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May 20th, 2025 at 6:06:46 PM permalink
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.

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May 20th, 2025 at 6:39:12 PM permalink
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NORM!
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.

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I hated that show because it came on at the same time I owned a neighborhood bar. And what it portrayed on the show was the polar opposite of what a neighborhood bar was like. Every single one of those customers on that show in real life would have been an alcoholic. All regular bar customers, people that come in every day and spend time there are alcoholics. They have lots of problems, and although it can be mellow a lot of the time it's nothing like it was portrayed on the show. It's actually a very depressing place and I started to drink too much and that's why I got out of it. I was making good money but it would have killed me literally if I had stayed in that business.
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.



I hated that show because it came on at the same time I owned a neighborhood bar. And what it portrayed on the show was the polar opposite of what a neighborhood bar was like. Every single one of those customers on that show in real life would have been an alcoholic. All regular bar customers, people that come in every day and spend time there are alcoholics. They have lots of problems, and although it can be mellow a lot of the time it's nothing like it was portrayed on the show. It's actually a very depressing place and I started to drink too much and that's why I got out of it. I was making good money but it would have killed me literally if I had stayed in that business.
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Like the way cops feel about police shows! Gunfire and car chases every day. If that happens to a real cop, he's doing something wrong.

They've said that the only cop show that was close to accurate in its time was Barney Miller. Curious that it's the first and perhaps only cop show to show a cop casually engaging in a felony on a regular basis. Showing cops being illegal used to be taboo and especially if he gets away with it.

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May 20th, 2025 at 7:34:18 PM permalink
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NORM!
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.

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I hated that show because it came on at the same time I owned a neighborhood bar. And what it portrayed on the show was the polar opposite of what a neighborhood bar was like. Every single one of those customers on that show in real life would have been an alcoholic. All regular bar customers, people that come in every day and spend time there are alcoholics. They have lots of problems, and although it can be mellow a lot of the time it's nothing like it was portrayed on the show. It's actually a very depressing place and I started to drink too much and that's why I got out of it. I was making good money but it would have killed me literally if I had stayed in that business.
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Yeah, I can see that. The only time I could really stand being around people drinking fairly heavily is when I was drinking myself.
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May 20th, 2025 at 7:48:38 PM permalink
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.

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I hated that show because it came on at the same time I owned a neighborhood bar. And what it portrayed on the show was the polar opposite of what a neighborhood bar was like. Every single one of those customers on that show in real life would have been an alcoholic. All regular bar customers, people that come in every day and spend time there are alcoholics. They have lots of problems, and although it can be mellow a lot of the time it's nothing like it was portrayed on the show. It's actually a very depressing place and I started to drink too much and that's why I got out of it. I was making good money but it would have killed me literally if I had stayed in that business.
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Yeah, I can see that. The only time I could really stand being around people drinking fairly heavily is when I was drinking myself.
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And that's exactly what happened. I was in that business for three and a half years and for the first two years I did pretty good but after a while the only way to deal with these people everyday is to be drinking right along with them. And towards the end I was driving home drunk at 2:00 in the morning every night. Luckily it was Santa Barbara and it was all back streets and I don't remember ever seeing a single car let alone a cop car. But I knew I had to get out because I couldn't keep doing that I'd be dead before I was 50. In the show the owner Sam was a recovering alcoholic and he didn't drink. Never saw that in real life. Every month all the bar owners in town would get together for a lunch and to have a meeting and they were all alcoholics every single one of them. Totally drunk by the end of every meeting including me at the end.
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Like the way cops feel about police shows! Gunfire and car chases every day. If that happens to a real cop, he's doing something wrong.

They've said that the only cop show that was close to accurate in its time was Barney Miller. Curious that it's the first and perhaps only cop show to show a cop casually engaging in a felony on a regular basis. Showing cops being illegal used to be taboo and especially if he gets away with it.

Jack Soo betting on the phone with a bookie all the time.

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Most jobs are extremely boring, being a cop is no different. A bar is mind-blowingly boring if you work there. My son's an airline pilot retired from the Air Force, he says that if there's a more boring job he'd like to see it.

