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March 24th, 2012 at 10:48:14 PM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

I always though it would help to have some rational reason behind JW's teaching against blood transfusions, but I have never heard a good one.



Now you know how I feel about religion in general.
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March 25th, 2012 at 3:34:18 AM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

I always though it would help to have some rational reason behind JW's teaching against blood transfusions, but I have never heard a good one.



It's because they conflate transfusion with consumption of blood, which was forbidden under all circumstances by the Torah.
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March 25th, 2012 at 5:39:38 AM permalink
For what it's worth... I periodically have to take care of JW patients, and they, as are all surgical patients, are asked to sign a 'blood consent' form in addition to the regular surgical consent form. Most JW patients will check the "Refuse" box. I am alerted when any patient has checked the "Refuse" box, and this is how the conversation then goes.... "Hi Mrs. Jones, I am Dr. SOOPOO, your anesthesiologist. For your operation it is very rare for any patient, JW or not, to need blood, but in case of an unexpected occurrence, we usually have emergency preparations in place. In your case, would you prefer I allow you to die or give you blood to save your life if that emergency occurs?". Perhaps a third just immediately come out with the 'you can let me die' answer, about 1/2 imeediately change their mind and sign the blood consent, and 1/6 start trying to tell me 'other' things i can do instead of giving them blood. I then tell those, politely, that they did not understand my question.... and I say it straightforwardly again, would you prefer I allow you to die if I believe the only way to save your life is to transfuse you blood? My point is... that when confronted with the actual 'consequences' from their beliefs, many analyze the belief and realize they don't 'believe' as strongly as they previously thought.
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March 25th, 2012 at 8:59:48 AM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

I am not okay with that at all.

Then you are a hypocrite.
Quote: FrGamble

He should get a blood transfusion to save his life, take him to any Catholic or public hospital and he will be able to receive one.

He can't afford to pay for it.
Quote: FrGamble

I am also not okay with you seeming to equate blood transfusions with contraceptives. I see a big difference between blood transfusions and artificial birth control on many levels. The Church does not believe in contraceptions, sterilizations, or abortificiants

or in the case of JWs, blood transfusions. It is the same, exactly the same.
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but no one is talking about banning or making them illegal. They are very common, easily avaliable, and affordable or free (I should add IMHO also destructive to society).

You're not a woman, are you? Neither am I but one thing I do know is that you can only get birth control pills legally through a prescription. Three months supply costs over $100 not including the doctor's office visit. For me, that's no big deal, for a single young woman working as a waitress at or near the minimum wage, that's a big deal! Especially now that the GOP has decided to "get rid of" Planned Parenthood.
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By the way your example, which is used in a lot of moral theology textbooks except the victim who needs a transfusion is a JW, is a tough one. Do you break his religious beliefs and give him one anyway to save his life or in respecting his religious traditions withold possible life saving treatment? I always though it would help to have some rational reason behind JW's teaching against blood transfusions, but I have never heard a good one.

It's not a tough one. As an ordained minister, I can tell you that the moron should get his transfusion to save his dumbass life regardless of what he thinks he believes in.
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March 25th, 2012 at 9:54:51 AM permalink
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You're not a woman, are you? Neither am I but one thing I do know is that you can only get birth control pills legally through a prescription. Three months supply costs over $100 not including the doctor's office visit. For me, that's no big deal, for a single young woman working as a waitress at or near the minimum wage, that's a big deal!



Maybe so. But the pill is not the only means of contraception, nor is it necessarily the most convenient for everyone. There are diaphragms and condoms, which can be had without a prescription or a doctor's visit and are rather cheap.



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As an ordained minister, I can tell you that the moron should get his transfusion to save his dumbass life regardless of what he thinks he believes in.



It's hard to say on a life and death situation. A transfusion does not have lasting side effects or quality of life issues, most times. but would you amputate someone's arm to save his life? Sometimes that's necessary, but if at all possible it should not be done without the patient's knowledge and consent.

