Baccarat - Croupier Questions!
I also met my "Baccarat Master" friend again, his name is Mr. Wu, he's very sweet and today I met his wife as well who was playing the slots. He told me to contact him any time to talk about Baccarat so I will definitely be doing that. We had a good laugh when I told him I was watching the shoes "unfold like a flower". We didn't get to play together tonight but he left me with a few words of wisdom, he said, and I quote from memory ... "When you play Baccarat you have an opportunity to participate with others to make your contribution in creating something greater and more beautiful than each of you could manage alone. When you participate as a team you will not only nourish yourself, but will also contribute something precious and potentially profitable to the whole." He then told me to go Play and Enjoy! So cute!
Anyway, here are two croupier questions ...
At one point in one of my games, during a hand I had not participate in, the croupier paid Player when the Banker had won. I could see clearly that Banker had 7 and Player had 6, but I thought I was missing something. I looked around the table and a couple of the guys looked back at me as if to say "shut up lady, don't say a word". Well I didn't have to. Once the croupier paid everyone out, he picked up the cards and realized his mistake. He called one of the managers over, told her his mistake and asked everyone to return the money he had paid out. A couple of the guys didn't want to do it, but there was no fuss, the winners returned the money. Did they have to? I would've returned the money without question, but were they obligated to return the chips after being paid out?
My second question has to do with a handsome croupier I met at the casino tonight. I was watching him deal Pai Gow Poker to one man at his table. He asked me to sit down, but I told him I didn't know how to play, so he very kindly started explaining. The player at the table was done so he got up and left, leaving me and the handsome croupier to talk for a couple of minutes. I guess it was time for his break, we said bye and I walked away. He caught up with me and asked for my number, that we could talk about Baccarat or he would teach me Pai Gow Poker or any other game. It was a sweet approach, he didn't come on strong or anything, but the way he was speaking to me, almost felt as if he was doing something wrong, made me wonder if croupiers aren't supposed to hit on players at the casino. So is this ok behavior or could he get in trouble?
Quote: AnabelleT"When you play Baccarat you have an opportunity to participate with others to make your contribution in creating something greater and more beautiful than each of you could manage alone. When you participate as a team you will not only nourish yourself, but will also contribute something precious and potentially profitable to the whole."?
You lead a charmed life. Old Chinaman/zen master
to teach you, a handsome dealer asks you out, you
always have a great time and win by betting what
the others bet. Yup, you're living the casino dream
others only fantasize about..
I envy you. I've played bac on and off for years
and the only old Chinamen I've heard talk like
that were on the TV show Kung Fu. It's uncanny,
the resemblance.
Quote: EvenBobYou lead a charmed life. Old Chinaman/zen master
to teach you, a handsome dealer asks you out, you
always have a great time and win by betting what
the others bet. Yup, you're living the casino dream
others only fantasize about..
My life is very normal to be honest. I get asked out, most of my friends do as well, nothing real new there. My winnings tonight were minimal. I was playing with $500 (seems I keep increasing my risk, oh well) and I came out with an extra $40 or so. Nothing to quit your job over and nothing super exciting. I would've continued playing, but I felt I wanted to come home ahead tonight. I know I will lose for the night sometime, and I'm ok with that. The whole thing is so exciting though. To be clear about betting what others were betting, I made a couple of bets and a couple of them bet along with me as well, it was a nice, though for the most part I was following their lead. They just seemed to know what they were doing with their charts and everything. Fun :) The Chinese man is a real character, he's always smiling and enjoying his life it seems. I get the feeling he's putting on a bit of an act with me, but it's so sweet I don't care. He's much older than me, and therefore has more life experience. I respect the elderly and his words do contain the kind of wisdom I appreciate hearing. Just sweet.
Quote: AnabelleT"When you play Baccarat you have an opportunity to participate with others to make your contribution in creating something greater and more beautiful than each of you could manage alone. When you participate as a team you will not only nourish yourself, but will also contribute something precious and potentially profitable to the whole."
Do you want me to puke? I'm sure he is a nice old man, but the advice is worthless.