I watch lots of police body cam YouTube videos there's hundreds if not thousands of them out there. Being a cop looks exciting but these videos are the exceptions in a cop's day they aren't the rule.
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May 21st, 2025 at 4:18:32 AM permalink
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.

Maybe he did more than I remember.

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I hated that show because it came on at the same time I owned a neighborhood bar. And what it portrayed on the show was the polar opposite of what a neighborhood bar was like. Every single one of those customers on that show in real life would have been an alcoholic. All regular bar customers, people that come in every day and spend time there are alcoholics. They have lots of problems, and although it can be mellow a lot of the time it's nothing like it was portrayed on the show. It's actually a very depressing place and I started to drink too much and that's why I got out of it. I was making good money but it would have killed me literally if I had stayed in that business.
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I used to like going to the bar not for the booze but for having a place to go after work. But I only had a couple years of peak doing that. Bar area down the street from work. But it does just eat away your time. I remember one fun day, beg a coworker to have a quick one after work. He gives in.

Six hours and three bars later...."OK, but this is really the last one!"

Another time after work BB game is starting. Have beers and chatting. Look up and it is the 7th inning!

Now, you do this too many times a week you blow your extra money. You do not do anything to improve yourself. I consider it "heavy drinker" more than alcoholism.
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After thirty-plus years in the bar industry, I've found people don't stumble into your place by accident.
If a place is filled with top-notch drinkers having a great time, it's because management and ownership worked their asses off to fill it like that.
If your bar is skeevy and full of drunks, management either wants it to stay that way or is unwilling to work to change it.
Bars often get sold because a first timer thinks he knows better than the current owner and makes a mistake. After two or three years, they sell and move on.
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May 21st, 2025 at 7:28:10 AM permalink
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.
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Wasn't there an episode where he was painting Diane's home? I recall other characters showing up to help him and a paint fight ensued.

I feel a Cheers trivia challenge coming on.
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All this talk of Cheers is making me reminiscent for those 10 ounce glass soda bottles Sam always drank. Not for the way the twist off caps cut my hand, but the way the styrofoam labels fell apart.

I think I still occasionally see them for club soda and tonic water, although probably with paper labels.
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Wasn't most of his work on Cheers done on the bar stool? Pretty sweet gig for a regular payday. I found some episodes other than the bar stool, but I don't think there were many. Crack some lines, call it a day.
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Wasn't there an episode where he was painting Diane's home? I recall other characters showing up to help him and a paint fight ensued.

I feel a Cheers trivia challenge coming on.
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What kind of car did Rebecca want so bad she agreed to wait tables to try to get?
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What is the restaurant above cheer's called?
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George Wendt/Norm is sometimes cited as an example of how people think people in the "old days" looked older than at an equivalent age now. Skip to the 4:00 mark for the character's age analysis:

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May 22nd, 2025 at 12:12:54 PM permalink
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I just looked up George Wendt who played Norm in Cheers. The Cheers bar would all say,"Norm!" When Norm walked into Cheers. And indeed, Norm really did go to that great big Cheers Bar in the sky on May 20th. 😭

Interestingly enough, I randomly looked up Cheers Theme Song shortly before George's death. 💡
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As promised, here is my Cheers trivia challenge.

  1. Which three characters appeared in every episode?
  2. What was the name of the restaurant above Cheers?
  3. What is the name of the real Boston bar Cheers is based on?
  4. What was Carla’s full name on the show?
  5. Norm was Norm’s middle name. What was his first name?
  6. What TWO spinoffs did Cheers produce?
  7. What caused the end of Sam’s baseball career?
  8. What was Sam’s nickname as a player for the Boston Red Sox?
  9. What was Norm’s favorite restaurant?
  10. Rebecca made Norm pay off his bar tab by doing what?
  11. What was Cliff’s middle initial?
  12. How many times did Sam propose to Diane?
  13. What was Coach’s full name?
  14. What was Norm’s wife’s name?
  15. What position did Sam play on the Red Sox?
  16. Who was the only major character to not refer to Norm as “Norm”?


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May 24th, 2025 at 5:58:13 PM permalink
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As promised, here is my Cheers trivia challenge.

