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EvenBob
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January 11th, 2011 at 4:52:33 PM permalink
Several times I've received PM's from members saying this or that and when I go to reply, a window comes up that says the member has opted not to receive PM's. This means they can harass you and you can't respond. Shouldn't they have no PM privileges at all if they opt not to receive them?
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January 11th, 2011 at 6:27:42 PM permalink
Interesting point.


Remember that this forum, unlike other forums, was built from scratch. Therefore, JB has to discover bugs and logic errors that other forums have already figured out.

That said, there are two possibilities:

1 - It was a logic error that JB overlooked.

2 - The person sends a PM and THEN changes there option.


Note to JB -

Obviously, if it's the first scenario, it needs to be fixed. But the second scenario needs to be addressed as well.

Perhaps the fix for both of these scenarios is that if a person sends a PM, then, regardless of the option, the recipient must be allowed to send a response.
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January 11th, 2011 at 6:30:49 PM permalink
Quote: DJTeddyBear

That said, there are two possibilities:

1 - It was a logic error that JB overlooked.

2 - The person sends a PM and THEN changes there option.



3.- Perhaps if user A has blocked user B, he can send PMs to user B but won't receive PMs from him. I ran across a bug like that in commercial forum software. The Admins "solved" it by disabling the blocking option. Your solution is a lot better.
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EvenBob
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January 11th, 2011 at 6:39:46 PM permalink
Quote: DJTeddyBear


That said, there are two possibilities:

1 - It was a logic error that JB overlooked.

2 - The person sends a PM and THEN changes there option.



Either way its very annoying. I received a snotty PM from someone this evening and when I went to reply, I couldn't. Not cool.
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January 11th, 2011 at 8:01:53 PM permalink
Wow. We have some pretty low people around here, it appears. I doubt you'll get an apology, though; someone like that is the kind of person who wouldn't think they were wrong by doing it.
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January 12th, 2011 at 12:03:11 AM permalink
suggestion noted. I think if you block pms then you should not be able to send them.
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January 19th, 2011 at 4:34:25 PM permalink
Quote: Wizard

suggestion noted. I think if you block pms then you should not be able to send them.



Well, it just happened again yesterday. Another forum member unloaded on me, threatened me, and when I went to respond, they have blocked PM's. This gives them the ability to harass with impunity because we can't reveal a PM's contents to the forum with getting banned. Nice....
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January 19th, 2011 at 4:51:50 PM permalink
Surely you can reveal it directly to the Wizard.... or at least mention to the moderators (via PM) whose been hassling you. No need to air the linen in public.
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January 19th, 2011 at 5:27:37 PM permalink
Quote: thecesspit

Surely you can reveal it directly to the Wizard.... or at least mention to the moderators (via PM) whose been hassling you. No need to air the linen in public.



You can't air it in public, you can't reveal the contents of a PM without getting banned.
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January 19th, 2011 at 5:32:00 PM permalink
Quote: thecesspit

Surely you can reveal it directly to the Wizard.... or at least mention to the moderators (via PM) whose been hassling you. No need to air the linen in public.



Copy the PM from the offending member to the mods and/or Wizard. In spite of what goes on here, no one should be threatened or harassed.

If there is no way to fix this, I believe the rule about revealing information in PMs from members should be amended to allow posting openly threats and harassment. I'd view it kind of like the football challenge flag. You challenge the PM. The Wizard/mods determine if it is outside the lines. If it is, the sender is banished for a period of time. If it turns out to be something that is not out of bounds, you are banished. The goal would be only to reveal PMs that go beyond the standards the Wizard wants to keep.

The first option is better, of course. The person who sends offensive PMs won't like either option.
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January 19th, 2011 at 5:33:01 PM permalink
This was an oversight, which I just fixed. However, it probably won't be a terribly effective fix since, as previously mentioned, someone could enable PMs to send a harassing message and then disable them again.

