the hypocrisy of liberals regarding an event that occurred LAST WEEK. Duh!)
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March 6th, 2014 at 9:11:57 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Guess you still haven't read the title of this thread. (Doesn't surprise me though) *facepalm*

(BTW, that 2-year-old article was brought up to prove the hypocrisy of liberals regarding an event that occurred LAST WEEK. Duh!)



Yes, we covered that. Hypocrisy of HuffPo commentors. What a hard target you hit there.
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What a hard target you hit there.

Well, you specifically asked me to do it, so I did. No need to get all mad just because I hit the bullseye...lol
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March 20th, 2014 at 9:02:57 AM permalink
Nobody is ‘born that way,’ gay historians say

Just as I thought. People aren't "born that way". And before anyone criticizes the article, the author is (ironically) gay.
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March 21st, 2014 at 6:44:24 AM permalink
More than half of the cigarettes sold in New York State are smuggled in from other places LOL!

...and it would be even more hilarious if the same thing eventually happened with legalized marijuana. :D
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March 21st, 2014 at 6:48:45 AM permalink
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More than half of the cigarettes sold in New York State are smuggled in from other places LOL!



How can that be….. smuggling cigs is illegal? :-)
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March 21st, 2014 at 7:08:46 AM permalink
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More than half of the cigarettes sold in New York State are smuggled in from other places LOL!

Guns, knives, gasoline, cigarettes, booze ... all by and for people who don't really think it is much of a crime. There are turf wars for cigarettes just as there are for heroin though.

It is enforcement and penalty driven. Not too many cops really care about untaxed cigarettes, nor do many DAs, so don't expect Judges to do more than slap an occasional wrist.
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March 21st, 2014 at 7:22:35 AM permalink
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Guns, knives, gasoline, cigarettes, booze ... all by and for people who don't really think it is much of a crime.



"Yup" he says, while smoking his untaxed smoke.

Have you ever had untaxed cigs and booze? They're delicious =)
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March 21st, 2014 at 7:36:06 AM permalink
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There are turf wars for cigarettes



There are turf wars for quite ordinary vending machines. I used to sell sodas from a vending machine [long story] and realized that you would not need very many you were servicing, that you could make enough to live on. Work just a few days a week.

You can't just put a vending machine just wherever you get a notion, however.
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March 21st, 2014 at 7:40:00 AM permalink
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It is enforcement and penalty driven. Not too many cops really care about untaxed cigarettes, nor do many DAs, so don't expect Judges to do more than slap an occasional wrist.



I always called the taxes on smokes in NY "The Mafia Full-Employment Act." It was always obvious this was going to happen.
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March 21st, 2014 at 8:29:47 AM permalink
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Quote: Beethoven9th

More than half of the cigarettes sold in New York State are smuggled in from other places LOL!



How can that be….. smuggling cigs is illegal? :-)



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March 21st, 2014 at 11:11:33 AM permalink
I think this is the correct thread for this..... I don't feel it necessary to start a new topic....but here is my bitch.

I am new to this gambling thing. And I really really like it. Now, many of my friends have ripped me for doing it saying its a waste of money. Blah blah blah.

Now, some of these same friends, are all excited about their trip to Dave & Busters tonight to play!

So, what I do is a waste of money, (Nevermind the fact that I could come home with more than I started.)

But its "fun" to pump quarters in an arcade game to hopefully get enough tickets to get some ear buds.

Yeah ok. Rant_OFF
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March 21st, 2014 at 11:33:54 AM permalink
Quote: Beethoven9th

Just as I thought. People aren't "born that way".



You are dead wrong here. I'm living proof. lol

Edit: Will you go on the record stating that you think being gay is a choice?
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March 21st, 2014 at 12:22:47 PM permalink
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You are dead wrong here. I'm living proof. lol

Welcome back. I should have known that your very first post back would be to me. You just can't keep yourself from responding to me, huh? lol

Anyway, it doesn't sound like you read the article I posted, so go back and read it.
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March 21st, 2014 at 4:23:36 PM permalink
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You can't just put a vending machine just wherever you get a notion, however.



Depends how well you can swim with cement shoes.
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March 21st, 2014 at 4:31:19 PM permalink
Quote: ams288


Edit: Will you go on the record stating that you think being gay is a choice?



