is he cheating

hi my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years and we have a daughter together started textin a girl from his works he texted her 125 times off his mobile then when i found out cos of itemised billing he started textin another 75 times of a dongal all the messages have been deleted has he done more with her ?did he want to do more?when i ask him he say they where friends should i leave should i stay .do u think he stopped textin her or has he found another way to do this please help also i just found out im pregnant too .thanks for any help x

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hi my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years and we have a daughter together started textin a girl from his works he texted her 125 times off his mobile then when i found out cos of itemised billing he started textin another 75 times of a dongal all the messages have been deleted has he done more with her ?did he want to do more?when i ask him he say they where friends should i leave should i stay .do u think he stopped textin her or has he found another way to do this please help also i just found out im pregnant too .thanks for any help x

Is he cheating? ABSOLUTELY! If he hasn't married you after 6.5 years and now 2 kids there is a reason.

Should you stay with him? Probaly doesn't matter, because my bet is even if you break up with him you will just take him back later. Most likely within a year or less.

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Quote: staceylexie

hi my boyfriend of 6 1/2 years and we have a daughter together started textin a girl from his works he texted her 125 times off his mobile then when i found out cos of itemised billing he started textin another 75 times of a dongal all the messages have been deleted has he done more with her ?did he want to do more?when i ask him he say they where friends should i leave should i stay .do u think he stopped textin her or has he found another way to do this please help also i just found out im pregnant too .thanks for any help x

Is he cheating? ABSOLUTELY! If he hasn't married you after 6.5 years and now 2 kids there is a reason.

Should you stay with him? Probaly doesn't matter, because my bet is even if you break up with him you will just take him back later. Most likely within a year or less.

Is this a relationship forum? No.

But mathematically speaking, there is 100% probability that the man is cheating on you.

There are other websites out there that will help you -- Cheaters.com for one. But you can also go to counselling.

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...but you can also go to counseling.

The best possiple advice! You need professional help, not a bunch of hack amatures saying what they think you should do. BTW, I agree with the 100% probability estimate.

perhaps she heard the Wizard has been known to help damsels in distress


https://wizardofodds.com/ask-the-wizard/boyfriend/

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perhaps she heard the Wizard has been known to help damsels in distress


https://wizardofodds.com/ask-the-wizard/boyfriend/

Well, I thought it was interesting because when Wiz posts some of those "cheater" emails I can't believe the bad grammar, etc. Maybe we could have a forum for this and take some pressure off Wiz?

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Well, I thought it was interesting because when Wiz posts some of those "cheater" emails I can't believe the bad grammar, etc. Maybe we could have a forum for this and take some pressure off Wiz?

Looks like that is what we are doing, however I feel kind of bad, I think she perhaps just wanted to contact the Wizard.

I'm thinking someone in Mr. Shackleford's shoes could find himself getting in deep water doing this stuff.

If you do a Google search on "cheating boyfriend" I come up in the second page. Why, I don't know. Since she posted publicly, anyone is free to answer. It wouldn't surprise me if the question was a prank anyway, as a satire of previous questions, and/or of Tiger Woods' problems.

I pretty much agree with the replies already given anyway. Of course the guy is probably cheating. Anybody who writes that badly probably doesn't have much bargaining power to put a stop to it. My advice would be to either dump the guy, or turn a blind eye to the cheating, whichever way she'd be better off.

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Maybe we could have a forum for this and take some pressure off Wiz?

"we" ?

Aren't there any forums out there that cater to relationship questions?

Personally, I'd like to ask this airhead if she knows what a 'period' is.



Ummm.... Hmmm.... Errrr.... Change that to 'punctuation'.

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If you do a Google search on "cheating boyfriend" I come up in the second page. Why, I don't know. Since she posted publicly, anyone is free to answer. It wouldn't surprise me if the question was a prank anyway, as a satire of previous questions, and/or of Tiger Woods' problems.

I pretty much agree with the replies already given anyway. Of course the guy is probably cheating. Anybody who writes that badly probably doesn't have much bargaining power to put a stop to it. My advice would be to either dump the guy, or turn a blind eye to the cheating, whichever way she'd be better off.

I was going to mention the lack of barganing power due to lack of education but didn't want to get blacklisted. But reading somke of the letters you posted I see a difinate corelation between lack of education (based on inability to write a gramaticlly corredt sentence) and getting cheated on or at least not seeing the guy is cheating when everyone else can.

My question would be is this type of woman just happy to get any guy at all due to (justified?) low self-esteem or is it a lack of intellect (vs education)that carries over to not seeing what is really going on?

While I agree with you, Wiz, that dump/blind eye she would be better off I stand by my statement, if she dumps him she will take him back in under a year.

Merry Christmas all!

I stole this from someone at Fark who, in turn, stole it from somewhere else (probably Something Awful):

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I love advice threads. I'm going to sum up every single advice thread Fark has ever had.

Ready?

Submitter: "Help! HELP! I'm stuck in a well!!!"
Farkers1-4: "Climb! Climb up and take our hands!"
Submitter: "I'm thinking I should dig... should I dig?"
Farker5: "NO! I was trapped in a well, and digging is a bad idea! Climb out!"
Farkers6-8: "We're lowering ropes! Take hold of a rope!"
Farker9: "I've even tied a harness to the end of this one!"
Submitter: "I can feel the ropes, but I don't want to hold onto them... should I dig?"
Farker10: "No! If you dig, you'll hit water, and then you'll be proper hosed. I should know, I almost drowned."
Submitter: "I dug a little bit just now, and I haven't hit water. I'm gonna keep digging..."
Farkers11-18: "No! Climb! Climb out!"
Submitter: "Guys, I'm seriously stuck in this well! Help! HELP!!!"
Farker19: "I was trapped in a well once. It took me two years, but I managed to build a climbing machine that pulled me to safety out of a well bucket and a pocket watch. I'm dropping the blueprints, extra buckets, and an assortment of pocket watches."
Farker20: "I've engineered a jet-pack that will rocket you to safety. Stay where you are and we'll lower it down!""
Submitter: "Thanks for your help, guys. I'm gonna keep digging. I'll find the Mines of Moria and I'll just walk to the surface."
**Farkers1-20 piss in the well**
Farker21: "Guys, seriously... stop peeing in the well."

People like OP are probably why the Wizard stopped taking relationship questions long ago.