I need to know if I should leave him or not?

Quote: gambler

I keep wondering why people keep asking for advice on relationships here.

1. Google
2. Because we answer!

Also, I think it's bad form to criticize a poster's grammar, spelling, lack of paragraphs, "ghetto language" and so on. I think the only point when you do that is to make yourself feel better than that person by publicly shaming them.

Not everyone has good language skills, so if you want to answer their question, answer. If you see a long block of text with misspelling, then click onto something else.

I'll make an exception for people WHO TYPE LIKE THIS FOR AN ENTIRE POST. We can yell at them.

Anyway, my advice always to every poster seems to always be to break up. I think it's because I'm so happy with my wife, that I think everyone deserves that. Or maybe I'm just really lucky and everyone should stay together...

Quote: Wizard

I'd love to see the transcript of this cat fight, if you still have it.

The more important point is not what was said but why the call was ever made in the first place.

She knew this woman was 300 miles away. She knew the length of her boyfriends penis. She knows how far and how often he can travel. Simple math makes it impossible for there to have been anything going on. She knew that but she makes a useless senseless phone call that intentionally escalates the situation. And it all involves some sort of sexy cyberchat which she herself seems to have engaged in with other men.

Its rather clear she is the source of the trouble with this other woman, the source of the trouble with her boyfriend and the one who has to change her actions so as attract better men or atleast offer them a stable, pleasant relationship.

Quote: FinsRule

Also, I think it's bad form to criticize a poster's grammar, spelling, lack of paragraphs, "ghetto language" and so on.

That actually one of the best written of such "cheating boyfriend" questions I have received. I've seen MUCH worse.

Quote: s2dbaker

First, you're asking for personal relationship advice from a bunch of people whose primary interest here is gambling and Las Vegas. I suspect that you already know the answer. Dump him! Send the bum packing. You'll find another bum.

I agree with every word of this!!!

This sounds like a teen mom reality show type of relationship. Maybe Jerry Springer(now I am dating myself). If you are not talking and fighting and he is off bad mouthing you to another girl behind your back end it. What are doing still with him? You are not happy neither is he so why continue an unhappy union?

I think you should give him another chance. You both did bad things - you admitted to doing the same thing he did on Facebook as he did. You spied on him. You should forgive him and yourself because you are as guilty as he is.

Don't throw 3 years down the toilet without at least giving it another try. Continue the couples counselling. Both of you should delete your Facebook pages.

Sorry this relationship has doomed written all over it. In fact if you are lucky, the worst thing would be for it to become a just go your seperate ways breakup.

You say you love him but you do not trust him. Are these two mutually exclusive? Are you sure it is love you feel and not emotional dependency? If you can write " We just don't get along anymore", why are you still there if you are economically independent. Time to move on and get your life together.

Not sure what this is doing on WOO, I am sure there are plenty of sites for this type of post; Jerry Springer, Dr. Phil, Cheaters, etc. or the new 1 w/ Wendy Williams
( or should I say Hilliams, :), Love Triangle.

There *is* a probability aspect here, as it turns out.

If you think you should break up, you should.

You never "think" a significant other is The One. You KNOW it. With probability 1. Ergo, anyone for whom you do not feel this way should be cut loose.