Best friend problem
January 19th, 2014 at 7:22:04 PM
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Ok we'll my two best friends are mad at me cause I told 3 people that there bi I dodnt know why I told them now they saying there not bi and now there saying to me to watch my back and now I'm scared and I dodnt know what to do I'm crying I'm so so so so scared and I dodnt want to loose them there my best friends and i feel terrible a back staber and I messed up with them I think they dodnt wanna talk to me anymore right now I'm just crying and shacking and felling regretful and I don't know what to do cause they told me to watch my back And I know she can fight and now my other best friend doesn't trust me anymore what should I do ? please help me
January 19th, 2014 at 7:24:08 PM
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this is an easy one....double down. lol
January 19th, 2014 at 7:34:02 PM
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Scissor me timbers!
Apologize to your friends because you're a bad friend to them and shouldn't get your jollies from talking about other people. Don't gossip and get some real hobbies.
Apologize to your friends because you're a bad friend to them and shouldn't get your jollies from talking about other people. Don't gossip and get some real hobbies.
I am a robot.
January 19th, 2014 at 7:35:57 PM
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We can't afford another "juicyjennie" thread....please :)
“There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.” - Winston Churchill
January 19th, 2014 at 7:52:54 PM
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I know I'm a bad friend I tried apologing and she said this ( her i dont no what to say i need time to think :s i dont no wat to belive) and now I'm really sorry for what I did to them
January 19th, 2014 at 7:55:00 PM
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I think you hit on 16 if the dealer is showing 7-A, otherwise stand. Always split 8s?
I would start apologizing, and if they have access to firearms, seek shelter at a friends.
I would start apologizing, and if they have access to firearms, seek shelter at a friends.
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You want the truth! You can't handle the truth!
January 19th, 2014 at 8:00:15 PM
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well Kathy, my initial response was an attempt at humor. Since this is a gambling related site and I am a blackjack player I just threw out 'double down' in an attempt at humor. I just assumed this thread would be removed by mods, but when it wasn't, I was sorry that I did, and tried to delete, but was unable.
So now, you get my true thoughts. You are a troll as, your topic is...well just off topic. lol But, if your story is even remotely true, you are not only a bad friend, but a bad person. People sexuality is a very personal thing. Outing someone can have huge negative consequences and it is a very personal thing to deal with coming out. You had no right to do so. You should be ashamed of yourself.
So now, you get my true thoughts. You are a troll as, your topic is...well just off topic. lol But, if your story is even remotely true, you are not only a bad friend, but a bad person. People sexuality is a very personal thing. Outing someone can have huge negative consequences and it is a very personal thing to deal with coming out. You had no right to do so. You should be ashamed of yourself.
January 19th, 2014 at 8:03:23 PM
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Expect the worst and you will never be disappointed.
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January 19th, 2014 at 8:03:24 PM
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If the mods had caught this thread before people replied to it, they might well have deleted it. Once there are replies, they tend not to eliminate the OP. You are always welcome to simply flag a post without responding to it, which puts it in front of a mod more quickly for deletion if necessary.
And, kewlj, +1 on your true thoughts. Couldn't agree more.
And, kewlj, +1 on your true thoughts. Couldn't agree more.
If the House lost every hand, they wouldn't deal the game.
January 19th, 2014 at 8:05:04 PM
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Quote: GWAE
+1
“There is something about the outside of a horse that is good for the inside of a man.” - Winston Churchill
January 19th, 2014 at 8:21:11 PM
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Funny stuff! ...Wow im defiantly getting a laugh here today.Quote: GWAE
The OP has got to be the most out of sync post I have ever seen on this forum. I think someones playing games on the forum. Then again this sounded to far off to be fake.
♪♪Now you swear and kick and beg us That you're not a gamblin' man Then you find you're back in Vegas With a handle in your hand♪♪ Your black cards can make you money So you hide them when you're able In the land of casinos and money You must put them on the table♪♪ You go back Jack do it again roulette wheels turinin' 'round and 'round♪♪ You go back Jack do it again♪♪
January 20th, 2014 at 8:27:48 AM
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I don't know, I mean this is the advice section and you never know. I have seen people ask stuff in the oddest places. Better to answer and it be a troll than dismiss someone and they feel helpless. Then again I have seen people kill themselves over things that seem this trivial so maybe my perspective is skewed.
Maybe we can start herding people over to DT and there the truth could be extrapolated a bit more efficiently.
As far as the bi thing. Yeah I mean let people come out in their own time. Sometimes people aren't even sure what they are or what preferences they have. I mean there are plenty of housewives would messed around in college with other women but would they be considered gay? Labeling people is dangerous and especially when it's unsolicited. Do a heartfelt apology and state that you will never talk about someone's personal business to others. If you can't keep that promise then apologize and leave them be. It's really on their terms if you will be forgiven or not. If you fear for your safety, do a phone call, e-mail or letter.
Now I just need to find out what the scientific name is for someone who is attracted to Pizza Rolls :(
Maybe we can start herding people over to DT and there the truth could be extrapolated a bit more efficiently.