How about simple CPR and other routine forms of resuscitation? Usually they should be performed. But what if the odds are the patient will wind up alive but severely brain-damaged? I'd choose death over that.
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March 26th, 2012 at 10:23:23 AM permalink
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But the pill is not the only means of contraception, nor is it necessarily the most convenient for everyone. There are diaphragms and condoms, which can be had without a prescription or a doctor's visit and are rather cheap.

That is incorrect, Nareed. You do need a prescription for a diaphragm. I got one years ago and I had to make an appointment with Planned Parenthood, go in, get fitted for it (yes there are actually many different sizes depending on the size of a woman's cervix), was shown how to insert it, was instucted on how to actually use it, was told how to take care of it, got a prescription for it and had to go to a couple of different pharmacies to pick it up because not all pharmacies carry the whole range of sizes. The only thing you don't need a prescription for in that case is the spermicide that you have to use with the diaphragm which you buy over the counter if I remember correctly.
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March 26th, 2012 at 10:27:36 AM permalink
Quote: s2dbaker

As an ordained minister, I can tell you that the moron should get his transfusion to save his dumbass life regardless of what he thinks he believes in.



Being an internet ordained minister means absolutely zero, apart from the fun-ness of being able to marry people in certain states. I realize you are trying to make a point, but religiously ordained ministers do spend a lot of time learning how to counsel and help people. Even if you reject the moral foundation of that counselling.

While I completely disagree with someone's decision to refuse a blood transfusion, he has the complete right to accept or reject any medical intervention or treatment that they wish to reject. It's when that treatment (or lack of it) is forced on another that it's a dumb-ass and morally objectionable decision.
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March 26th, 2012 at 10:34:03 AM permalink
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religiously ordained ministers do spend a lot of time learning how to counsel and help people. Even if you reject the moral foundation of that counselling.

You are confusing them with social workers. Religiously ordained ministers are snake oil salesmen who believe in their product. Nothing more.
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March 26th, 2012 at 10:45:19 AM permalink
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That is incorrect, Nareed.



I stand corrected. I must have been thinking about the sponge, if that is still around.

But my point remains, there are other means of contraception which are cheap and don't require prescriptions.
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March 30th, 2012 at 5:31:46 PM permalink
Quote: Nareed

I stand corrected. I must have been thinking about the sponge, if that is still around.

But my point remains, there are other means of contraception which are cheap and don't require prescriptions.



Hmm... abstinence?
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March 30th, 2012 at 6:20:46 PM permalink
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Hmm... abstinence?



I define contraception as any action that allows sex between fertile people, but prevents conception. So, no, abstinence is not contraception.

But condoms are.
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May 9th, 2012 at 6:07:20 PM permalink
Thought I would share a heart renching and heart warming story from my area about a Church where two women were recently murdered. The Church is offering funeral services for the homeless killer of the Church secretary and the assistant pastor. It belongs in a celebration of religion thread as it shows the healing power of forgiveness and the peace that can be found even in great tradegy through faith in God.

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May 9th, 2012 at 6:25:21 PM permalink
"In many ways, I think he was as much a victim as anyone else"

Yeah, lets play the victim game. The guy was homeless and
still he owned a gun registered to him. He goes and shoots
two innocent women, and we're wondering if we should
forgive him? Instead, lets be grateful the low life shot himself,
so he can't kill anybody else. Let god forgive him, thats why
he was invented.
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May 9th, 2012 at 6:43:00 PM permalink
Hi EvenBob - hope you doing well, it's been a while since I've interacted with ya. Peace and God Bless!
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May 9th, 2012 at 6:45:09 PM permalink
Seems to me they should have just fed the guy when he asked for food.
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May 9th, 2012 at 7:19:33 PM permalink
They did this on a regular basis and even for a time gave him housing, it's all in the article I think.
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May 30th, 2012 at 11:50:41 PM permalink
Note for FrGamble

here

Well hopefully you know your own home crowd, so to speak.
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May 31st, 2012 at 6:39:49 AM permalink
Quote: rxwine

Note for FrGamble

here

Well hopefully you know your own home crowd, so to speak.



