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ewjones080
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October 15th, 2012 at 3:55:14 PM permalink
Last Thursday I went to the strip club. When I walked in, one of them walked up to me and said she knew me, that I had been in there a couple months ago. I didn't remember. We chatted a bit, and not "stripper talk" either. Then did a private dance, two songs. At this location it's not a like a traditional lapdance, where they do everything, it's a bit of a two way street. Let's just say I had some ice and wasn't afraid to use it.

Afterward I made a comment, half joking really "too bad we couldn't do that for real", she responded with "who says we can't", I was speechless. She was the sexiest one in there that night. So a little later, she came back and sat next to me, I brought up the point again, and we exchanged numbers. I walked out thinking did that just happen. It's seemed so strange, and I didn't know what to think of it.

So we exchanged some texts on Saturday, and we have plans for lunch and a movie this coming Thursday. Because this girl seems way out of my league. So I'm just thinking there must be some kind of catch. I mean there must be a catch, right?

So has anything like this ever happened to anyone else? It just seems strange that this girl would want to date a customer. And she's the one that suggested the movie, and she's the one that actually called it a date.
WongBo
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October 15th, 2012 at 3:58:33 PM permalink
The catch is that you will be paying for everything.
But that's usually how it works with the girls you consider in your league anyway, right?
Just don't end up broke with an STD. Highly doubt you are her only boyfriend/sugar daddy/john/victim...
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ahiromu
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:00:46 PM permalink
First off, great title. Might have just gone with one period myself, but it's your story.

A friend of mine, one that I trust to embellish but not flat out lie, went home and hooked up with a stripper. I do not know if extra money was involved or whatnot, he's a pretty smooth guy.

Seeing as all of the other comments will probably be "run away now" - just wanted to give you a little hope. Are you sure you didn't have something very obvious showing that said "I have money!"?
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vendman1
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:03:01 PM permalink
OK..no disrespect intended, I don't know you at all....but are you out of your f***in mind?....As a general rule, strippers are not interested in dating you..EVER!!
They prey on stupid men for money. Don't be that guy who thinks the stripper "really likes him"...she likes you only as far as your wallet will stretch. But I could be wrong, you guys could make the perfect couple. NOT. Again, I implore you... don't be that guy.
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:08:45 PM permalink
Quote: vendman1

OK..no disrespect intended, I don't know you at all....but are you out of your f***in mind?....As a general rule, strippers are not interested in dating you..EVER!!
They prey on stupid men for money. Don't be that guy who thinks the stripper "really likes him"...she likes you only as far as your wallet will stretch. But I could be wrong, you guys could make the perfect couple. NOT. Again, I implore you... don't be that guy.



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dwheatley
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:12:24 PM permalink
I will be one of the naive ones and give you hope by saying *gasp* I actually know someone who married a stripper. They are in a real, loving relationship as far as I can tell.

Let's put it this way: you can't strip forever. It's a pretty short-term deal. And I doubt most strippers can save up enough in their prime time to pay for a long and healthy retirement. They need an exit strategy. At some point, they need to meet real people and have real relationships. It is possible that she is on her way out and liked how you treated her.

Of course, it is also possible it's a long con. You have to tread carefully, and I wouldn't take her back to your place for a while if you have anything valuable there. But if she seems generally interested in you (and not in a overtly, fawning manner), then you have a real shot. She may turn out to be dim and a good time in the sack, so that could be fun. She may turn out to be a Master's student just paying the bills, and you may have gotten real lucky.

The cynics will tell you she is after your money. Real women are after your heart, mind, time and money.
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Juyemura
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:14:00 PM permalink
Strippers have feelings too. She is probably just dancing to pay her way through college.

I say go for it. Be careful, of course, but don't sell yourself short. You are probably a very nice guy who will treat her well.
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100xOdds
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:33:36 PM permalink
Quote: ewjones080

Last Thursday I went to the strip club. When I walked in, one of them walked up to me and said she knew me, that I had been in there a couple months ago. I didn't remember. We chatted a bit, and not "stripper talk" either. Then did a private dance, two songs. At this location it's not a like a traditional lapdance, where they do everything, it's a bit of a two way street. Let's just say I had some ice and wasn't afraid to use it.

Afterward I made a comment, half joking really "too bad we couldn't do that for real", she responded with "who says we can't", I was speechless. She was the sexiest one in there that night. So a little later, she came back and sat next to me, I brought up the point again, and we exchanged numbers. I walked out thinking did that just happen. It's seemed so strange, and I didn't know what to think of it.

So we exchanged some texts on Saturday, and we have plans for lunch and a movie this coming Thursday. Because this girl seems way out of my league. So I'm just thinking there must be some kind of catch. I mean there must be a catch, right?

So has anything like this ever happened to anyone else? It just seems strange that this girl would want to date a customer. And she's the one that suggested the movie, and she's the one that actually called it a date.



love the title.
where was the strip club?

were you there at the strip club 2 months ago?

i was in vegas for my buddies bachelors party. somneone in the group was in vegas 6months prior and went to spearment rhino. we went there for the bachelor party.
a stripper approached the person who was there 6months ago and commented on him being there 6months ago w/details. that friend was VERY impressed.

anyway, back to your story OP, it's not improbable that the stripper remembered you 2 months ago *IF* you were there 2months ago.
and when u said "too bad we couldn't do that for real" i expected a $250 romp when she went on break or got off work.

the twist of you actually going out w/her on a real date is WTF!!???!?

keep us updated!
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TIMSPEED
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:33:54 PM permalink
I dated a girl...who became a stripper, does that count? Lol
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FarFromVegas
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October 15th, 2012 at 4:34:13 PM permalink
Okay--my dad used to own what is the local equivalent of a strip club (they can't strip here, only dance, and have to wear bikinis if the place serves alcohol) and the girls were mostly foreign women who could make more money onstage than waiting tables with their language gap. The bartenders were the foreign girls in law school who could chat with the customers. They were all pretty much normal women trying to make a living.

One caution is to stay away from the mostly unsavory hangers-on who frequent the strip clubs. The wanna-be boyfriends and loser drunk guys can be trouble.

Hey--maybe you have swag you didn't know you had!
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