boyfriend troubles

My boyfriend, me, my brother ,and my friend dani were drinking one night and my boyfriend starts texting this chick named justine that he gives rides to and before we were dating he liked her. We get all wasted and chill out and end up passing out. I wake up to text messages on my boyfriends phone saying that he wanted justine to be safe and don't drive home, and that he loves her more then a friend. The girl justine said what about nicole(me) and he said i know it's bad isn't it. and she said well shit happens, and he said that he would have to talk to her in person about how much he likes her. He's given rides to justine behind my back before and promises he has never done anything with a chick before. We've been dating for about 2 years now and he's is very protective over me and never wants me to be around any guys, but he thinks it's okay to go with other chicks. Is that a sign of him cheating? what should i do?

He likes her more than he likes you.

It doesn't matter if he has cheated already or not, because he likes her more than he likes you.

Do you want to be with someone who doesn't treat you the way you should be treated?

If yes, then keep doing what you've been doing. If no, then break up with him. I'm sure you can find a guy that will treat you well.

If there is one thing almost all these stories have in common it is the girl snooping on the guys cell phone. Do with that what you wish.

My 2¢ is that this guy is kind of a jerk. I'd tell him you want some time apart. You sound young and both of you should have experiences with different people to find what kind of person you want to spend the rest of your lives with. Personally I wouldn't want to spend it with somebody excessively jealous, but not playing by his own rules.

As I always say, listen to what your brain is telling you to do.

Yeah this guy is bad news. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be willing to risk anything with these behind your back rides and texts. Hopefully you aren't the type of girl who enjoys drama or this type of emotional abuse and you can exit the situation. He said he has never done anything with a chick before? I'm not sure how old you two are so it's hard to give advice.

I'm curious, what made you choose Thewizardofvegas forum for this topic? There are some smart people on here so it might have been a good move on your part.

Dump him.

What is wrong with an open relationship? Perhaps he needs to date the both of you simultaneously in order to know he is making the correct choice.

>My boyfriend, me, my brother ,and my friend dani were drinking one night
I have a feeling its more than just one night.
>We get all wasted and chill out and end up passing out.
A novel experience for each of you, I'm sure!
>We've been dating for about 2 years now
Wow. It sure takes you a long time to wake up and face reality.
>he's is very protective over me
protective or restrictive and controlling?
>what should i do?
Probably just stay a drunken doormat.

Quote: Wizard

If there is one thing almost all these stories have in common it is the girl snooping on the guys cell phone.

I noticed that too. It wouldnt surprise Billy Joel I don't think.

If you're under 44, best to stay single and play the field.

Quote: Wavy70

What is wrong with an open relationship? Perhaps he needs to date the both of you simultaneously in order to know he is making the correct choice.

Open relationships are fine, but she didn't have the same prerogative.