Quote:...A couple of the guys didn't want to do it,
I don't see why so many people leave their ethics by the door when entering the casino. Or maybe these guys have none to begin with.
Quote:...but the way he was speaking to me, almost felt as if he was doing something wrong, made me wonder if croupiers aren't supposed to hit on players at the casino. So is this ok behavior or could he get in trouble?
I've never been a dealer, but I think that would have been frowned upon at the table by management. On his own time, if done discretely, is probably okay.
Quote: WizardDo you want me to puke? I'm sure he is a nice old man, but the advice is worthless. .
Hey, I'm positive Master Po gave the exact same
advice to Grasshopper on Kung Fu. Just before
he him in the face with his staff.
Quote: WizardDo you want me to puke? I'm sure he is a nice old man, but the advice is worthless.
I don't see why so many people leave their ethics by the door when entering the casino. Or maybe these guys have none to begin with.
I've never been a dealer, but I think that would have been frowned upon at the table by management. On his own time, if done discretely, is probably okay.
Lol, please don't puke!! Yes he's a nice old man and he enjoys his words of wisdom, let him have his fun.
I was going to say something to the croupier, the poor guy almost made a huge mistake, but yes, a couple of the guys at the table were very hesitant to give the chips back, but they did, without a fuss.
To be fair, the croupier who asked for my number was not at his table, he had gone on break. I guess we happened to be walking the same direction, so he caught up to me and asked.
Quote: AnabelleTThe Chinese man is a real character, he's always smiling and enjoying his life it seems..
Is this him?
Quote: EvenBobIs this him?
LOL! But no.
Quote: EvenBobIs this him?
that pic is sooooooo cute........soooooooo awesome.
It made me laugh and cheer
I wonder if he called the OP "grasshopper"
or maybe taught her the "wax on wax off" move.
OMG OMG
A man like in the picture you posted once came up to me at the casino 20 years ago and said the following....which i quote from memory
" playing craps is equivalent to taking a sip from the nutrient broth of life, the dice are nothing more than the spirit of kinetic energy lofting through the synapses of obtuse serenity"
then just like that he was gone
and so was my wallet.
OMG
So what if they don't share your knowledge on gaming or your infinite sage like wisdom?
If we cannot treat everyone here with respect (such as it states in the rules) then you had better include a gaming IQ test or a general IQ test in the application for new members........
Otherwise let people be. if you don't agree or find it stupid or funny or dumb, just block the thread!!!!
Man, smart people can sometimes be very hard to deal with..............
Quote: TomspurCan we seriously stop treating new posters like children?!?!?!?
....
Can't we all just get along? Can't we all just be
exactly the same in all our responses to everybody?
A happy, groovy, wholesome bunch of goodie
good goodies.
Or we can just be ourselves. I vote for that.
Quote: TomspurCan we seriously stop treating new posters like children?!?!?!?
So what if they don't share your knowledge on gaming or your infinite sage like wisdom?
If we cannot treat everyone here with respect (such as it states in the rules) then you had better include a gaming IQ test or a general IQ test in the application for new members........
Otherwise let people be. if you don't agree or find it stupid or funny or dumb, just block the thread!!!!
Man, smart people can sometimes be very hard to deal with..............
OMG OMG
you are sooooooo on the money.
It reminds me of a male dealer at craps 30 yers ago. He followed me to the mens room, and OMG, he stood at the urinal next to me. I caught him peeking down at me. He seemed impressed. He left me his phone number he said when off duty he was the captain of a baseball team. He wanted me to be his catcher. Sooooo cool.
I wonder if this is within the casino's ethics policy. Anyway I lost the number and never saw him again.
but I do remeber hsi last words to me, and I quote them from memory
" sorry for peeing on your shoe"
OMG
Quote: EvenBobCan't we all just get along? Can't we all just be
exactly the same in all our responses to everybody?
A happy, groovy, wholesome bunch of goodie
good goodies.
Or we can just be ourselves. I vote for that.
Does being yourself include being facetious, sarcastic, mean and nasty to every new person with a question or suggestion?
Saying nothing is also an answer you know, hey hey :)
Quote: LarrySOMG OMG
you are sooooooo on the money.