  1. Which three characters appeared in every episode?
  2. What was the name of the restaurant above Cheers?
  3. What is the name of the real Boston bar Cheers is based on?
  4. What was Carla’s full name on the show?
  5. Norm was Norm’s middle name. What was his first name?
  6. What TWO spinoffs did Cheers produce?
  7. What caused the end of Sam’s baseball career?
  8. What was Sam’s nickname as a player for the Boston Red Sox?
  9. What was Norm’s favorite restaurant?
  10. Rebecca made Norm pay off his bar tab by doing what?
  11. What was Cliff’s middle initial?
  12. How many times did Sam propose to Diane?
  13. What was Coach’s full name?
  14. What was Norm’s wife’s name?
  15. What position did Sam play on the Red Sox?
  16. Who was the only major character to not refer to Norm as “Norm”?


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1. I'll guess Sam, Carla, and Norm
2. Melville's Seafood?
3. (I should know this, because I have been there - actually, been to the second one, which is a replica of the Cheers bar)
4. Carla somethingorother Tortelli LeBec

6. Frasier, and The Tortellis (quite appropriate for this, as it was set in Las Vegas)

8. Mayday (he was a relief pitcher)

10. Washing windows?
11. P
12. Twice - once when there was a provision in somebody's will that she be married by a certain date, and another when she actually accepted (in court)

14. Vera
15. Pitcher
16. Woody always called him "Mr. Peterson"


Bonus trivia: in how many episodes did Norm's wife have a speaking role?
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I know two, and I'm pretty sure about two more. Cheers wasn't a favorite of mine.
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May 24th, 2025 at 7:00:15 PM permalink
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As promised, here is my Cheers trivia challenge.

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I'm proud to say I can't answer a single question because I watched maybe six episodes and can't remember any of them. The show was just too mind-blowingly absurd if you were in the bar business. It would be like writing a comedy show about a mortuary. In order for it to be funny none of it could be true. People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics. If they have fun while they're there, good for them. But they usually don't, it's usually a very depressing place. Alcohol is not a stimulant, it's a depressive. Duh.
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May 24th, 2025 at 8:59:09 PM permalink
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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May 24th, 2025 at 9:54:48 PM permalink
Drinkers who make a big deal of I never drink at home, never tried to hide their drinking and that they only drank a few at the last big party, might just as surely be alcoholics as the ones who break all those "rules."

It is all that thought and effort that goes into drinking (or not drinking) that tends to mean that someone has a problem.
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May 24th, 2025 at 10:34:54 PM permalink
If an alcoholic is drinking at a bar it could be because someone in his home objects to his drinking. Like when you're a kid who likes booze and pot, you're not going to get away with that at home so you are in the park at midnight with your friends doing it. That's where you get busted.

But I don't agree that everyone in a neighborhood bar is an alcoholic who is there to get drunk. I'm sure it depends a lot on the bar and the neighborhood. The neighborhood bar is also a tradition of older generations where a bar served practical purposes like a British pub does. For example you could watch a ball game or a fight on a TV in a bar back before every home had a TV.
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May 24th, 2025 at 11:59:21 PM permalink
If the bartender gets drunk every night, I'd imagine most of the customers would be drunks as well. Who else wants to go to a bar with a drunk bartender? It's not often enforced, but it is illegal in most jurisdictions for a bartender to drink while on duty, and it is an insurance liability.
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May 25th, 2025 at 6:44:58 AM permalink
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As promised, here is my Cheers trivia challenge.

  1. Which three characters appeared in every episode?
  2. What was the name of the restaurant above Cheers?
  3. What is the name of the real Boston bar Cheers is based on?
  4. What was Carla’s full name on the show?
  5. Norm was Norm’s middle name. What was his first name?
  6. What TWO spinoffs did Cheers produce?
  7. What caused the end of Sam’s baseball career?
  8. What was Sam’s nickname as a player for the Boston Red Sox?
  9. What was Norm’s favorite restaurant?
  10. Rebecca made Norm pay off his bar tab by doing what?
  11. What was Cliff’s middle initial?
  12. How many times did Sam propose to Diane?
  13. What was Coach’s full name?
  14. What was Norm’s wife’s name?
  15. What position did Sam play on the Red Sox?
  16. Who was the only major character to not refer to Norm as “Norm”?