I'll come up with a solution. I'll start a poll with a few different choices so that everyone can vote on the option they like best.
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January 19th, 2011 at 5:39:56 PM permalink
Quote: JB

This was an oversight, which I just fixed. However, it probably won't be a terribly effective fix since, as previously mentioned, someone could enable PMs to send a harassing message and then disable them again.

I'll come up with a solution. I'll start a poll with a few different choices so that everyone can vote on the option they like best.



Thank You! It really is frustrating that anybody can say whatever they want to you and you have absolutely no method of reply.
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January 19th, 2011 at 5:57:55 PM permalink
I think you should be able to reveal abusive PMs. Out the offender as the grub that they are. Why should it be ok to abuse in private but not in public?
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:03:46 PM permalink
Quote: JB


I'll come up with a solution. I'll start a poll with a few different choices so that everyone can vote on the option they like best.



If private pm and post blocking could be chosen independently for any poster, that should do it.

-block only posts
-block only pms
-block pms and posts
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:13:05 PM permalink
Quote: JB

I'll come up with a solution. I'll start a poll with a few different choices so that everyone can vote on the option they like best.

I already stated a solution, in the second post on the first page:

Perhaps the fix for both of these scenarios is that if a person sends a PM, then, regardless of the option, the recipient must be allowed to send a response.


I admit I know nothing about coding this solution, but logistically, that's the answer.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:17:16 PM permalink
Quote: rxwine

If private pm and post blocking could be chosen independently for any poster, that should do it.

-block only posts
-block only pms
-block pms and posts


That's not a bad idea, but it wouldn't solve the underlying problem.

Suppose Alice and Bob have no previous problem with each other (and therefore neither has blocked the other). Then Alice reads something that Bob wrote which infuriates her. She sends Bob a harassing PM, and immediately after doing so, she blocks PMs coming from him. Bob is now powerless to respond to her harassing PM. That is the underlying problem.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:18:10 PM permalink
Quote: DJTeddyBear

I already stated a solution, in the second post on the first page:

Perhaps the fix for both of these scenarios is that if a person sends a PM, then, regardless of the option, the recipient must be allowed to send a response.


I admit I know nothing about coding this solution, but logistically, that's the answer.


There are other possible solutions too. I'll create the poll shortly.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:19:13 PM permalink
The only solution is, if you opt out of receiving PM's, you also opt out of sending them. And if you do send one, the person must be allowed to reply, you can't turn the function on and off like a light switch.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:28:32 PM permalink
Quote: JB

That's not a bad idea, but it wouldn't solve the underlying problem.

Suppose Alice and Bob have no previous problem with each other (and therefore neither has blocked the other). Then Alice reads something that Bob wrote which infuriates her. She sends Bob a harassing PM, and immediately after doing so, she blocks PMs coming from him. Bob is now powerless to respond to her harassing PM. That is the underlying problem.



But after you block someone's pms, they have no choice but to continue contact in the open if they want to be hostile. Yeah, you have to take one shot off the bow though.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:31:39 PM permalink
If people want to continue petty fights back and forth behind the scenes, it still taxes the system, doesn't it? It's ya'lls dime, I guess.
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January 19th, 2011 at 6:37:50 PM permalink
Quote: JB



Suppose Alice and Bob have no previous problem with each other



Not Alice again, is she here too? I already explained that to my wife years ago...
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January 19th, 2011 at 7:05:59 PM permalink
After careful consideration of all of the other options I came up with, I agree that the only solution is to always allow replies to a sent PM regardless of the sender's settings.

So, this will take me a little while to implement but it is of course doable. I'll either reply to this thread or start a new one in the Announcements section once the change has been made.
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January 19th, 2011 at 7:09:26 PM permalink
Quote: JB



So, this will take me a little while to implement but it is of course doable.



Thanks for your attention to this. When someone sends such a PM that you can't respond to, what they really want is for you to blab the details of it on the forum so you then get banned. Nice try, no soup for you!
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