It reminds me of a male dealer at craps 30 yers ago. He followed me to the mens room, and OMG, he stood at the urinal next to me. I caught him peeking down at me. He seemed impressed. He left me his phone number he said when off duty he was the captain of a baseball team. He wanted me to be his catcher. Sooooo cool.
I wonder if this is within the casino's ethics policy. Anyway I lost the number and never saw him again.
but I do remeber hsi last words to me, and I quote them from memory
" sorry for peeing on your shoe"
OMG
I'm done with you dude. Your insults and snide remarks will fall on deaf, blocked ears!
Quote: LarryS
A man like in the picture you posted once came up to me at the casino 20 years ago and said the following....which i quote from memory
" playing craps is equivalent to taking a sip from the nutrient broth of life, the dice are nothing more than the spirit of kinetic energy lofting through the synapses of obtuse serenity"
OMG
Your memory is terrible. I was there, here's what he said:
"Gambling is a surreal experience if you follow
your heart and listen to the string section of
the eternal orchestra that plays forever just
beyond your capabilities of hearing it. Don't
eat the yellow snow and be here now.."
Quote: EvenBobYour memory is terrible. I was there, here's what he said:
"Gambling is a surreal experience if you follow
your heart and listen to the string section of
the eternal orchestra that plays forever just
beyond your capabilities of hearing it. Don't
eat the yellow snow and be here now.."
OMG OMG
i respectfully dissagree. I think I have heard that quote above dozens of times from Doyle Brunson. I think its one of his favorite sayings. . I think this.... because 30 years ago he was my BFF. We would hang. I was so good looking that female dealers would leave their station before breaktime, run after me . I would throw doyle my leftovers. Did I mention that I was hot. Really. No kidding. Super Hot.
Is it against casino policy for a female dealer to follow me out the door at ceasers onto the AC boardwalk, and ask to have sex with me right there under the boardwalk?
I used to wonder why that always happened. But now looking back...I realize..it was because I was sooooooo hot. OMG
Quote: LarrySOMG OMG
you are sooooooo on the money.
Anabelle may not get the reference and think you're mocking her. For the benefit of those who don't know, the last member of the female gender to stumble upon this forum, before you, had a propensity to use acronyms and colorful idiomatic expressions in communicating.
You clearly have a good command of the English language, so I think any comparisons should stop now.
In other news, here is my favorite elderly Asian sage.
Quote: LarrySOMG OMG
i respectfully dissagree. I think I have heard that quote above dozens of times from Doyle Brunson. I think its one of his favorite sayings. . I think this.... because 30 years ago he was my BFF. We would hang. I was so good looking that female dealers would leave their station before breaktime, run after me . I would throw doyle my leftovers. Did I mention that I was hot. Really. No kidding. Super Hot.
Is it against casino policy for a female dealer to follow me out the door at ceasers onto the AC boardwalk, and ask to have sex with me right there under the boardwalk?
I used to wonder why that always happened. But now looking back...I realize..it was because I was sooooooo hot. OMG
Larry, I realize in your last couple of posts that you're attempting to make fun of me. It's a bit hurtful. You haven't been the only one since I started posting here either. I'm not an experienced gambler with all the answers or as smart as some of you here, but I'm not a dumb bimbo either. I came here to share with and talk to what I thought were people with similar interestes. Do we not share similar interests? Sometimes I don't feel very welcomed here :(
Quote: AnabelleTLarry, I realize in your last couple of posts that you're attempting to make fun of me. It's a bit hurtful. You haven't been the only one since I started posting here either. I'm not an experienced gambler with all the answers or as smart as some of you here, but I'm not a dumb bimbo either. I came here to share with and talk to what I thought were people with similar interestes. Do we not share similar interests? Sometimes I don't feel very welcomed here :(
That was the reason for my earlier post, to make you see that not everybody is the same way inclined here. I also know that the Wiz had every good intention with his above post to make you feel welcome here.
There are always going to be people here who feel themselves superior because of their perceived knowledge. Just ignore tham and take away fromt his forum the plethora of positives that there are!!