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I know all of them except Norms middle name. I know it was unusual and I think I will come up with it without looking it up.
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May 25th, 2025 at 9:44:33 AM permalink
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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May 25th, 2025 at 4:30:08 PM permalink
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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May 25th, 2025 at 5:28:14 PM permalink
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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In 1979 you could, we used to pitch fhem out the front door so they face planted on the sidewalk. Cops never said a word but they did tell us don't do that to the women don't touch the women in any way. And the women knew it and they used it. In 1979 a woman could beat her husband at home all day long and he had no recourse. Nowadays if she even touches him violently she goes to jail just like he would.
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In 1976, I got a job working security at PJs, a club with a zero-tolerance policy. Two guys sat in lifeguard chairs on the corner of the dance floor to spot trouble. The owner had a 1967 Belair that looked nice on the street side, but the sidewalk side was all dented in by people getting tossed into it. We'd actually grade some throws.
I'd guess 98% of our fights were between guys, or groups of guys. Back then, girls didn't go to cluibs to fight. As that changed, so did the way security broke up fights. I didn't take sex or race into account. A calm female would get kid-glove treatments, but drunken belligerents get treated accordingly.
I only lasted a few months, working weekends, as the owner told me I was violent enough for him.
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In 1976, I got a job working security at PJs, a club with a zero-tolerance policy. Two guys sat in lifeguard chairs on the corner of the dance floor to spot trouble. The owner had a 1967 Belair that looked nice on the street side, but the sidewalk side was all dented in by people getting tossed into it. We'd actually grade some throws.
I'd guess 98% of our fights were between guys, or groups of guys. Back then, girls didn't go to cluibs to fight. As that changed, so did the way security broke up fights. I didn't take sex or race into account. A calm female would get kid-glove treatments, but drunken belligerents get treated accordingly.
I only lasted a few months, working weekends, as the owner told me I was violent enough for him.
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Usually I only go to the bars with the nakey ladies. Because there is something to do other than drink in there, and too much drinking isn't healthy. (There used to be this place called Buff's... And another one called the Brass Guitar...)

The only fights I can recall were between the girls. Those girls are ridiculously vain and can go off if they think another girl is getting more attention than they. So a good club manager will carefully arrange shifts and areas of the stage so each girl can be the star of her own little show without feeling like she is being upstaged by another.