Well, really. With the reputation that Catholic education has for quality, you'd expect a priest to play BJ, VP or even craps, rather than slots. For shame.
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May 31st, 2012 at 6:54:27 AM permalink
No wonder FrG has been trying to escape from his weight loss bet with HB.
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May 31st, 2012 at 12:20:14 PM permalink
He wasted a lot of time here, looking for lost souls. He
didn't get even the whisper of a convert. Its not like the
old days when a priest could say 'convert or else', now
they have to use logic and good arguments. Dang the luck.
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May 31st, 2012 at 1:44:34 PM permalink
Interesting article, even outside of the whole gambling issue it all sounds very strange, including the church he belongs to that I had never heard of before. Don't worry you guys I promise gambling won't get me into trouble and I won't play the slots.
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May 31st, 2012 at 1:47:34 PM permalink
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Don't worry you guys I promise gambling won't get me into trouble and I won't play the slots.



That's more like it.

BTW I don't recall if you ever mentioned what games you like to play at the casino.
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May 31st, 2012 at 1:48:03 PM permalink
Quote: EvenBob

He wasted a lot of time here, looking for lost souls. He
didn't get even the whisper of a convert. Its not like the
old days when a priest could say 'convert or else', now
they have to use logic and good arguments. Dang the luck.



You are a tough nut to crack Bob because not only will conversion on command not work with you, but I've realized that logic and good arguments are wasted on you too. :)
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May 31st, 2012 at 1:50:24 PM permalink
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BTW I don't recall if you ever mentioned what games you like to play at the casino.



I like to play Blackjack, Craps, and Video Poker (oh yeah, and the buffet).
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May 31st, 2012 at 1:54:32 PM permalink
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I like to play Blackjack, Craps, and Video Poker (oh yeah, and the buffet).



I've yet to decide whether the buffet is an advantage play or a negative EV :)

Lately I've gravitated more towards craps and VP.
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May 31st, 2012 at 2:36:01 PM permalink
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but I've realized that logic and good arguments are wasted on you too. :)



When were you going to use those?
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June 1st, 2012 at 12:54:16 AM permalink
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When were you going to use those?



Nice retort, but I think the Padre was soft on you considering that you made it sound like he was History.
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June 3rd, 2012 at 6:30:44 PM permalink
let him be praisssssed.
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June 3rd, 2012 at 7:58:55 PM permalink
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let him be praisssssed.

now now! He (nor his father) were true believers. Otherwise the serpent couldn't have killed him.

On the other hand, well there's probably a snake bight there too.

I actually had a ton of witty remarks lined up but the guy freakin' died because of his believe in a God. It's just a waste.
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June 6th, 2012 at 9:49:58 AM permalink
Interesting, but this is a mathematical issue, not a religious one.
Please don't hijack this thread, it's where I come for amusing fictions,
Not for something that has a foundation in reality!
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June 6th, 2012 at 11:21:34 AM permalink
Interesting, mathematics is a good example of that which is unseen yet is grounded in reality and helps us to understand the world we live in. This is just like religion and faith in God.
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June 6th, 2012 at 12:11:20 PM permalink
Quote: WongBo

Interesting, but this is a mathematical issue, not a religious one.
Please don't hijack this thread, it's where I come for amusing fictions,
Not for something that has a foundation in reality!



I saw "jugs" "biblical" and "mathematics" in the title, and at that point I knew I had to link it to the site somehow.
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June 6th, 2012 at 12:23:58 PM permalink
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Interesting, mathematics is a good example of that which is unseen yet is grounded in reality and helps us to understand the world we live in. This is just like religion and faith in God.

With the notable exception that a mathematician would never jump to such a ridiculous conclusion. "Math is unseen, religion is unseen therefor both are equally valid".

Wow!
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June 7th, 2012 at 8:16:10 AM permalink
Wow, not only did you make a ridiculous jump but you also twisted things around as well! I think the main point is not that math and religion are both unseen but rather that they both are real and help us to understand the world we live in.
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June 14th, 2012 at 3:27:59 AM permalink
Hi. Miracle can be happened with anyone, anywhere. That entire miracle is happen with us because we believe in god & ourselves. Our faith for miracle is never need any-kind of evidence as I think.
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July 20th, 2012 at 10:07:50 PM permalink
Quick little story to share. Was walking out of the funeral home tonight and a young man smoking a cigarette stopped me and said, "Do you really believe in all that God stuff?" I could tell he was pretty emotional so I walked over and put a hand of his sholder and said something to the effect of, "Its pretty obvious that God exists, that there is a creator of all this stuff around us and life." Then I don't know where it came from but I said, "The real question I bet you and a lot of people are asking is does God care? Does God love us? Does belief in God really matter? To that ultimate and real question I really believe with all my heart the answer is yes." He stomped out his cigarette and without a word gave me a hug and went inside.