No lies, there are some amazing people here from whom you can learn a great deal. Just remember that there will also be the not so nice people who will make snide comments and belittle you. Just block them and move on!
Have fun!!!
Quote: AnabelleTLarry, I realize in your last couple of posts that you're attempting to make fun of me. It's a bit hurtful. You haven't been the only one since I started posting here either. I'm not an experienced gambler with all the answers or as smart as some of you here, but I'm not a dumb bimbo either. I came here to share with and talk to what I thought were people with similar interestes. Do we not share similar interests? Sometimes I don't feel very welcomed here :(
Save it
We had a similar person names "juicie" who came here wiggling her behind with sexual inuendo...and got pages and pages of attention.
I dont fall for that weak hurt victim defenseless female persona.
I am not saying you are one because I cannot according to the rules.......but in general I can recognize an attention whore a mile away/
Your post was not filled with gambling info or gamblng questions. It was a "look at me look at me" post. Look at me..some guy gave me his phone number to discuss gambling. Look at me I must be so hot because a dealer came running after me to ask me out.....is that allowed? wink wink
And then a follow up thread....."is gambling sexy".
you see the response you got?
But if u want attention you came to the right place...."juicie" got plenty just pretending to be a novice, with a wink and a smile to the people willing to faun over her....and you can too. Its not hard. I wont be one of them.....but if you can dish out the sweet talk and sex references........then u better be able to take the responses.
I got pages of sarcasm for not being able to remember a boxers name.....it went on and on....and I was able to deal with it without a problem on my own without crying that they were "mean" or crying that they hurt my feelings.
lifes a bitch....if the responses on this anonymous board hurt your feelings.....you are not ready for the real world.
Quote: LarrySbut if you can dish out the sweet talk and sex references........then u better be able to take the responses.
Larry, where was the sweet talk and sexual references you refer to?
I'm not in with the hip crowd so perhaps I missed where those were made?
Quote: TomspurLarry, where was the sweet talk and sexual references you refer to?
I'm not in with the hip crowd so perhaps I missed where those were made?
<<<<<I'm done with you dude. Your insults and snide remarks will fall on deaf, blocked ears!>>>
credibility on parade
Quote: LarryS<<<<<I'm done with you dude. Your insults and snide remarks will fall on deaf, blocked ears!>>>
credibility on parade
If you can show me the sexual references I will profusely apologize to you and never bother you again good sir!
When you make such statements you should be able to back it up should you not?
Quote: TomspurIf you can show me the sexual references I will profusely apologize to you and never bother you again good sir!
When you make such statements you should be able to back it up should you not?
Mr Credibility
a storey about being "hit" on by a"handsome" dealer has no sexual overtones? Do you think he was actually beating/hitting her? Or was she being sexually persued?
she thought the handsome man was nervous like he was perhaps risking his job over her pure sexual magnetism.
I vote on the story being about sexual pursuit.
her next thread..."is gambling sexy"
did you notice the word "sexy"......is there a sexual conotation to the word "sexy"?
Quote: LarrySMr Credibility
a storey about being "hit" on by a"handsome" dealer has no sexual overtones? Do you think he was actually beating/hitting her? Or was she being sexually persued?
she thought the handsome man was nervous like he was perhaps risking his job over her pure sexual magnetism.
I vote on the story being about sexual pursuit.
her next thread..."is gambling sexy"
did you notice the word "sexy"......is there a sexual conotation to the word "sexy"?
Yeah buddy you are right......having a man ask you for your number is littered with sexual references.....what was I thinking.
Continue right on your way pal. Please try not to respond to any of my posts in future, I would really appreciate it.
All the best!
Quote: AnabelleTLarry, I realize in your last couple of posts that you're attempting to make fun of me. It's a bit hurtful. You haven't been the only one since I started posting here either. I'm not an experienced gambler with all the answers or as smart as some of you here, but I'm not a dumb bimbo either. I came here to share with and talk to what I thought were people with similar interests. Do we not share similar interests? Sometimes I don't feel very welcomed here :(
You are having fun with Baccarat and that's all that matters! Wizard is right in that the Asian man's sayings are worthless in terms of gambling value, but Baccarat is pretty much a glorified coin flip so might as well have fun with it! Many people here scoff at any mindset that isn't mathematically oriented but I say as long as you aren't betting recklessly or significantly lowering your odds might as well have do what you think is fun! If it means you somehow try to mentally open the game like a flower in your mind well... it's not going to make the cards worse! Unless you are an AP player (card counting and such) the math says you are going to lose money anyways, so might as well have fun doing it.