As far as the bi thing. Yeah I mean let people come out in their own time. Sometimes people aren't even sure what they are or what preferences they have. I mean there are plenty of housewives would messed around in college with other women but would they be considered gay? Labeling people is dangerous and especially when it's unsolicited. Do a heartfelt apology and state that you will never talk about someone's personal business to others. If you can't keep that promise then apologize and leave them be. It's really on their terms if you will be forgiven or not. If you fear for your safety, do a phone call, e-mail or letter.
Now I just need to find out what the scientific name is for someone who is attracted to Pizza Rolls :(
January 20th, 2014 at 8:53:14 AM
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We haven't had a good personal advice questions for a while. My answer may be controversial but here goes...
What you did was very wrong and you should feel badly about it. I assume already made your best apologies but your friends didn't accept it.
I'm sure Dear Abby would never say this, but given that at least one of them said "watch your back" I would suggest meeting in a park somewhere to just get it over with. Take your beating like a man. Hopefully it won't be too bad and you can resume being friends afterward.
What you did was very wrong and you should feel badly about it. I assume already made your best apologies but your friends didn't accept it.
I'm sure Dear Abby would never say this, but given that at least one of them said "watch your back" I would suggest meeting in a park somewhere to just get it over with. Take your beating like a man. Hopefully it won't be too bad and you can resume being friends afterward.
"For with much wisdom comes much sorrow." -- Ecclesiastes 1:18 (NIV)
January 20th, 2014 at 8:55:24 AM
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Quote: WizardTake your beating like a man.
Pretty sure the OP is female.
"In my own case, when it seemed to me after a long illness that death was close at hand, I found no little solace in playing constantly at dice."
-- Girolamo Cardano, 1563
January 20th, 2014 at 9:03:02 AM
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Quote: MathExtremistPretty sure the OP is female.
I know. It is a figure of speech.
"For with much wisdom comes much sorrow." -- Ecclesiastes 1:18 (NIV)
January 20th, 2014 at 9:11:56 AM
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I was expecting another math problem from dblanch when I read the title...
Part of it went on gambling, and part of it went on women. The rest I spent foolishly.
-George Raft
January 20th, 2014 at 9:29:46 AM
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Quote: WizardWe haven't had a good personal advice questions for a while. My answer may be controversial but here goes...
What you did was very wrong and you should feel badly about it. I assume already made your best apologies but your friends didn't accept it.
I'm sure Dear Abby would never say this, but given that at least one of them said "watch your back" I would suggest meeting in a park somewhere to just get it over with. Take your beating like a man. Hopefully it won't be too bad and you can resume being friends afterward.
I have to say that this is probably the worst advice I have ever heard you utter, wizard. Do you realize that there is a history of people actually killing one another over this very issue. Again, some people, especially young people, who I presume we are talking about, can be so humiliated that they mistakenly think their world is over and will respond with a completely inappropriate act, by doing something that will actually change their lives forever.
Telling them to meet in a park and hash it out. Really? Don't give up your day job wiz.
January 20th, 2014 at 9:37:55 AM
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My question is why on earth did you decide to tell people this? I see you say "you don't know why" but I believe you do know.
I am assuming you made the story up based on the tone of your post and their reactions. "Best Friends" with them? Don't count on them even talking to you again much less be friends again.
My advice is this. On a windy day get a feather pillow, cut the feathers out, wait 30 minutes. Then go and retrieve all the feathers to the pillow. When you have done that I will have your answer.
I am assuming you made the story up based on the tone of your post and their reactions. "Best Friends" with them? Don't count on them even talking to you again much less be friends again.
My advice is this. On a windy day get a feather pillow, cut the feathers out, wait 30 minutes. Then go and retrieve all the feathers to the pillow. When you have done that I will have your answer.
All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others
January 20th, 2014 at 9:45:14 AM
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Quote: kewljI have to say that this is probably the worst advice I have ever heard you utter, wizard. Do you realize that there is a history of people actually killing one another over this very issue. Again, some people, especially young people, who I presume we are talking about, can be so humiliated that they mistakenly think their world is over and will respond with a completely inappropriate act, by doing something that will actually change their lives forever.
I admit this is way out of my "day job" but I think the beating would not be as bad if it were consensual as opposed to a carefully planned out surprise attack.
If you have better advice, I'm all ears.
"For with much wisdom comes much sorrow." -- Ecclesiastes 1:18 (NIV)
January 20th, 2014 at 9:55:19 AM
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Quote: WizardI admit this is way out of my "day job" but I think the beating would not be as bad if it were consensual as opposed to a carefully planned out surprise attack.
If you have better advice, I'm all ears.
Yes, I do. Kathy should invite her two lesbo friends over for a sleepover. A little pillow fighting. A little tickling. And everything will be ok. Make love...not war. :-)
No, I don't have serious advice. I am still trying to figure out if the poster is really seeking advice, which certainly doesn't make sense on this site, or if this is in fact all a bunch of trollish nonsense.