Why not? No proof of a "gay gene" has yet been found. I would have more respect for the gay movement if they dropped the "born this way" mantra and just said they don't care whether others think what they do is right or wrong. But when you say "born this way" it really comes off as an excuse for something you would rather not be doing.
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April 4th, 2014 at 11:31:53 AM permalink
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Why not? No proof of a "gay gene" has yet been found. I would have more respect for the gay movement if they dropped the "born this way" mantra and just said they don't care whether others think what they do is right or wrong. But when you say "born this way" it really comes off as an excuse for something you would rather not be doing.



Saying it's a choice implies that gay people could be equally as happy with someone of the opposite sex as they could with someone of the same sex, but they've just chosen to go with the same sex. This is not at all true.

No one chooses their sexuality. Did you choose to be straight? If so, you'd actually probably be gay and just suppressing those feelings by "choosing" to be in heterosexual relationships.
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April 4th, 2014 at 11:37:45 AM permalink
Quote: ams288

Saying it's a choice implies that gay people could be equally as happy with someone of the opposite sex as they could with someone of the same sex, but they've just chosen to go with the same sex. This is not at all true.

No one chooses their sexuality. Did you choose to be straight? If so, you'd actually probably be gay and just suppressing those feelings by "choosing" to be in heterosexual relationships.



We are all "born straight." Deviation from that is the choice. No proof exists to refute this.
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:04:16 PM permalink
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We are all "born straight." Deviation from that is the choice. No proof exists to refute this.



Ok - prove it.
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:10:43 PM permalink
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We are all "born straight." Deviation from that is the choice. No proof exists to refute this.



Where is the first statement proved? I don't want to diminish the importance of sexuality to anyone, but I don't think it's much different than saying that we are all born right handed, and anything else was a choice. Don't believe that's true either.
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:13:27 PM permalink
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Where is the first statement proved? I don't want to diminish the importance of sexuality to anyone, but I don't think it's much different than saying that we are all born right handed, and anything else was a choice. Don't believe that's true either.



Yes - AZ's post was like the biggest logical fallacy of all time. Almost made my head explode.

I can't wait to see his proof that everyone is born straight. There's gotta be proof since that can't be refuted, right?!
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:15:22 PM permalink
Quote: ams288

Ok - prove it.



Prove what? No "gay gene" has been discovered. The burden of proof is to show it is genetic and not social.
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:30:20 PM permalink
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Prove what? No "gay gene" has been discovered. The burden of proof is to show it is genetic and not social.



Using your same logic I could say, "We are all 'born gay.' Deviation from that is the choice. No proof exists to refute this."

Right?

The fact that no evidence exists to refute something is not proof of anything.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_from_ignorance
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:44:50 PM permalink
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Using your same logic I could say, "We are all 'born gay.' Deviation from that is the choice. No proof exists to refute this."

Right?



Not really, because if we were there would be no reproduction and we would not be here to have this conversation. And not just in humans but across nature.
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April 4th, 2014 at 12:55:26 PM permalink
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Not really, because if we were there would be no reproduction and we would not be here to have this conversation. And not just in humans but across nature.



Usually differences confer more than one trait which may lend itself to advantages. The best thing about our differences is it provides advantages in different circumstances which leads to other ways to compete and survival itself.

I don't know what advantages every difference has. Albino tigers are more likely to be killed in the wild, but more likely to live at the Mirage. That's a joke. But the idea of how differences of any kind can turn to advantages or disadvantages is not a joke.

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April 4th, 2014 at 1:02:24 PM permalink
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Not really, because if we were there would be no reproduction and we would not be here to have this conversation. And not just in humans but across nature.



Wow. Talk about generalizing. *Most* people are born straight, but there is a small cross section of the population that indeed has a "gay" gene. Of course their blood lines would die out because they can't reproduce, which is why the gay population due to genetics is probably about 1.6% and why we see gay behaviours in the animal kingdom from time to time.

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Some (most, according to the study) people become gay by choice as well.

But when you account that there is a biological element to being homosexual, you really can't blame societal influences entirely, can you?

That would be just awful. Doesn't fit the FoxNews version of the "facts."
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April 4th, 2014 at 2:23:36 PM permalink
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But when you account that there is a biological element to being homosexual, you really can't blame societal influences entirely, can you?

That would be just awful. Doesn't fit the FoxNews version of the "facts."



Not sure what FNC has to do with anything.