Learn what you can about gambling here, make friends, and ignore those trying to rain on your parade.
Back to your original question about dealer mistakes, my personal philosophy is I will point out errors that involve my hand. Sometimes that involves other people having to cough up their ill gotten winnings as well but I've rarely had someone give me hell for it. If it doesn't involve me... well I'll let people decide how much their own integrity is worth. If they shorted you on a bet you certainly would want them to make it right, so it should be a two way street. As you start gambling more, the dealers and floor will start to remember you and honesty will get you a long ways with both of them (also makes them more likely to trust you if you say you were shorted a bet). In my opinion I find gambling a lot more fun when the dealers and floor like you. Tipping and honesty are the easiest ways to get them on your side.
Quote: AnabelleTLarry, I realize in your last couple of posts that you're attempting to make fun of me. It's a bit hurtful. You haven't been the only one since I started posting here either. I'm not an experienced gambler with all the answers or as smart as some of you here, but I'm not a dumb bimbo either. I came here to share with and talk to what I thought were people with similar interestes. Do we not share similar interests? Sometimes I don't feel very welcomed here :(
Don't worry about Larry. He doesn't like anyone and he thinks that no one should, under any circumstances, have any fun while gambling.
Annabelle's posts are mainly about her first few baccarat experiences, and I actually found them interesting. She's acknowledged that , while finding the old Asian guy interesting and amusing, she's read the Wizards bac page and realizes that the info that guy is spewing isn't reality. As far as her account of being asked for her phone number by a dealer.. It was a part of her casino experience and I think she was curious as to whether he had broken a rule in pursuing her. The rest of us are allowed to make reference to this hot female dealer, or that hot cocktail waitress, but she's not permitted to do the same ??? How many men on this forum, if asked out by an attractive female casino dealer, would not include that in their trip report if they posted one?
Furthermore, she doesn't talk at all like Jennie, she hasn't made any mention of trying to mooch chippies off men, and she hasn't posted the beginning of a story involving a lesbian threesome experience she's been involved in..only to stop right at the "juicy" part in an attempt to get others to beg to hear more.
Quote: EvenBobIs this him?
Hey stop posting my uncle, he's a very wise man. He told me to stay away from the Kung Pao special at Panda Express today, turns out it was poisoned and everyone who ate it threw up.
AnabelleT/juicyjennie,
I trust all is well with you. It seems like baccarat actually can be beaten if you can get people to put in their chip(pie)s for you. Maybe enough to wipe out the commission on banker bets. I actually had a nice person do this for me a long time ago when I built up a decent commish, and you can actually gain an edge doing so.
Does the dealer have to make the correction and pay you correctly if he underpaid you and you quickly point it out.
kind of a no brainer
Quote: AxiomOfChoiceDon't worry about Larry. He doesn't like anyone and he thinks that no one should, under any circumstances, have any fun while gambling.
gentlemen.....let the fauning begin
Quote: TerribleTomDid you see Tattoo while you were there? Because that sounds like an episode of Fantasy Island.
Its always been my fantasy, while I was out gambling with my wife.....to give out my phone number to a young lady so that we could talk about gambling and such privately.
but alas, my ultimate fantasy.........being a hot young dealer, and risking my job to run after a young lady gambler that I couldnt resist. Maybe carry her out of the casino in my arms like in " An Officer and a Gentleman"....and then..............COME HERE AND TALK ABOUT IT.
MEANWHILE ....I have to go now and visit the other thread.....to see if "gambling is sexy"...it sounds like it is...,,but I need conformation.
I won't leave here on a negative note, so to all of you who were nice to me, thank you. I would post my email so we could communicate outside of this forum, but that may not be a smart thing to do considering some. If anyone cares to talk about Baccarat outside of this forum PM me today. I won't be signing onto this site after tomorrow.