January 20th, 2014 at 10:02:22 AM
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Quote: kewljNo, I don't have serious advice. I am still trying to figure out if the poster is really seeking advice, which certainly doesn't make sense on this site, or if this is in fact all a bunch of trollish nonsense.
Before the WoV I got "cheating boyfriend" advice questions all the time. I ranked in the first page of Google for such terms as "cheating boyfriend advice." Just goes to show that you never know what Google is looking for regarding SEO.
So there is at least a 50/50 chance the question is serious, in my opinion. Given that possibility, I would rather err on the side of assuming it is legitimate.
"For with much wisdom comes much sorrow." -- Ecclesiastes 1:18 (NIV)
January 20th, 2014 at 10:05:53 AM
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Quote: WizardBefore the WoV I got "cheating boyfriend" advice questions all the time. I ranked in the first page of Google for such terms as "cheating boyfriend advice." Just goes to show that you never know what Google is looking for regarding SEO.
So there is at least a 50/50 chance the question is serious, in my opinion. Given that possibility, I would rather err on the side of assuming it is legitimate.
Hum, interesting. Didn't know this. Now I know where to submit my 'cheating boyfriend' questions. Lol
January 20th, 2014 at 10:50:35 AM
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Quote: Kathyx33I know I'm a bad friend I tried apologing and she said this ( her i dont no what to say i need time to think :s i dont no wat to belive) and now I'm really sorry for what I did to them
This is Dear Wizard, not Dear Abby.
"Quit trying your luck and start trying your skill." Mickey Crimm
January 20th, 2014 at 12:44:37 PM
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I can't figure out if the OP is 12 or 13. I'm
guessing 12, maybe. That's about the age
when your rep can be ruined by people
spreading rumors about you. But it's a
hoax anyway, it doesn't matter.
guessing 12, maybe. That's about the age
when your rep can be ruined by people
spreading rumors about you. But it's a
hoax anyway, it doesn't matter.
"It's not called gambling if the math is on your side."
January 20th, 2014 at 12:58:48 PM
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What, nobody's drooling all over themselves to meet this one? Don't forget the Mike's Hard Lemonade and be sure to get Chris Hansen's autograph.
Many people, especially ignorant people, want to punish you for speaking the truth. - Mahatma Ghandi
January 20th, 2014 at 1:08:57 PM
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Me too!Quote: TranscendI was expecting another math problem from dblanch when I read the title...
Challenge: try to find a math problem with that title...
Reperiet qui quaesiverit
January 20th, 2014 at 1:25:48 PM
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Quote: EvenBobI can't figure out if the OP is 12 or 13. I'm
guessing 12, maybe. That's about the age
when your rep can be ruined by people
spreading rumors about you. But it's a
hoax anyway, it doesn't matter.
Most people get over it after high school so don't worry op.
"Man Babes" #AxelFabulous
January 20th, 2014 at 1:28:26 PM
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DUHHIIIIIIIII HEARD THAT!
January 20th, 2014 at 1:30:54 PM
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I think the best solution is to convince the other girls taking revenge is evidence against them proving they're bi. Do it privately so nobody will goad them otherwise.
Finish with laying it on the line saying,"What's it going to be ladies, lesbians or cowards. Your choice but I would just be smart and be a coward."
Word for word to scare them into not hurting you or they will stomp you.
Finish with laying it on the line saying,"What's it going to be ladies, lesbians or cowards. Your choice but I would just be smart and be a coward."
Word for word to scare them into not hurting you or they will stomp you.
I am a robot.
January 21st, 2014 at 1:45:34 AM
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Quote: 1BBWhat, nobody's drooling all over themselves to meet this one? Don't forget the Mike's Hard Lemonade and be sure to get Chris Hansen's autograph.
Why don't you have a seat over there?
"So drink gamble eat f***, because one day you will be dust." -ontariodealer
January 21st, 2014 at 5:29:03 PM
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Quote: IbeatyouracesBefore he joined Dateline NBC, he was a reporter here in Detroit.
I really enjoyed that show. Its a shame that guy had to kill himself. (not Chris)
Expect the worst and you will never be disappointed.
I AM NOT PART OF GWAE RADIO SHOW
January 21st, 2014 at 5:30:36 PM
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Why are all these non related to anything from brand new member threads popping up
The bet will not be paid- not now not ever
January 21st, 2014 at 5:37:27 PM
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DUHHIIIIIIIII HEARD THAT!
January 21st, 2014 at 5:39:30 PM
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Quote: strictlyAPWhy are all these non related to anything from brand new member threads popping up
Why indeed? What's sad is that good members are probably going to get suspended over this nonsense before it goes away.
Many people, especially ignorant people, want to punish you for speaking the truth. - Mahatma Ghandi
January 21st, 2014 at 5:41:42 PM
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January 21st, 2014 at 7:12:23 PM
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Quote: 1BBWhy indeed? What's sad is that good members are probably going to get suspended over this nonsense before it goes away.
+1
If the House lost every hand, they wouldn't deal the game.