You can see what's going on psychologically when it happens. Girls fight, and as soon as the manager grabs one of them she turns and clings to him and sobs. You'd get the feeling she is 5, and Daddy just pulled her off another girl in the playground that she was fighting over a stuffed rabbit.
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In 1979 a woman could beat her husband at home all day long and he had no recourse. Nowadays if she even touches him violently she goes to jail just like he would.
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A friend of mine claims she was domestically abused, called the police, and she was the one who ended up in jail. I wasn't there and don't necessarily believer her version, but I tend to think there was a fight and he had more battle wounds than she did.
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He was only a couple years older than me, I'm starting to feel old.
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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In 1979 you could, we used to pitch fhem out the front door so they face planted on the sidewalk. Cops never said a word but they did tell us don't do that to the women don't touch the women in any way. And the women knew it and they used it. In 1979 a woman could beat her husband at home all day long and he had no recourse. Nowadays if she even touches him violently she goes to jail just like he would.
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The Roommate movie in 2011 had Rebecca trying to Murder Stephen. Stephen punched her in the face in self defense and self preservation and Audiences were outraged that he punched a woman in her face. She was trying to MURDER him. 😬I can't believe that people were disgusted with Stephen's punching her in her face when she was literally trying to MURDER him. 😬 The outrage should have been solely directed at Rebecca for trying to MURDER him, not Stephen. 😬 That NEVER sat right with me. 😬
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May 26th, 2025 at 2:53:44 AM permalink
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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In 1979 you could, we used to pitch fhem out the front door so they face planted on the sidewalk. Cops never said a word but they did tell us don't do that to the women don't touch the women in any way. And the women knew it and they used it. In 1979 a woman could beat her husband at home all day long and he had no recourse. Nowadays if she even touches him violently she goes to jail just like he would.
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The Roommate movie in 2011 had Rebecca trying to Murder Stephen. Stephen punched her in the face in self defense and self preservation and Audiences were outraged that he punched a woman in her face. She was trying to MURDER him. 😬I can't believe that people were disgusted with Stephen's punching her in her face when she was literally trying to MURDER him. 😬 The outrage should have been solely directed at Rebecca for trying to MURDER him, not Stephen. 😬 That NEVER sat right with me. 😬
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Are you saying that she was trying to murder him?
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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I touch myself occasionally, but only after I make myself promise not to turn myself in, and I always make that there aren’t any witnesses…
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People do not go to Neighborhood bars to fraternize and have fun, they go for one reason. To drink because they're alcoholics.
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Why don't they just drink at home then? Surely there is some social element to the bar.
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Many reasons. Most of them did not live alone and it's doubtful that their families knew how much they drank. Also alcohol is a depressant and drinking everyday is depressing and the old saying that misery loves company is very true. Plus even then there was a stigma against drinking alone, and because most alcoholics are in denial and they know that drinking alone all the time is a sign of alcoholism, they figure if they do it in a bar around other people they're not alcoholics. Yes the bar is a social place but you only want to be there if you're drinking too otherwise being around a bunch of drunks is very boring. They basically look like idiots to sober people but to other drunks they look normal.

On a side note the very worst customers in a neighborhood bar are women. They do not hold their booze well and they get loud and mean and sarcastic and you can't get rid of them because they know that you can't physically touch them like you can a man. Countless times I had to call the police and have them escorted out and trespassed. Most men who drink all the time learn how to handle it, most women never learn.
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You can physically touch men in 2025 without getting a lawsuit?
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In 1979 you could, we used to pitch fhem out the front door so they face planted on the sidewalk. Cops never said a word but they did tell us don't do that to the women don't touch the women in any way. And the women knew it and they used it. In 1979 a woman could beat her husband at home all day long and he had no recourse. Nowadays if she even touches him violently she goes to jail just like he would.
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The Roommate movie in 2011 had Rebecca trying to Murder Stephen. Stephen punched her in the face in self defense and self preservation and Audiences were outraged that he punched a woman in her face. She was trying to MURDER him. 😬I can't believe that people were disgusted with Stephen's punching her in her face when she was literally trying to MURDER him. 😬 The outrage should have been solely directed at Rebecca for trying to MURDER him, not Stephen. 😬 That NEVER sat right with me. 😬
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Are you saying that she was trying to murder him?
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LMAO! 😀🤭🤣 I did get a bit carried away there, but seriously in THAT situation, a man has EVERY right to punch a Woman in her face. 💡
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No one has the right to punch someone in the face. Ever. Man, woman, boy, girl, or whatever.
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That is a ridiculous statement. One can definitely strike in self defense.
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That is a ridiculous statement. One can definitely strike in self defense.
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Yeah there are even "stand your ground" laws that allow killing someone.

And of course there's defense of your country in wartime.
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I punched her in the face, defending my country. That will go over well.
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I don't know about you but if it's Irma Bunt attacking me I am both punching her in the face and using that defense. (And yes I know she is a fictional character).
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Many armies have women fighting for them so it could easily be justified.
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Self-defense laws make no allowance for the sex of the assailant. An assailant's sex can only be a parameter used to estimate how much risk they present, relative to the condition of their target. An unarmed woman being a danger to me and her being a danger to a man who is elderly and disabled are not the same thing. I've seen some horrifying videos of females working in nursing homes battering elderly men, and it would not trouble me at all to wreak violence upon such a woman.

It's the exception rather than the rule, but there are women serving life sentences and who have been executed for murder, and sometimes of men. If you do not want to join the ranks of these men you may have to defend yourself.
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Self-defense laws make no allowance for the sex of the assailant. An assailant's sex can only be a parameter used to estimate how much risk they present, relative to the condition of their target. An unarmed woman being a danger to me and her being a danger to a man who is elderly and disabled are not the same thing. I've seen some horrifying videos of females working in nursing homes battering elderly men, and it would not trouble me at all to wreak violence upon such a woman.

