I think my dealer might be cheating on me, what do I do?

When I first got together with my BJ dealer everything was wonderful. We had many late night 4AM games, and her love was dealt out to me in spades of aces. We would talk and laugh, and it would only turn violent on occassion when she would hit me; but then again I think I was probably asking for it the way I tapped my hands down on the table in an annoying and abrupt fashion. Also, I know it is just one of those male things, and I don't know if I should confess this here, but the whole time we were together she was under 18, and this just made me love her more. As time passed though, I have been noticing some concerning things about my dealer. First off, she has since been hitting 20, and I'm getting more worried about what will happen when she hits 21. I guess I can live with that, but my bigger concern is that I have been getting in a little earlier these days, and she seems to be entertaining a lot of other players around 9 to midnight. I never use to see her before 4AM, when she was always waiting for me, so I'm not sure how long this has been going on. Being concerned about what she was up to with them, I ended up standing alone during one of the last times I saw her when trying to bust her, but I wasn't successful. However, since then, I've heard some questionable language used in conversation with her, such as the men talking to her saying that they wanted her to split their 8's and double down on them. Frankly, it's making me feel pretty sick. So what I need to know is should I stay with my BJ dealer, now that I've seen her 20's, and put up with her hitting me, as well as deal with all the other players I've seen her talking with and smiling at when they talk dirty, or should I move on to something else? If it's this bad now, how much worse will it be when she's showing 21? I can't go back to the craps table as my ex-dealer there was always picking up other player's hard 4's, 6's, and 8's right in front of me.

Quote: MrPapagiorgio

When I first got together with my BJ dealer everything was wonderful. We had many late night 4AM games, and her love was dealt out to me in spades of aces. We would talk and laugh, and it would only turn violent on occassion when she would hit me; but then again I think I was probably asking for it the way I tapped my hands down on the table in an annoying and abrupt fashion. Also, I know it is just one of those male things, and I don't know if I should confess this here, but the whole time we were together she was under 18, and this just made me love her more. As time passed though, I have been noticing some concerning things about my dealer. First off, she has since been hitting 20, and I'm getting more worried about what will happen when she hits 21. I guess I can live with that, but my bigger concern is that I have been getting in a little earlier these days, and she seems to be entertaining a lot of other players around 9 to midnight. I never use to see her before 4AM, when she was always waiting for me, so I'm not sure how long this has been going on. Being concerned about what she was up to with them, I ended up standing alone during one of the last times I saw her when trying to bust her, but I wasn't successful. However, since then, I've heard some questionable language used in conversation with her, such as the men talking to her saying that they wanted her to split their 8's and double down on them. Frankly, it's making me feel pretty sick. So what I need to know is should I stay with my BJ dealer, now that I've seen her 20's, and put up with her hitting me, as well as deal with all the other players I've seen her talking with and smiling at when they talk dirty, or should I move on to something else? If it's this bad now, how much worse will it be when she's showing 21? I can't go back to the craps table as my ex-dealer there was always picking up other player's hard 4's, 6's, and 8's right in front of me.

You can always try an online dealer romance-then every hand will feel like a freshly shuffled deck whether you are counting on it or not. If you co back to a dice dealer expect to be treated like crap. The most common things you do over there will cause you to lose everything to her, just like a painful divorce once every six dates on average........

Your girlfriend sounds very abusive. If I were you I would probably find someone gentler who doesn't beat you as much (unless you're into that thing). Perhaps a slot attendant who only gives you things but shows up very rarely (but at least you'll be treated much better).

Stick with her, its all going to be good....

Had a similar experience myslef, and I can tell you when your dealer turns stops being 21 and moves onto 22 the world will be a beautiful place again, and as a bonus, she may stop hitting you as well.

LOL.

Is your BJ dealing the occasional Happy Ending?

Have you tried asking her to go Double Down on you?

How's her Rack?

If you do leave her, you can go hook up with the Roulette girl. As I understand it, she's a Double Zero, but likes to play with One Ball....

It seems like she's bluffing... she's just a joker who's been playin' you. After treating you like crap and not going double down on you, she then gets busted playing with only one ball? even though you think she's one of a kind, she's not being straight with you and it could get progressively worse. She might think you're one Sic Bo but I suggest you drink some Gin and Rummy and just be a Stud and Poker... BUTT... then she might find you to be a royal pain in the ass!

Try a craps dealer if you don't want to be treated like crap. She will take a 3-way play, everyone likes a 3-way. You can come as many times as you want. You can give her your hard 10 or hard 8. If you try and give her your hard 6 or hard 4 she just may pass on you. Best of all she don't mind if you play the field as whenever you like.