You can return the Guinness to the fridge and put away the cashews now... hey hey!Quote: soxfanTime to break out the Guinness, and cashew nuts, again, hey hey!
Quote: michael99000I don't think comparing Anabelle to JuicieJennie is even close to being fair or accurate.
How many men on this forum, if asked out by an attractive female casino dealer, would not include that in their trip report if they posted one?
Not only would I post it in a trip report, I would tell anyone who would listen.
Quote: LarryS
I am not saying you are one because I cannot according to the rules.......but in general I can recognize an attention whore a mile away.
C'mon, LarryS. You had this very conversation with Wiz just days ago...
Quote: LarrySOk I just wanted to clarify. Those are the rules and thats that.
But for example if someone said..."the problems in this world always seems to be caused by jews".....and I say "you are an antisemite and dont deserve an exchange."
I have called a name...and I would be censored for a period of time.Quote: WizardThat is correct. You can say the statement doesn't deserve a response, but calling the person making the statement an anti-Semite will get you a suspension.
However in this case, if you are saying that there is no evidence that anything bigoted was said....and the word was just thrown out there for no reason.......but in other cases where bigoted words were used....it would be ok to use the word in response.....that seems more reasonable.Quote: WizardAs the above example should show, for purposes of forum rules, it doesn't matter whether the insult is true or not.
For example, recently one member said another member was "not a nice guy." I received a lengthy argument, with numerous examples, illustrating how the alleged victim truly wasn't a "nice person." We admins have better things to do than to conduct an investigation behind every alleged insult. They simply are not allowed, even if blatantly obviously true. The only permissible insult is to insult yourself.
either way, i respect the rules and regsQuote: WizardAt least one person does.
Saying you can't call someone a name, then going on to say you can recognize said name, and then listing all the reasons you recognize them as said name, isn't within the spirit of the rules. They aren't there to tiptoe around, they are there to avoid. As is clear, it was a roundabout insult, and AnabelleT was insulted.
Not to mention the well known fact that Wiz holds the view that women are to receive even more respect and gentlemanly behavior than your average bloke.
You're a good poster with no infractions in almost a year. I hope you continue the good upon your return.
3 days.
Quote: AnabelleTThis will be my last post here, Larry. ...I won't be signing onto this site after tomorrow.
gee, why don't we have more women here?
Quote: AnabelleTThis will be my last post here, Larry. You sound miserable and you're definitely mean-spirited, and no, I'm not a victim and I will do best to never be a victim under any circumstances, that's why I'm removing myself from here. Since we're on a gambling forum, I'm willing to bet you don't like women very much. Why do you choose to pick a word here and there from all that I've written to attack me? "Attention whore?" I will never allow you the pleasure of calling me a "whore" again. I wonder if you would've had the courage to say this in my presence or you're one of those guys who are very courageous online and a true coward in person? I bet the latter. I've been excited about Baccarat and my casino experiences and I wanted to share them, that's all, I also asked questions, most of the time I just wanted to give readers a little context, let them know where I was coming from, but whatever, you haven't ruined my excitement for the game, but you can feel proud for having runied my experience here on this forum. I actually feel sorry for you. Be comforted by the fact that you're not the only jerk here, though you certainly seem to be the one with the biggest mouth.
I won't leave here on a negative note, so to all of you who were nice to me, thank you. I would post my email so we could communicate outside of this forum, but that may not be a smart thing to do considering some. If anyone cares to talk about Baccarat outside of this forum PM me today. I won't be signing onto this site after tomorrow.
No one called you a "whore." That is out of context and you know it. For those keeping score, you called Larry a jerk and a big mouth after only four days on this forum. Some here would actually get suspended for that. Of course we have the double standard, I mean higher standard, for women here.
Everyone should be treated respectfully but that doesn't always happen. You got off to a rough start, Anabelle, and I don't believe it's your fault. You had the misfortune and bad timing to join this forum on the heels of the juiciejennie fiasco. While not completely similar, some things in your posts certainly remind us of her. Read some of the threads with her name and you'll understand. Again, this is in no way your fault. Juiciejennie hoodwinked some people that, quite frankly, should have known better. Did they learn anything from it? I doubt it. That's why some here are leery of you.