It's the exception rather than the rule, but there are women serving life sentences and who have been executed for murder, and sometimes of men. If you do not want to join the ranks of these men you may have to defend yourself.
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A man said something like," I was raised to NEVER hit Women, but if a Woman starts hitting me, and another Woman hits her on my behalf, I wouldn't mind having her be attacked by the woman defending me. 💡
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May 26th, 2025 at 7:36:21 PM permalink
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I punched her in the face, defending my country. That will go over well.
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Self-defense laws make no allowance for the sex of the assailant. An assailant's sex can only be a parameter used to estimate how much risk they present, relative to the condition of their target. An unarmed woman being a danger to me and her being a danger to a man who is elderly and disabled are not the same thing. I've seen some horrifying videos of females working in nursing homes battering elderly men, and it would not trouble me at all to wreak violence upon such a woman.

It's the exception rather than the rule, but there are women serving life sentences and who have been executed for murder, and sometimes of men. If you do not want to join the ranks of these men you may have to defend yourself.
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A man said something like," I was raised to NEVER hit Women, but if a Woman starts hitting me, and another Woman hits her on my behalf, I wouldn't mind having her be attacked by the woman defending me. 💡
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The axiom of "A man should never hit a woman" came from a time when casual violence between men was more common and accepted. Men would fight over insults, slights real or imagined, or just to show off and that was the kind of behavior they were saying men should not involve women in. You don't hit her if she insults you or rejects you, you have to endure that. Also if you are rude or sexually aggressive towards her you have to endure the face slap.

They weren't talking about self-defense where a violent woman with a weapon is trying to injure or kill you, or someone else.
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You should never punch anyone in the face. Your opponent's facial bones are stronger than the bones in your fist. It's a case of this will hurt me more than it does you.
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You should never punch anyone in the face. Your opponent's facial bones are stronger than the bones in your fist. It's a case of this will hurt me more than it does you.
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Sometimes. It's not hitting the face you have to worry about but the skull. I saw that happen once, guy got his hand totally trashed and the amusing part was the guy he hit ended up taking him to the hospital.

But there are even worse things you can hit. If the guy gets his elbow up and you hit that, you definitely will not be using that hand for a while. Dirtiest trick in fighting.
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I don't think I've ever gone through deep analysis during any kind of violence about who is trying to hit me. You need to do enough to protect yourself which may require hitting the person. I mean if it's your little brother, you hold your hand on his forehead while his two short arms swing unable to hit you. I used to just deflect blows from my older bigger sister.
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I don't think I've ever gone through deep analysis during any kind of violence about who is trying to hit me. You need to do enough to protect yourself which may require hitting the person. I mean if it's your little brother, you hold your hand on his forehead while his two short arms swing unable to hit you. I used to just deflect blows from my older bigger sister.
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I have heard the advice,"Self defense should never be more than the offense," for example, someone slaps you and you push them away from you and walk away is perfect self defense. But someone slapping you and you giving them a full on beat down that lands them in the ER is completely out of line and you would deserve to go to jail for assault. The defense becomes more than the offense if you give a full on beat down over a slap. That's retaliation, not self defense. 💡
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I don't think I've ever gone through deep analysis during any kind of violence about who is trying to hit me. You need to do enough to protect yourself which may require hitting the person. I mean if it's your little brother, you hold your hand on his forehead while his two short arms swing unable to hit you. I used to just deflect blows from my older bigger sister.
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I have heard the advice,"Self defense should never be more than the offense," for example, someone slaps you and you push them away from you and walk away is perfect self defense. But someone slapping you and you giving them a full on beat down that lands them in the ER is completely out of line and you would deserve to go to jail for assault. The defense becomes more than the offense if you give a full on beat down over a slap. That's retaliation, not self defense. 💡
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There is no simple answer. The best self defense is to avoid the situation. That'll get you through 95% of the situations
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