Don't know what that silent hug meant but I thought it was a pretty cool moment.
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July 20th, 2012 at 10:15:02 PM permalink
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He stomped out his cigarette and without a word gave me a hug and went inside.



If you go to a really poor country and give a beggar
a dollar, it has the same effect. They're happy for
awhile, you gave them what they wanted.
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July 20th, 2012 at 10:34:24 PM permalink
i would really hate to see what it would be like if this god hated humans,
cause his "love" ain't cuttin it.
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July 21st, 2012 at 11:06:21 AM permalink
Oh... I thought this was the other thread.
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July 21st, 2012 at 11:23:28 AM permalink
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i would really hate to see what it would be like if this god hated humans,
cause his "love" ain't cuttin it.



When we go through suffering, loss, sorrow, or failure sometimes we can feel like His [God's] love doesn't cut it. However, at those moments I think about those who love me most and whom I love most in this world. I don't doubt their love and I hope they don't doubt mine because my care for them does not shield them form all difficulties or struggles. My love and their love doesn't take away the problems of this world but helps us through them often with a silent hug. This is how loves "cuts it" or cuts through the pain, not by taking it away but by sharing it with me. If this is my experience of the most perfect love I know why should I expect something totally different from God who loves me.
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July 21st, 2012 at 11:26:25 AM permalink
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If you go to a really poor country and give a beggar
a dollar, it has the same effect. They're happy for
awhile, you gave them what they wanted.



That is a poor analogy. When you share with someone a new way of looking at the world it can make them happy forever and is worth more than all the money in the world.
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July 21st, 2012 at 11:41:18 AM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

That is a poor analogy.



Actually, its not. A beggar wants a dollar and you give it
to him. The guy who approached you knew you were
a priest, and you gave gave him what he expected and
needed right then. Same as the beggar.
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July 21st, 2012 at 12:20:16 PM permalink
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If this is my experience of the most perfect love I know why should I expect something totally different from God who loves me.



Like how god loved all those people in the movie theatre
who got shot yesterday. With that kind of love, who needs
hate. If thats love, who needs it.
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July 21st, 2012 at 12:43:51 PM permalink
I think you should re-read my earlier post again Bob. Love is still present even in the face of horrible tragedy. You would never doubt or question the love of a parent who just lost their child to this senseless violence, I don't see why you would doubt God's love either? The proof of love is not some invisible force field that protects someone from danger or death, rather it is more like an invisible bond of unity that cannot be broken by danger or death.
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July 21st, 2012 at 1:12:07 PM permalink
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The proof of love is not some invisible force field that protects someone from danger or death, .



Obviously. That would be too easy. Better to be some
mysterious force that nobody can prove exists. That
makes much more sense.
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July 21st, 2012 at 1:22:27 PM permalink
I'm pretty sure we all believe that love exists and can probably prove it.
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July 21st, 2012 at 1:32:26 PM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

I'm pretty sure we all believe that love exists and can probably prove it.



From person to person. The universe is obviously indifferent. How
could it be anything else.
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July 21st, 2012 at 1:42:22 PM permalink
It is far from obvious that the universe is indifferent, but regardless it's not the universe that loves you, its God who loves you.
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July 21st, 2012 at 1:52:06 PM permalink
Quote: FrGamble

It is far from obvious that the universe is indifferent, but regardless it's not the universe that loves you, its God who loves you.



But god is the universe. God is behind everything. There
are billions of galaxies, god is supposedly behind all of
it, watching and plotting and judging everything. The
universe is supposedly alive with god's love, if you
believe some religions. Its a primitive fantasy that
takes a hit everytime science moves forward.
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