Ladies, right or wrong, it's how you present yourself on a predominately male forum. Certain words and phrases can make a young man's mind wander, they can also make a dirty old man's mind wander. There are some women here that don't have all this drama. Why? We have one young woman with exceptional math skills and she is treated with nothing but respect. I don't think it's because she's smarter than most of us, even though she is.
I'll say again that you did nothing wrong other than the two insults. I hope this gives you some insight into what may have triggered some of your displeasure and I hope you'll consider staying around. It is clear to me that you are truly interested in baccarat and gambling in general. Who knows, maybe we can talk you into trying blackjack.
Quote: 1BBNo one called you a "whore." That is out of context and you know it. For those keeping score, you called Larry a jerk and a big mouth after only four days on this forum. Some here would actually get suspended for that. Of course we have the double standard, I mean higher standard, for women here.
Thanks for pointing that out, 1BB. I had missed that in skimming her response.
In trying to keep the door open for new posters, I have always responded to a new poster's breach of conduct by pointing out the rules and informing them what is and what isn't allowed, since almost no one reads the rules upon joining. Should AnabelleT decide to continue posting here, I would advise her that insults of any kind are not allowed, and all of the few rules in place can be found here
Good post, 1BB, and I'll join you in inviting AnabelleT to stick around.
Anyone agree?
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(Thought so :0)
Quote: teddysI found AnnabelleT's command of the English language and proper grammar far sexier than JuiceJennie's "selfie" pics.
Anyone agree?
...
(Thought so :0)
That was part of the reason why I came to her defence. She just did not strike me as anything like JJ. She seemed well read and didn't use any abbreviations where she should not have and so on.
Nothing about her interactions here struck me as particularly strage if NOT measured against what happened with JJ.
We covered this subject in another thread but perhaps we aren't giving new people the benefit of the doubt? I mean, these people will eventually out themselves. Why try to beat the punch, so to speak?
I find this forum very hard to fully understand sometimes.
Quote: teddysI found AnnabelleT's command of the English language and proper grammar far sexier than JuiceJennie's "selfie" pics.
Anyone agree?
On some level, I wish I agreed with you.
Quote: TomspurThat was part of the reason why I came to her defence. She just did not strike me as anything like JJ
On a regular forum of both men and women,
it's usually hard to tell which sex the poster
is. Men and women sound alike on a lot
of issues. Anabelle went out of her way to
sound like a woman in every post. Why
would she do this, try and sound all gushy
and innocent. Did she have an agenda?
Quote: EvenBobOn a regular forum of both men and women,
it's usually hard to tell which sex the poster
is. Men and women sound alike on a lot
of issues. Anabelle went out of her way to
sound like a woman in every post. Why
would she do this, try and sound all gushy
and innocent. Did she have an agenda?
I don't think a member who makes their screen name 'Anabelle' feels the need to purposely go out of her way to come off as a woman.
Quote: michael99000I don't think a member who makes their screen name 'Anabelle' feels the need to purposely go out of her way to come off as a woman.
That was my point. Why did she so purposely
try and be as 'girly' as possible.
Quote: EvenBobOn a regular forum of both men and women,
it's usually hard to tell which sex the poster
is. Men and women sound alike on a lot
of issues. Anabelle went out of her way to
sound like a woman in every post. Why
would she do this, try and sound all gushy
and innocent. Did she have an agenda?
I think I may have a better understanding. Perhaps the guys on these here particular boards have been burned so many times by unscrupulous females that the very first thing they see in females posting is to try and establish what the angle is. It has to be some sort of protective mechanism I would assume. Why esle would you choose to see the absolute worst in people when you don't know them from a bar of soap???
Quote: TomspurWhy esle would you choose to see the absolute worst in people when you don't know them from a bar of soap???
She wasn't telling the truth, for one thing. There
was no wise Chinaman telling her the secrets of
of the game ala Master PO. C'mon. She was up
to something. She was trying too hard, you could
see it in every post.