I do blame them entirely. Now I will concede that there are certain traits that if not a majority a way higher than average behaviors homosexuals (males especially) tend to poses. One is what I have called here attention-whore behavior. This accounts why you have a disproportionate number of gay males in the arts (I assume we can agree that there are?) They love attention. When not on stage they still want attention, and to them affection=attention. As the amount of affection the average female wants is far lower than they want, well they decide they prefer gay. A second is a higher level of submissive behavior. Think of the stereotype flaming, lispy gay male. Females most often do not want such guys, they want the alpha-males. If the female cannot get the alpha, there are numerous beta males who while not the dominate male still give off an "in charge" attitude around their female. But the aforesaid lispy/submissive, well he is an Omega male. In the wild Omegas live a very marginal life. In humans they pair up.

This is just a couple traits, and not every gay male has every trait. But they all choose who takes them home at the end of the night.
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April 4th, 2014 at 3:49:26 PM permalink
It doesn't bother me that President Obama doesn't like the Republicans.

It doesn't bother me that he claims victories over the Republicans when he feels he has "won" on an issue.

It annoys the heck out of me that he thinks "spiking the ball" is how it should be done.

(I'm sure some other President sometime acted un-Presidential; they aren't President anymore. Stay focused on the one who is President today. He carries the banner for our country.)
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April 4th, 2014 at 5:33:58 PM permalink
Quote: AZDuffman

Not sure what FNC has to do with anything.

I do blame them entirely. Now I will concede that there are certain traits that if not a majority a way higher than average behaviors homosexuals (males especially) tend to poses. One is what I have called here attention-whore behavior. This accounts why you have a disproportionate number of gay males in the arts (I assume we can agree that there are?) They love attention. When not on stage they still want attention, and to them affection=attention. As the amount of affection the average female wants is far lower than they want, well they decide they prefer gay. A second is a higher level of submissive behavior. Think of the stereotype flaming, lispy gay male. Females most often do not want such guys, they want the alpha-males. If the female cannot get the alpha, there are numerous beta males who while not the dominate male still give off an "in charge" attitude around their female. But the aforesaid lispy/submissive, well he is an Omega male. In the wild Omegas live a very marginal life. In humans they pair up.

This is just a couple traits, and not every gay male has every trait. But they all choose who takes them home at the end of the night.



I do blame FNC entirely as well. (Joke re: your first 2 sentences).

Just a few thoughts about the above.

To give what I'm saying some background, I worked in professional theatre from 1977-1984; at the start of that, Rock Hudson and Liberace were still in the closet, gayness was still unknown to me and most of middle America on a first-person basis, but coming on strong. Effeminate boys prior to and at that time were beaten for sport, mocked and shunned, and almost all of them were married by 30. A good many of them had kids, and even after it became more acceptable to be gay, remained in a hetero lifestyle. So in my personal experience, your estimation of gayness = submissive/beta males would be inaccurate at best.

The reason I mentioned the theatre is that people who have been stereotyped, disenfranchised, shunned, and outcast are not immune to basic human needs of love and social acceptance, regardless of the reason for their alienation. I'm looking back over 35+ years of changing acceptance, and remembering that so many people found themselves in that creative, accepting island, out of the judgemental eyes of mainstreamers, back in the day. Not just gays, effeminate or not, but certainly an increasingly larger percentage of them over the years, due to acceptance and appreciation of what they had to offer, when most of the world (your world, it would seem) had turned their backs. So I think your cause/effect is incorrect as stated above; it's been an evolution over the years of a safe haven attracting those who need one.

I think the concentration in the arts and proliferation into television and movies also has more to do with the change from obligatory closeting to tolerance to a new normal of accepting people's differences, than the number of creative people who live that life. It's not that long ago that Ellen was fired for being a lesbian. Things change. Then again, Michelangelo, my personal choice for Best Artist Ever Lived, was gay. That didn't stop the Church from hiring him to do the Sistene Chapel. So, maybe creativity and homosexuality are somehow related after all. But it's certainly not new.

But then, you and I disagree on the fundamental question of choice. I do think it's biological, and that most people would not make that choice if they had one, when they become sexually aware in their early teens, even if they come to accepting and enjoying themselves later in life. The difference now is, there's a growing acceptance of people being honest about their sexuality, so the kids aren't quite so traumatized by their realizations. It would have happened decades ago, I think, if AIDS hadn't presented itself disproportionately in the gay male population in the early 80s; the religious backlash was ferocious and effective.

The flamboyancy you seem to especially dislike is, in my experience, usually an over-reaction by the person to the condemnation of homophobes; sort of a show of defiance. And, again in my experience, the flamboyant homosexuals were about 10% of all the gays I knew, not more, though any of them could "camp it up" for a party or a joke. Doesn't mean I haven't met gays in just about every job I've had. But more by proportion in the theatre than other areas I worked, though waiting table came pretty close.
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