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DJTeddyBear
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February 22nd, 2012 at 11:08:13 AM permalink
Quote: SOOPOO

What does she say about it?

This is important.

Tread slowly and carefully and you could find yourself winning the sexual lottery - having a wife/girlfriend who has a habit of bringing home another girl for the two of you to share.

Sexual Nirvana my friend. Be careful and you may get there.
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February 22nd, 2012 at 11:19:45 AM permalink
Quote: thlf

I would ask for the 3 way.



Ditto. But it might make you crazy if another chick gets her off better than you!
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February 22nd, 2012 at 11:31:23 AM permalink
Quote: odiousgambit

In Lesbian couples, you often see Male/Female role echoes, and for the one playing the female side anyway, I have been quite convinced in many cases they could be turned, as you put it. I say go for it but be aware that their bisexuality is confirmed, whatever that might mean for the future. I can picture that if you have relationship troubles she might turn back, so to speak.



Yeah, she was definately a "lipstick lesbian". Her g/f was the short hair, boy clothes, tomboy athlete. And I thought about a "regress", but... is it any different than any other relationship? I mean, if you meet someone straight, there's always a chance that they go back to an ex or move on to someone else, right? Is this so different?

Quote: Tiltpoul

Because of this, don't look at what you did as conquering her or changing her sexuality. That could lead to a lot of problems down the road. You need to view her as a special person and not define what she was or is. If she wants to be with you, awesome.



Joking and puffing-of-chest aside, I don't look at it as a "conquering". I had to put that in there (I am sort of a typical guy, after all) but really, I like this chick. We have so many common interests and such crazy chemistry... that's what I'm focused on. I don't define her, I just... I'm off the map. I think I know a lot about relationships, enough to know that I know nothing about women. Then add this... and I'm out in that grey area of the map that says "Here thar be dragons" ;)

Quote: SOOPOO

What does she say about it?



We've talked about it. She admitted questioning her gayness, saying even her g/f used to say the only reason they were together is because the g/f was such a dude. And she confided that back in our work days, she had thoughts of "us". But she said she just "didn't know how to go about it" when it came to guys. I don't know. Honestly, although this was a somewhat long convo, it wasn't long enough, you know? Not long enough to really understand and get a feel of where she stands on herself. I guess time will tell ;)

But c'mon, SOOPOO, give a guy a little credit. I'm not "banging" anyone lol ;) I'm taking it slow and just enjoying the courtship, all those stupid "feel like a 14yr old" feelings all over again. She plays rugby and lacrosse, runs marathons, carries a gun, loves the Leafs, and wants nothing more than to be in the woods. Oh, and she is GORGEOUS. I'm not about to muck this up by complicating things with sex too soon ;)

Quote: 1BB

Talk about a New York minute. That's the fastest divorce involving a child that I've ever heard of!



That's what happens when people put self aside for benefit of child. We still talk, we're still friendly, we're still "family" with each other's fams, she hasn't taken one single dollar in support from me to let me get on my feet... we're making it work and things are looking good =)
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February 22nd, 2012 at 11:40:27 AM permalink
You guys and your three ways ;) Oh, man...

Have you ever owned a woman's mind? If you've ever managed to get inside and set up shop, really please that area behind her eyes, you will reap pleasures that no amount of additional sexual partners could possibly attain. That is my goal, THAT is Nirvana =D
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February 22nd, 2012 at 12:46:42 PM permalink
You can't 'turn' a real Lesbian, therefore she wasn't.
Be careful, you're in the inevitable rebound relationship
that comes with every divorce. Its not real, they seldom
last or work out. Let it play out, have good time, in 6
months come back and read this thread and see if you
don't smack your forehead and say WTF was I thinking..
This woman obviously wanted you when you were married
and is probably living out some kind of fantasy she had
about you. She'll get over it, and then you'll see what you
really have together.
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February 22nd, 2012 at 3:25:22 PM permalink
Wise words, EB. I'm definitely living in the moment, just enjoying it for what it is. Perhaps it is just what you said, but man, what a ride =)
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SOOPOO
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February 23rd, 2012 at 10:35:01 AM permalink
Quote: Face



But c'mon, SOOPOO, give a guy a little credit. I'm not "banging" anyone lol ;) I'm not about to muck this up by complicating things with sex too soon ;)



No offense meant, face, but I would guess that anyone reading your original post would have surmised you were sexually intimate. And until you see how she reacts the day after your first 'consumation', it is hard to classify your relationship as 'turning' her. One of my best friends is a lesbian. She'd kill me if she knew I used the 'turned' phrase....

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